2007-06-12 09:30:50 · 25 answers · asked by Butterfly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey guys go easy on me...its just a hypothetical question!?!
i have a clean and beautiful relationship and plan to keep it that way :-)...
2007-06-12 09:43:56 · update #1
Anything is possible, but I think ultimately you start to like one person more than another.
2007-06-12 09:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by Alex J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, your in a rock and a hard place right now. If the two know about it and don't mind then yes go for it. Love can come in many forms and if you do love them both and they love you then you should go for it.
But here is the downside, you can't marry them both, you'll be torn between them you can't favor one more then the other. Not to menchen fights that happen between 2 lovers (and trust me there will be fights, everybody gets mad and fights) will be alot worse cause you or one of them will be in the middle during it.
Honestly, any releasionthip can be ups and downs, just make sure you can commit to them equaly, but truth is it might not work out. Good luck though.
2007-06-12 09:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, one can theoretically love 2 people at the same time, but it would usually hurting someone. I don't know if one can ever find a way to justify hurting someone whom you love, because i assume you love them both, and therefore not wish to hurt any one of them. My advice is to take some time off from both relationships, clear your head, and figure out which one you have more feelings for. It is always better not to get involve too deeply with both of them, because it can reduce the amount of pain later on.
2007-06-12 09:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by madaline 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you can Love two people at the same time b/c I in love with two people the thing is you have the justify love one you are in love with one of them ( the one that would give anything to and do anything for that the one you are in love with, and then it the one that you just love( like a friend) but if you are "in love" with both you got a BIG problem.
2007-06-12 09:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by Lady J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can love MANY different people at once. You can be in a sexual relationship with many different people at once. Being IN love is a completely different story. Even if you did feel you were in love with two different people the only ones you would have to justify it to aren't going to listen to you. If one of them comes back to you and says, "This is my other girl, I love her, oh... but I love you too, don't worry." You're not going to like it. You just have to choose between them. You can't have everything.
2007-06-12 09:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by daeraelle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can feel as though you are in love with the two lovers at the same time as you are probably getting something you need from each...Obviously you need to make a big choice...
2007-06-12 09:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by mamapoulette 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why stop at two, you she devil???? Honestly. The young really do live on their own planet don't they? There are couples that have open relationships, where by all partners agree to have open sexual situations as long as they all agree. You may be a candidate, but I suspect your too egotistic to say whats good for the goose is good for the gander.
2007-06-12 09:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by kim 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like 2 person in the same time but Never leave the one u love to the one you like.O.K?
2007-06-20 09:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, it doesnt justify!!!!!!!!!!!! It causes more problems. In the beginning its fun, but when everything catch up with you. That's when it bits you in the ***. Just be straight forward about everything. Now, if everyone is up to a little fun, then handle that!!!!
2007-06-20 09:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible; however you must be into one more than the other. It's also not fair for anyone involved because neither party is getting all of you! Keep that in mind.
2007-06-12 09:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by honeyb 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can not love two people totally, your love will always be split and your heart will be torn. You want a good answer, there is none. Good luck, make a choice for yourself and them..... You can play the field, but that is not true love!
2007-06-12 09:35:38 · answer #11 · answered by flower 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋