I am black but I love latins girls, and have dated white, mixed, and asian. My family are not racist but want me to find a girl within my race. I am not prejudice agianst black girls and most girls i date are black. I just like who ever i am attracted to. is that a problem?
2007-06-12 03:31:33 · 18 answers · asked by playa4life01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think there is anything wrong with that at all, I myself am in a inter-racial relationship. As long as the person makes you happy, I dont think it matters who you are dating and what color they are. I really hope that your family will support you in this. Good luck!
2007-06-12 03:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by qteepie215 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means you're attracted to people's personalities as opposed to just a certain look. That's a good thing! I'm sure that when you decide to get married, you'll pick a girl with a good heart, and your parents will embrace her. We had the same issue in my family. We're Indian, and pretty much everyone has married Indians. It was a big deal when my cousin married a Chinese guy, but once the family met him, they all fell in love with his kind, generous, caring nature. Most importantly, he treats my cousin right!
2007-06-12 10:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by naf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your problem it is your parents problem . and maybe they are worried about how you will be perceived in public with a girl out of your race . Some ppl will stare and be rude and might even make a comment . your parents dont want you getting hurt for dating someone out of your race . I think that is all they are trying to tell you . But good luck and date who you are comfortable with . In the meantime sit down and have a talk with your parents and let them know you understand what they are saying . good luck .
2007-06-12 10:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you're saying about your family sayign to date within your race. My family isn't liek that but I know of families that are. I say date who you want to. Now a days everyone is mixed race anyways so whats the difference
2007-06-12 10:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by TheAsianPlagueFR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see any prob with that. why would it be wrong in the first place? we have freedom to choose to date any race and age we like. im asian, mixed, and dating a dutch dude who's 2 years younger than me. things are fine.
2007-06-12 10:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by kaatje 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im going through the same thing. Im a latina girl who is hopelessly in love with a black Brasilian. If I tell my parents it will go down like a cup of cold sick :-(
2007-06-12 10:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by Sunset 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's no big deal if u date someone out of ur race. it really doesnt matter what race u date, as long as u like them and really care about them
2007-06-12 10:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with who you are attracted to, if you find someone that you are compatible with then don't worry about what anyone has to say, including family.
2007-06-12 10:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by mianjo413 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man i am black and i love jewish girls who cares its not like no one is going to put a shotgun to your head and say dont date girls ur attracted to
2007-06-12 10:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no dude, not at all get out there! I am white and I love how diverse women can be!
I love women outside my race
2007-06-12 10:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by Soap Box Preacher 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋