Family & Relationships - 12 June 2007

My husband and I got married right out of high school and had 3 little boys soon after. We're now 23 and still married. In my opinion, we're doing pretty darn good. I know that the odds were against us, but it seems like we're beating them so far.
Unfortunately, we've both changed over time and I think that we're both disapointed about the changes in the other one. My problem is my sex drive. I very rarely want it and he wants it ALL THE TIME. I know this is completely normal, but the bad thing is that I used to want it all the time too. Sometimes he acts like he wouldn't have married if he would have known that I would have lost my drive. Well, obviously I didn't expect it either. My dissapointment comes from his anger issues and lack of physical affection towards me. He's literally angry ALL THE TIME! He yells at me non-stop. A lot of his problem comes from the fact that he holds everything in. He keeps his issues bottled up until he explodes. I've tried on numerous occassions to..

2007-06-12 08:31:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

On a scale of 1 to 10....how mad may I be that my family waited 3 days to tell me the dryer is broken?

It was my day to do laundry!

What do you think is it a 1, a 10 or somewhere in between? How mad may I be?

2007-06-12 08:25:09 · 17 answers · asked by Madam Naka 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance offered to pay for his mother's flight and hotel for our wedding, but it's going to set us back about $800 and the only way we can afford it is if we take out a new credit card, but I don't want to start off our marriage in debt. Has anyone ever had this problem before? Thank you.

2007-06-12 08:23:59 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A couple of months ago a ''GIRL'' came to my door looking for my man and had said they had been together and i tend to believe her due to i found text messages from her.He said there was nothing going on and to this day he still says she was crazy trying to mess up my head.What do you all think?

2007-06-12 08:21:24 · 28 answers · asked by shwn_hancock 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever cheated on your spouse? If so how did you feel about it after?

2007-06-12 08:20:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Lets say out of blue....a married man is shopping at the mall & he is . approached by a gentleman and he expressed that your are a a very handsome man and he want to buy you a cup of coffee. what would you do?

2007-06-12 08:18:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just broke up with my boyfriend because he used me for his sexual advances and I realized it. I did not lose my virginity to him but he has gone further than making out with me. Now I feel really used and physically sick. What are some ways I can get over this?

2007-06-12 08:12:27 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have gone through a spell where he rarely shows me any attention or affection, is very distracted with work, never compliments me or asks about my day, no hugs and only attention in the bedroom. He basically takes me for granted. I get attention from other men, one particular man - whenever I see him, he actually acts glad to see me, smiles, gives me a hug. One time we went out to eat and he showed up with some other people and when I left, he had left a bottle of wine for me to take home, which was very thoughtful. I have asked my husband to show more affection, and in turn he shows less. Should I just be content with attention from other men, and this man in particular, or what? If I had my husband's attention I wouldn't need it elsewhere.

2007-06-12 08:10:26 · 29 answers · asked by casey308 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Been together 1 year 6mo engaged 8months,good until about 3 months ago. I saw some emails that he sent an ex girl after she sent him one" that he might make it out to see the person "she invited him" if some friends headed that way for mardi gras and didn't mention me or the fact that we were engaged. "When asked what was new" I felt like I was being hid. When asked about it he said he was being a nice guy and was never going togo.Then about 2 weeks ago he invited a classmate from college to hangout with us on the lake we got along great, and then later in the day she said to me she really missed out on a chance with him and she should have taken the chance when she had it. I was nice and she kept flirting with him all day, so finally I got very upset and said hateful things to her and made a scene alcohol was involved. He says I am too jealous and not that way when he proposed and if I dont stop then he is postponing the wedding. Ive promised to not be jealous. Am I stupid if I stay?

2007-06-12 08:08:22 · 12 answers · asked by Confused2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you deal with her?

2007-06-12 08:07:37 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have only been engaged 2 months, but we live together and I am providing for his 2 daughters (they don't see their mum) yet when I asked last night if we can discuss our wedding he won't. I wanted us to get married summer 2008, but he said that maybe we can get married in 3 years. I am confused now as he wants me to be a mum to his daughters, yet he doesn't want to be my husband?

2007-06-12 08:05:48 · 36 answers · asked by cavviecath 3 in Weddings

I have 4 guys that Im talking to and I need to choose one.....ok one guy is 30 and he has a great job and his life together...one of them is 23 and lives with a roomate and is a bartender and is known as a player......one is 25 and walks around saying he is a "big deal" and he used to be a drug dealer and now hes a teacher....and the other one is 23 and owns his own house and is a bartender and a good guy but he is friends with the one who is a teacher..... they all know eachother and know about eachother...I need to know who to pick....Im driv ing my friends crazy with this

2007-06-12 08:05:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like if we did go out (become boyfriend and girlfriend or girlfriend and girlfriend) what would it have been like?

is that some form of cheating?

2007-06-12 08:04:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a goofy George Bush supporter who can't get it up? I have a co worker who was telling me that her husband hasn't touched her in over a year and does nothing but listen to Rush Limbaugh and watch Fox news when he gets home from work. He also refuses to give her or al se x becuase "the bible says its bad".

Is she wrong to have found a young man on the side to satify her needs?

2007-06-12 08:02:03 · 21 answers · asked by Steve J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm forty -- five years old, and I've never been married . I feel insulted and offended that not one of the women I've known has wanted me to be her husband . Am I wrong for feeling this way ? If I shouldn't feel this way, why not ? Why is it wrong ? I don't have what it takes to be single . The single life is a big fat zero ! If Jimmy Jerk and Andy the Abuser won't let themselves be unattached, why should I ? I hate being single .

2007-06-12 08:02:00 · 1 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Singles & Dating

If some b*tch has had sex with more than 20 men is she a sl*t? Or is it a smaller number? Or bigger? Or is it amount of times in general?

2007-06-12 08:01:57 · 18 answers · asked by KDJ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-12 07:54:38 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my mom is really strick. I had many boyfriends in the past and she is stuck on my last one. My current one is the one i want to be with 4 the rest of my life. We are 1 year appart. But we are 2 young to get married(im 16 hes 17). But my mom doesnt like him. and she judges him. how can i marry him if my mom dissaproves? How can i get my mom to approve.

2007-06-12 07:53:59 · 7 answers · asked by torn between 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother and my soon to be bride DO NOT get along..My mother is in a wheel chair and lives with me..A home for the elderly is out of the question...ANYONE...?

2007-06-12 07:53:18 · 18 answers · asked by pissed off 2 in Family

Do I have unrealistic expectations at my age (middle aged). The first time my husband and I have alone together in ages and he goes off on a bike ride with his buddies!

2007-06-12 07:53:13 · 25 answers · asked by CelesteMoone 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend an I will be traveling to Europe in about a month. When we go to see the Eiffel tower I plan on asking her to marry me. I m worried about getting the ring onto the plane safely and securely. Also without her knowing it what so ever. Can anybody who has done this help?

2007-06-12 07:53:10 · 10 answers · asked by ezdoughboy 2 in Weddings

where do you find your men to cheat with?

2007-06-12 07:51:45 · 15 answers · asked by fireman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like her but im pretty sure she likes me but im not sure. I catch her staring at me some times looking into my eye and sometimes smiling at me. she sometimes copies the way I sit and she is quiet when im near her. she plays with her hair and also watches me (sometimes by herself)during me p.e most the time. when her friends are with her she is her normal self but shes different when im around. we barely talk but we used to hang out with friend 6 half a year ago.

2007-06-12 07:50:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going to keep it,that's not the problem.I hear its very costly to get it cleaned,since it's just the bottom thats dirty,is there any cheaper way to get it cleaned?(White)

2007-06-12 07:48:13 · 9 answers · asked by MS 3 in Weddings

My husband and I are currently separated, he told me he had a dream w/ me. He said that I had an accident learning how to drive and that the car got on fire and he went to resccue me but when he got close the car exploded and thats when he woke up. What do you think it means, what can this dream be trying to tell him??

2007-06-12 07:44:48 · 16 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Marriage & Divorce

One Q reminded me I could ask on ur opinions about my dillema...
Should I marry this guy who is not very attractive, but very smart & probably the nicest man I know...? I feel like he's gonna do everything for me... He's shy & never even asked me on a date - I am always asking him (like a friend) 2 go out w/ me... he never refuses... I doubt he'll propose me if I don't do anything 2 encourage him... So I am wondering if I should 'direct' him that way??? I know he'll b very happy & I think I can b a good wife 2 him... but I don't really love him & I feel like I am using him just when I am thinking about this..?

2007-06-12 07:42:48 · 22 answers · asked by mallika 4 in Marriage & Divorce

A bit older than my son but does half the chores my son does around the house.
She is dirty, smelly, untidy, very rude, downloads pornography and bluntly tells me she likes porn and I believe she has some level of mental problems. She never seems to enjoy anything and cries and harms herself out of the blue. Dad is a geriatric who married a young girl and had this daughter.
Bio mother does not want her - citing she does not have accommodation or time - yet she is fostering 3 children two teens and a baby!
Dad took her to the psychiatrist and sitting in there you would think that it was the psychiatrist who had suggested the daughter had a problem - dad was so defensive and I wondered why we had gone there in the first place. Dad solves problems by throwing money at them - she cries, gets a games, toys, money all rudely snatched and given away or thrown in the bin no appreciation whatsoever. What shall I do? Pse help as the behaviours are depressing for me and my son too.

2007-06-12 07:40:33 · 18 answers · asked by Unique H 2 in Family

my brother in law is actually 20 he'll be 21 and the girl he is with will be 16 two months after his b-day iv told them it isnt write but they dont beleive me he can get in trouble am i right?

2007-06-12 07:39:45 · 13 answers · asked by ASHLEY 1 in Singles & Dating

Let's be real....men drool over the "Victoria's Secret model type". There are plenty of hot curvy chicks but the thin ones get looked at first. I'm 5 foot 9 and a curvy size 2. Let's not confuse curvy with over weight...it's not the same.
www.myspace.com/nikkibdiamond

2007-06-12 07:38:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont need you to tell me that im doing things wrong or that im a shity kid i just need some help not sarcasm so if ur gonna be an *** dont bother i dont know what to do..i am trying to move out b/c my family want me out. i have 2 weeks to get my cheerleading squad (which im captain of) of 32 girls ready for competition (we just learned our coriography) I just got an MIPT which i cant pay for because my parents for some reason havent alowed me to get a job till now & i dont wana tell them cause they'll flip ****! i have 8 hours of community service to get done before thursday, but i have practice for 4 hours today n for 6 hours tommorow. My best friend overdosed on cocaine yesterday, & the friend i am currently living with is pregnant, & the boyfriend left so im like the one that goes to the doctor with her n crap. I am way stressed out n have olsers (if thats how its spelt) to the point that im coughing up blood... i want everything to just go away!!!!! what should i do? please help

2007-06-12 07:38:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends