Ok my mom is really strick. I had many boyfriends in the past and she is stuck on my last one. My current one is the one i want to be with 4 the rest of my life. We are 1 year appart. But we are 2 young to get married(im 16 hes 17). But my mom doesnt like him. and she judges him. how can i marry him if my mom dissaproves? How can i get my mom to approve.
2007-06-12 07:53:59 · 7 answers · asked by torn between 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok my mom is really strick. I had many boyfriends in the past and she is stuck on my last one. My current one is the one i want to be with 4 the rest of my life. We are 1 year appart. But we are 2 young to get married(im 16 hes 17). But my mom doesnt like him. and she judges him. how can i marry him if my mom dissaproves? How can i get my mom to approve. We are ganna wait till we are both out of school and if it doesnt work out in between that time we are on ly engaged its not leagal yet.and my mom doesnt even know about the future engagement. And people dont know that i can find the love of my life. every one is different and they have different hearts. i kno whats in my heart. and ive dated alot of guys and they dont compare. people say your too good 4 him, then why shouldnt i be with him.
2007-06-12 08:06:33 · update #1
Torn between, Just chiil darlin and little by little earn your mom"s approvel. Both you and him should politly treat your Mom with respect ! She is scared cause she is losing her little girl so cut her some slack ! If the lord approves it will happen !
2007-06-12 08:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to be thinking about marriage!!
How long have you been dating? What if you go to different colleges and meet someone else?
I have 2 very good friends that dated since they were sophomores, all through college and waited until they were a couple of years out of college to get married. They even broke up for a few months during college.
If your love is truly as strong as you think you will make through these years of your life and be able to get college degrees without the financial stress and get married and enjoy life afterwards!
2007-06-12 08:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by swimbike21 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, whether you like it or not, mom knows best. She knows that at 16 if you're already thinking you found a boy to be with for the rest of your life, she's got to do something. That's ridiculous of you. I know you're young, but thinking you're marrying this guys is absurd. You have a lot of growing up to do, and your mom is just doing her job. Listen to her.
2007-06-12 07:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by ron-D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This drives me crazy... You don't know that he is the man you want to spend you life with... You don't even know what it's like in the real world. Please just take time for yourself... Don't start attaching yourself to people in such a dramatic way.
2007-06-12 08:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
too young for a boyfriend in the first place
2007-06-12 07:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, dont get married. You ARE too young.
Second of all, it is "strict" not "strick."
Third of all, your mom is right.
2007-06-12 08:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by bellesnail 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how's about spending few more years on this relationship with your boyfriend...and see how it work.. you are so young.. you don't need to be rush to get married... enjoy your young life.. :)
2007-06-12 07:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋