Family & Relationships - 12 June 2007

2007-06-12 09:55:42 · 8 answers · asked by mostafa s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is a wonderful man, he works hard at work (not at home), he is a good dad and he loves me. But It seems as though he does not understand about the stuff that keeps a marriage alive. He is a firm believer that you don't have to try any more once you are married and he only has to be pleasant and sweet to me when he wants "lovin". He spends more than we will ever make in a life time, and he refuses to work with me on a budget. He tells me "stop worrying everything will be fine because I said so". It is like he floats on this cloud believing he has life by the *** and does not realize that you have to maintain everything in your life in order to keep it. I have stopped trying to talk to him about it because I am not getting through to him. Anyone have "real" advice.

2007-06-12 09:54:36 · 10 answers · asked by Ladybug 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend has been going out for almost 2 years.is like this i love him so much and i dont wanna let go is so hard for me.some times he calls me ones a week.and when he call me he wanna have sex andafter that i get his call like the next week or two.now am think that he only want me for just sex.he didnt use to act like that before.he calls me everyday and all of that.am 17 and his 20 my parents do let me date.they dont know about him.so i can bring him in my house.it gone be my senior in high school and i wanna take him to my prom.cause i i wanna go with somebody i really care about and i wanna remember that day for the rest of my lifr.sometimes i cry that his cheating on and that am going to loose him and that hurt.is really hard cause i cant tell if his cheating on me is not like we live in the same place.but something in my is telling me that his is cheating on me but i dont have any prove.do he love me.wat should i do

2007-06-12 09:54:08 · 5 answers · asked by v 3 in Singles & Dating

Whenever I go out guys always stare and never say anything to me. But if I am with another guy they do. Why?

2007-06-12 09:53:05 · 5 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

MY BOYFRIEND DOES!!!!

2007-06-12 09:52:50 · 14 answers · asked by tomball_gurl_224 1 in Singles & Dating

What preparations are needed?
Do I have to buy a dress to wear at it or is there a way I can just rent it at the temple?
(I have no interest in actually wanting a perfect wedding, I would just like to get married and have the ceremony be over with so we can start our life together.)

2007-06-12 09:52:33 · 7 answers · asked by mosquitoe_13 3 in Weddings

5'7 , in 8th grade, has brown curly hair, braces, liks skateboarders, has thick rimmed glasses, and has a short loud, obnoxious friend?

2007-06-12 09:51:53 · 4 answers · asked by k_kutipie 2 in Singles & Dating

The building is 118ft on each side and the ceiling is about 30ft high...I wanted the canopy to gather somewhat in the middle and then flow out. If you have any suggests as to what to put in the middle of the ceiling I would greatly appreciate it as well. I need to know what type of material to use and how much. Also if you have any pictures I would appreciate it. Thanks!

2007-06-12 09:50:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Either you want someone or you dont. So y play with their head or their emotions I mean really. This guy I'm seeing is always playing these little mind games and saying that he's going to leave when he never really does. My friends say he's just trying to conform me to be the way he wants me to be to have mind control over me and it's frustrating me because I'm not going for it. Why do guys do this...why toy with peoples emotions. Either you want someone or you don't so why the games.

2007-06-12 09:50:25 · 19 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

I remember about six or seven years ago a guy would just walk up to the girl he likes and just ask her out or get a conversation going, now if that happens to you it's always with the wrong guy or he's gay and likes your highlights or clothes!

2007-06-12 09:49:10 · 13 answers · asked by Beva 2 in Singles & Dating

We're gettiing married in 70 days. He is 40 and has never been married. He is established but by no means rich. He states it's a fairly standard practice.
We each have an daughter from previous relationships. He says he's doing it to protect her--if he died
tomorrow, he wants to make sure she isn't left w/ nothing. I understand he wants to protect his 401k, retirement that he has earned thus far in life. But at the same time, by him asking for the pre-nup he is making me feel like he has no faith in me and it isn't going to last."  He says, "I'm not doubtful. I expect it to last forever, or i wouldnt do it. I love you verymuch." He's trying to convince me that this is a normal thing to do. I NEED HELP PEOPLE!!!!!!!
 

2007-06-12 09:48:41 · 34 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you stop responding to BRIDEFROMHELL, whether she is 75 and loaded, or 15 and her parents just make ends-meat; she will stop posting questions because you will not feed into her enjoyment of being confronted. She is just antagonizing the ladies on here and you are responding like she wants. Stop giving her the pleasure she is getting out of this and answer the questions for the gals/guys who genuinely came here for help. Thank You

2007-06-12 09:47:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok...so my bf broke up w/ me about 4 months ago...right after we broke up we were still hanging out with each other & we're still really close friends...though i haven't hung out with him in 4ever b/c of my parents dont like him. my only way to see him is to hav my older brother take me too his house but now hhe's working so i really cant see him! i like him so much it's crazy...& to top it off...i keep having these dreams about him that we're still 2gether! wat should i do!

2007-06-12 09:47:15 · 6 answers · asked by Ana 2 in Singles & Dating

My sex drive has increased since having my daughter and he says he wants it but doesnt do anything. I try starting it for awhile and get sick of always being the one to initiate it. I thought men are supposed to pursue. I dont mind going after him but i would like to feel like i'm wanted to. He has had a problem with porn in the past and sometimes i feel like because I dont look like a whore he doesnt want me. Its also been almost two years since his mother and sister died and sometimes I feel like he blames me for not being around them more when I told him I didnt care what he did just not to force me to be around people who wanted to get rid of me anyway. I did love them too and wanted things to work out with them but they were mad because my he chose me over them. Anyway I dont want to leave . I love him very much and we almost never disagree about how to handle the kids. I dont know what to do. He commits himself to his job and sports but not to me or what I care about. HELP!!!

2007-06-12 09:44:56 · 11 answers · asked by answerteam 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, to start, I am well endowned. Almost 8 1/2.
I have been with 3 girls over a few years, all numerous times.
the first two never complained about my performence, but talking with my current girlfriend...she isnt getting as much out of it as she would like.
People always make a big deal about having a big wang, but any tips on how to make it more pleasurable for her?

2007-06-12 09:44:34 · 16 answers · asked by Paris 2 in Singles & Dating

how much is the house going up for sale and remember i want half and i told her that she will only get 5000 and me too and i got back thats not enough i want more than that
i will do it through my lawyer then and thought things where getting better obviously not and i will file for divorce too this made me like **** as it was me that paid for the dam house in the first place

and i told her 3 days ago that the house is getting sold and im going to oz to study then she was like not happy as she now that she would never see me again and she kinda changed and said we will see if we can make it work and i was going around to hers for dinner and now all this what do you think she is up to as i have a feeling about something but wanna see if it is the same as you think too

2007-06-12 09:42:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

our 15 year old son go with him? He has a math & english final tomorrow..he's studying right now...he insists he should be able to go....my sexy husband says we'll let you decide....what do you say?

2007-06-12 09:42:07 · 14 answers · asked by Forever 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

In most cases the only thing marriage counseling does is cost money that could have otherwise went to the kids and the relationship still ends. I have seen several studies that show the divorce rate for people in marriage counseling is actually slightly HIGHER then for couples with no counseling yet the answer to every question here seems to be "see a marriage counselor"!

2007-06-12 09:39:23 · 18 answers · asked by Steve J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-12 09:38:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does it surprise you that I am a 25, rich and bored so I come on here to annoy white trash? Sorry, I don't have to work... and I already bought 3 pairs of prada shoes today..... I love coming here... it's like a zoo full of monkeys and all I have to do is poke you a little and you all freak out!!

2007-06-12 09:38:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-12 09:38:09 · 18 answers · asked by dec19th2006 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I know a lot of you don't like it when kids go to weddings...That is not what this question is about, so please don't tell me that they shouldn't be there.

We're talking about my daughter's wedding here...She is very family oriented, and as the first of her generation, she has a lot of young cousins. In addition, she works as a nanny, so the kids she sees every day are very important to her, and she wants to have all of them come to the wedding.

Our current plan is to have a corner of the reception hall dedicated to kids activities...All of the kids will have complete access to their parents, and their parents will WHOLEHEARTEDLY be expected to ensure their kids are behaving appropriately.

That said, what games/activities should we include for them? I'm thinking "Pin The Veil On The Bride" could be fun...is that too weird? We'll probably also have some coloring available, as well as a few age appropriate board games. Any other suggestions?

2007-06-12 09:37:41 · 13 answers · asked by abfabmom1 7 in Weddings

2007-06-12 09:30:50 · 25 answers · asked by Butterfly 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months ..I dont trust him anymore because I have too much evidence..Like 5 days ago he gave me a outfit skirt+ shirt..I liked so today was the first day that I weared..When I sat down I notice that in the back pocket of the skirt there was a Victorias Secret underwear...so now I know he cheated because how can the underwear get there...What should I do?????

2007-06-12 09:30:13 · 3 answers · asked by Sexy Mocca 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-12 09:28:05 · 11 answers · asked by Joshua Seesua Khakie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

READ TO UNDERSTAND OTHERWISE DON"T BOTHER TO ANSWER.We are both married & both curious about people outside our races.We agreed to try it, just once.Oh Well, that once turned into 2 yrs.He has been married for 6yrs, has 2 kids,I ve been married for 4yrs & no kids.I know we were wrong,so you can call me all the names you want BUT thats not my question now.The problem is he has taken this affair very serious.He filed for his divorce 2 months ago & moved out of the house he shared with his wife.He wants me to do the same.I can't to leave my Husband yet bcoz,I want him(my husband)to father my children.My husband & I plan to ve children in 3yrs when we buy a house for the children.My lover says he can father my children but i want to ve 100% black children.He has a 100% pure white kids.I don't want to ve kids that will be confused & bullied bcoz they are mixed.Mixed kids in my days at school were bullied.My husband is Afrocentric, dislikes white people.I'm confused, what should I do?

2007-06-12 09:24:34 · 31 answers · asked by :( 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Been married for thirteen years, just wondering ladies and gentlemen, do all men just sit there and seem like they have no "thoughts, feelings, etc?" I don't consider myself a demanding wife or hard to life with, but it seems my husband just doesn't have any type of interesting things to discuss ever-He seems kind of like a shell, with no substance? Is this true for others as well?

2007-06-12 09:24:13 · 19 answers · asked by sara l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I always had problems when it comes to 'so called' friends. Im 20 and i dont have any friends. I try hard to be pleasant to people, to go out of my way and speak, to out on a friendly face and really try.

At school i was bullied, and i became really shy and lacking in self esteem and confidence. At college i was no different. I used to keep myself to myself and was very quiet. I find it hard to socialise somtimes, in fact i hate it.

I hate my life because its not normal to have no friends at all. People that i used to know in the past were backstabbers and users, and it did no good for my confidence.

What am i doing wrong and why cant i seem to make any friends?

2007-06-12 09:21:20 · 10 answers · asked by sarah 6 in Friends

2007-06-12 09:18:51 · 14 answers · asked by baumbaum23 1 in Singles & Dating

ok cheating is wrong ya da ya da but its came down 2 that i have 2 unless u can give me some better reason because i love them both

2007-06-12 09:15:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating