Family & Relationships - 12 June 2007

with children and full time jobs. If your wife stays at home with your children, what do you do (besides work full time to support your family)? I was just wondering if I expect too much.
I stay at home with our children...and I also take care of...
-the finances
-laundry
-cooking (and all of the clean up afterwards)
-dishes
-housecleaning
-appointments for everyone (including the K-9)
-shopping (he does help with grocery shopping)
-garbage (he puts it out on garbage day...after I get it ready)

Don't get me wrong, I love & appreciate my husband...But he doesn't "help" with the kids much. He isn't home a lot after work, so all of the child care falls on me (which is fine). I just get frustrated sometimes when he won't even mow the lawn (we have a tiny yard).

Your input would be GREATLY appreciated!! Thank you for reading my long question!!

2007-06-12 10:33:48 · 37 answers · asked by casper 5 in Marriage & Divorce

do you think it sexy if a female get her C**t hood pierced? I been thinking about it just want to know what guys think

2007-06-12 10:32:58 · 10 answers · asked by ohmy 3 in Singles & Dating

We've been married for 3 years now, and I just never exspected for things to fizzel out so quickly, we talk all the time and we have fun together we only fight for a few hours at the most and we never have the need to raise our voices. But we haven't made love in 2 months. He says he's not gay, and he doesnt seem to be, he seems more, absinate, but not in a religous way. He doesnt have secret porn stashes around the house (the only stuff we have WE bought together- and he doesnt even care about that) Its like he has NO sex drive. I worry its because he cheats, but he comes home for lunch and so early in the afternoon that he'd have to loose hours at work to pull it off.

2007-06-12 10:31:46 · 24 answers · asked by littlefariemom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do guys like girls to do with their hands...
I usually just like rub around his thighs and put my hands up his shirt and run my fingers through his hair
and other ideas to make my boyfriend get going...?

2007-06-12 10:28:59 · 16 answers · asked by manahmahnah 1 in Singles & Dating

He so mature, emotionally stable, caring, to crown it all, loving and respectful. I so much love him cos of his good character towards me, and I wish he could marry me. But he told me indirectly during our conversation dat he dont have it at the back of his mind to marry now, until he is 29 cos he is only 19 years. Now the problem is am 21years old, am confused, I need help to be able to handle the relationship cos I dont want to loose him.

2007-06-12 10:28:28 · 7 answers · asked by Sammie T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am an Indian(India-Indian) and have been told by several women that I am good looking etc,my question is that in pursuing women will my ethinicity be a hindrance or an advantage?
How can I learn to score with American women?
Your answer will greatly help please no jokers!

2007-06-12 10:25:39 · 16 answers · asked by Sabah Q 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my Life is actually wonderful ive been dating this boy for 9months now and we are very happy with each other

2007-06-12 10:25:13 · 13 answers · asked by Jasmine W 1 in Singles & Dating

He has trouble remembering to answer his phone. Should I tie it around his neck! Or throw it at his head!

2007-06-12 10:25:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

please help me i have a stuck up b**** for a mother in law and shes really buging the h*** out of me please help me

2007-06-12 10:22:26 · 7 answers · asked by mrs.rocky 2 in Family

2007-06-12 10:22:11 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

...personality and was your true love? Let's say the first love girl you marry, but you are not happy with here. Stuff is okay, but she does not take care of you the way you want. The true love girl, on the other hand, you know can take care of you the way you want and you feel she is worth true love. Would you leave/divorce the first love and marry the true love?

2007-06-12 10:22:09 · 12 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-12 10:22:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In the last 6 months I have gotten invited to 3 different weddings for people I do not even know! My husband does not know them, I even asked my Mom thinking maybe it is some relative, but she didn't recognize the names either. Does this happen to everyone? Are people sending random invitations hoping people will send them cash? I find it very strange.

2007-06-12 10:21:30 · 13 answers · asked by redhairedgirl 5 in Weddings

Recently at school, there seems to be a trend of pansting going around. Like in the locker rooms at school when I'm changing out for P.E., other girls sometimes like to pants me just after I've unbuttoned my pants or just after I've put on my shorts. Now personally, I'm not too bothered by it, because it doesn't happen to me very often. But I've seen other girls in the locker room have their pants and even underwear pulled down and start crying. Occaisonally, I catch some mean girls pulling someone's bra off too, so like the girl's pretty much naked.

2007-06-12 10:21:18 · 7 answers · asked by northern californian 2 in Friends

about 2 months ago my husband cheated on me (we both work at the same place) with one of our co-workers, word was that she was watching him for a while and they had sex one 4 occasions and it is over he is sorry that it ever happened and for a while he could not look me in the face,and slowly we are moving on day by day ,but last week we had a fight about my trust issues and he called her on the phone and talked to her and he admitted to he talked to her several times and when he realized how much this hurt and upset me he said he wont ever do it again and now i dont know what to do .

2007-06-12 10:17:31 · 15 answers · asked by er5199 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-12 10:17:24 · 3 answers · asked by tripven 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you've never done it I don't expect you to reply. I really want to hear from those women who've been "so deep in love" with guys who were married to other women at the time, who've cheated on them, dumped them and etc. I'm just trying to get some idea of what it is about these types of guys that you love.

2007-06-12 10:17:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is into spanking in various degrees, and mild s&m type things. he would go to group parties where he said sex was not involved back when we first met but I told him i wasn't interested in going. if i were to try something like that it would be in private. if he is honestly interested in that kind of thing do you believe it is important I try to do those things with him. if i didn't do those things should I be ok with him going to those parties (because i still feel like it's kinda cheating). what do you think

2007-06-12 10:16:13 · 16 answers · asked by viper pilot 2 in Singles & Dating

Is the divorce final after the hearing?

2007-06-12 10:16:11 · 5 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my gf and i hv been dating for 2 weeks now and today she kissed me but i just want to know how to be more intimate with her.we only see eachother during summer school and we talk on the phone occasionally so how can i be more intimate with her in school since that's the only time i see her?

2007-06-12 10:15:49 · 29 answers · asked by chris r 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my hubby to be have decided that next year we will go on holiday to Vegas. Not bad eh. but now his mates have decided to come, i dont mind the guys and i dont mind if my hubby to be wants to spend time with them i have no problem with that. the problem is the mates wifes. i just dont get on with them we have nuthing in common, every time they arrange a gals night out recently i feel so uncomfortable with them they are a bit stuck up and so ive decided i rather not go, in fact i dont think they like me as they dont invite me no more they only did as im the mates wife. but this holiday how can i get out of it, its already provisionaly booked i cant stand to with them for a second just to think 1week i would kill them. BTW the are older than me by a few years im 25. i have no common ground with them. They guys are cool. what do i do. and it doesnt matter how much alcohol i have it wont help!!!!!

2007-06-12 10:14:22 · 10 answers · asked by aarti 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does my mum have a right to change my room about

1. She took down all my posters of demons and devils

2. She changed my room colour from Black to Blue

3. She took away all my scary movies

4. Got rid of all my clothes that were black

5. Got rid of all my blades

So yeah can she do this ?

And was she right to do it?

2007-06-12 10:13:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok we both live together and work full time with only one bathroom.Since we both work different hrs this is never a problem.But sometimes i have to work the same hrs as him then it is.I think 1 can be in the shower and 1 at the sink then switch and just work around each other.My bf thinks i should get up earlier than him get ready then just hang around the house till i have to go so he can have the bathroom to himself.Well i told him he should be the one to get up early if he wants the bathroom to himself but he said why should i change my routine your the one with the changed work schedule.

2007-06-12 10:12:36 · 19 answers · asked by stacey k 1 in Weddings

Okay, so. I like this guy a lotttt, and as far as I know, he still likes me a lot. But I'm in a grade younger than him and I barely ever see him during school. And when I do, I just say 'Heyyy' and keep on walking. I'm shy, and he's shy, so it's kind of like we're both afraid to make a move. I really want to, and I would, but I always feel like I'd be interupting a conversation he's in or wants to have if I go up to him around other people. I really want to open up to him, but that's only going to work if either me or him makes an effort. But because he's just as shy as me, I never know weather or not he likes me anymore or if he's just nervous. If you were in his position, what do you think would be going on?

2007-06-12 10:04:38 · 1 answers · asked by yeppp... 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-12 09:59:30 · 8 answers · asked by monica D 2 in Singles & Dating

it cost money!!! but I think that would be lovely

2007-06-12 09:58:51 · 20 answers · asked by Destiny 4 in Weddings

2007-06-12 09:57:44 · 20 answers · asked by boozerc77084 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So my best friend is going out with this girl. She was on vacation all week and he was flirting with me like mad! He said how he was going to brake up with her. But when she got back from vacation, he told me he didnt want to talk to me ever again because his girlfriend doesnt like me. should i just forget about him? or should i keep hoping he'll come to his senses?

2007-06-12 09:57:12 · 10 answers · asked by Julie S 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you guys know of any legal document that my boyfriends "baby momma" can sign to move his visitation date from Wednesday 5:00 pm -8:00 pm to Thursday 5:00 pm - 8:00 pm.

See he has night classes at night and she agreed but if she gets mad at him for some odd reason he can show up on Thursday and she could deny him because it's not what the court order says. He gets her every weekend but we do love to have her during the week those few hours.

Anything...

2007-06-12 09:57:05 · 6 answers · asked by stepmom of 1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well, my mom and my older brother dont talk to each other, because my moms an ***. so my brother is gradurating from high school and my mom doesnt want to go to his graduration. Also my graduration is on the same day but my one starts at 6, so both my parents would be able to attend both ceramonies. i told my mom that if she doesnt attend my brothers graduration then she doesnt have to come to my one. and i really dont want her to come, cuz shes a *****!
do you think im doing the right thing?

2007-06-12 09:56:35 · 4 answers · asked by vanessa 2 in Family