My husband and I are currently separated, he told me he had a dream w/ me. He said that I had an accident learning how to drive and that the car got on fire and he went to resccue me but when he got close the car exploded and thats when he woke up. What do you think it means, what can this dream be trying to tell him??
2007-06-12 07:44:48 · 16 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm asking for some serious advice not nonsense! I don't have time for ppl to post immature advices.
2007-06-12 07:53:06 · update #1
It means something terrible is between the two of you. The fact that you were "learning" means it may be something you did or didn't do properly in the marriage (not saying he's perfect). His coming to rescue you means of course that he still cares but as he gets to the point to save you, the car explodes which stops him. I find it interesting that he never sees you die (at least you didn't indicate that he said you died). I think it's not over. I think that whatever it is that's between you, when YOU remove it (it has something to do with you specifically) then the two of you can work out your differences and be a family again. Good luck.
2007-06-12 08:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by Brandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that perhaps the separation was an impulsive decision and he has pent-up feelings and emotions about it and/or this dream may be warning him he is near a bursting point and needs to take care of it, rescue, save the marriage! If you both are willing to put in the hard work during this crucial time; your marriage can be saved and be better than ever. Work on saving your marriage!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-12 15:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by Tgirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Any time we have dreams that involve car wrecks, crashes, explosions, etc... it means that an aspect of our lives is out of control.
I think his dream indicates his confusion towards your relationship. He feels like things have gotten out of control. He wants to be with you, he loves you, but something in the relationship is just not working. I think you two need to talk. Get clear on whats been bothering you enough that you needed to separate. Guys are not good at expressing their feelings, and girls express too much of their feelings. So, you need to try to keep quiet, listen and only ask clarifying questions. Hope that helps. Good luck!
2007-06-12 14:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by Yup Yup Yuppers 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To fully understand the dream you need to know more like. Where was the car in relation to your husband. Right and Left are seen as right and wrong. Death can be fear or change. "Learn how to drive" could be about your independence. The attempted rescue could be he doesn't know how to approach you now.
2007-06-12 15:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a dream expert but I'm thinking it means he had you before and he's used to protecting you. He tried to save you but realized you are far from him now and can't because you are separated.
2007-06-18 17:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by missnasa2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Says to me that your husband wants to try to save you...but can't.
Not blaming you - nothing like that at all, but is the separation and possible divorce because of something you are doing that he doesn't feel is good or safe?
2007-06-12 14:49:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
death always means life. and if you died in bad way in the dream that just means that you are coming to a new beginning and with your husband in that dream it also means that you will be doing something without him.
2007-06-19 10:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by HEARTBOUND♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to dream of fire means you feel the inner world of your self breaking down, which is accurate since you are separated.
as you are all people in your dream, the person he cannot save is himself.
2007-06-12 14:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by The French Connection 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dream is telling him to get you back before it's too late.
2007-06-12 14:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by Schwinn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its only a bad dream, in real life, does he want toe protect you?
2007-06-17 08:19:16 · answer #10 · answered by stargirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋