2007-06-12 03:28:17 · 16 answers · asked by wcf888 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Does this mean she was a virgin right up until you found out? Did you take her virginity? If so consider yourself to be very fortunate. Women do not give that up to just anyone.
If it was someone she knew in her past why would you think less of her? Are you a virgin? If so why? Religious reasons. Guilt. :Lack of opportunity?
When you meet any girl what she has or has not done in her past does not lessen her. She is still the girl you came to love.
If you feel you must only marry a virgin you may want to think that over. One of the most disappointing things for both men and women on their wedding night is that neither one knows what to do. Do what ever makes you comfortable but never look at a woman's past sexual history as a reason to dump her. You will regret it.
2007-06-12 03:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by John B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter ? Love is love
too may factors surround your question,
Age?
How long you been together?
Did she lose it while you were going together, or before? Are you virgin?
What law says you have to only love a virgin.
How did she lose it ?
Has she ever looked to try find it again?
why do you want it? etc
2007-06-12 10:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by inquiziter . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is up to you. If you really love her and can deal with the fact that she is no longer a virgin, marry her. If you can't handle the idea, drop her. If you do marry her, you cannot ever use the fact against her, because it was your decision. Btw, are you still a virgin?
2007-06-12 10:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so you cant judge her by her "waiting till she's married" bit. What's next? Well, what brought you together in the first place? What makes you want to go back every time? What have you noticed about her that you didnt before that you find wonderful? Ignore the 'infidelity' bit. It happened, c'est le vie. Past, look for the future aspect instead.
2007-06-12 10:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by avengress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do, if she's not a virgin then that's ok..at least she was honest about it and had the courage to tell you..If you love her than stay with her..
2007-06-12 11:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by Red_Rose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just accept it. if u love her, as u have said, accept her. hey, it's her choice not to be a virgin anymore. and it's like what century now?
2007-06-12 10:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by sneakY_bitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what! gasp!
say it isnt so!!
shes not a virgin anymore!! how dare she!
what are you some kind of catch that shes only worth something if shes a virgin..
2007-06-12 10:30:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Did you take her virginity?
2007-06-12 10:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she lost it while you were in a relationship with her, then that's a problem. If she lied to you about it then that's a problem. Otherwise, what's the problem?
2007-06-12 10:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex isn't a sin, if you love her something like this shouldn't matter.
2007-06-12 10:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋