is it normal for a husband/boyfriend in long term relationship to masturbate and fancying other strange women (in magezine, TV, Movie, past lovers, stranger on the street...)? why they doing this? the strangeness turns him on? do they just use their wife/girlfriend's body and fancying having intercourse with other women's images in their mind?
2007-06-12 03:22:23 · 15 answers · asked by sabella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hold on! it is just fine to fantasize. but then it should be limited to that only. there should NOT be any comparisons drawn or discussions during or before or after the sex. in fact if the fantasy is limited to mind only and not shown in any other way then it may be considered healthy as well.
2007-06-12 03:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's normal for people to masturbate. Don't you? And it's normal to look at porn and fantasize. Don't you ever have some non-existent man in your mind while you are being intimate.
The love that you have with a partner has nothing to do with fantasizing about other things.
No, I don't think this means they are using your body and thinking about someone else. Not if they love you.
Loosen up - fantasizing is completely normal and fun.
2007-06-12 10:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by nite_angelica 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to fantasize and masturbate. A husband/boyfriend will not be thinking of someone else when having sex with their wife/ girlfriend - at least if they are in love.
2007-06-12 10:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by locumbeta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you've heard from just about everyone, it's perfectly normal for men (and women) to fantasize about sex and to masturbate.
Seems to me you're doing the usual chick thing and confusing sex with love. They really don't have that much to do with each other as far as guys are concerned. And neither have anything to do with masturbation which is more a primal urge in my book.
As long as his masturbation doesn't intrude on your love life let him get on with it and relax.
2007-06-12 10:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by crow3862000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy is cool, as long as it doesn't become obsessive. I fantasize about Vida Guerra and Mayra Veronica and my wife fantasizes about the Rock and LL Cool J, but we take care of one another so that the fantasy stays just that...and together we make our reality breathtaking.
2007-06-12 10:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by Big Daddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it is just a fantasy, but if it is affecting your marraige then it is an issue, or else it is normal. Would you rather fantasies and masturbate or actually sleep with other women. Got to learn to choose your battles... good luck.
2007-06-12 10:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, men just like to masturbate. Its a natural thing and it doesnt mean that he doesnt like you anymore. I could get sex every single day and I would still probably masturbate.
2007-06-12 10:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. Men are definitely different when it comes to sex. As long as he just fantasizes and doesn't act on it, I wouldn't worry about it.
2007-06-12 10:27:29 · answer #8 · answered by cherylincanada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the most normal, common and natural thing in the world.
2007-06-12 10:28:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be they do but why are you asking? i mean does it interfere with you. i would think not so why ask for trouble or are you trying to find an out. if its out you want leave no one is holding you. gosh, girl this is something new i haven't near learnt about.
2007-06-12 10:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋