my gf and i hv been dating for 2 weeks now and today she kissed me but i just want to know how to be more intimate with her.we only see eachother during summer school and we talk on the phone occasionally so how can i be more intimate with her in school since that's the only time i see her?
2007-06-12 10:15:49 · 29 answers · asked by chris r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to ditch school
2007-06-12 10:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by whynot 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, it is my belief you should get to know each other and date longer than 2 weeks. To have a relationship, there are more things to do than to just be intimate. Being on the phone and seeing each other in class does not constitue a relationship. Take it slower, and plan things. You must be young since there was no talk of dating, being it by car or other modes of transport. Good luck.
2007-06-12 10:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by maureen g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isn't any longer some thing incorrect with waiting until eventually the time feels good for both one among you. i might want to signify taking some time the actual component of love might want to be astounding yet contained in the lengthy run what women human beings fairly want is to sense loved and cared for make confident she knows you're wondering about her once you're lengthy gone,be attentive and do particular little acts of love for her. What precisely is making you so apprehensive after 9 months of relationship? perchance you've some form of pressure sickness? were you raised in an fairly non secular abode the position you've faith sex before marriage is erroneous? Are you frightened of a few thing deeper arising between both of you and that it will ultimately be lengthy gone? Sharing our hearts and bodies with some different person is an act of have self belief and is sometimes taken too gently i imagine it is going to be ok for you contained in the lengthy run...perchance you should make a wellbeing care professional appointment and get regarded at. If no longer some thing actual is taking position perchance basically verify with a counselor and see in case you could decide the position that's coming from.
2016-11-23 15:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try being a tiny bit more intimate. If she doesn't seem to like this, but it immediately (or at least the steps have to be smaller), if she doesn't mind, go a little further the next time. Different people take things at different speeds, but don't push it, let the intimacy come at its own speed.
2007-06-12 10:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by Slumlord 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its OK to have a girl friend and like or love her very much , but i advice you as experienced that i am , dont put this before your studies. what if you are so worried about this and the minute it happens she gets pregnant . having a child is so much responsability. I always say if I could go back to school I would leave some of these girls out of my life and try to become someone much greater in life. Its not all bad but think of your future and hers. if you dont like this I guess you will learn the hard way . every knockle head does.
2007-06-12 10:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you set up a meeting spot with her, somewhere between classrooms or right after the bell rings. look into her eyes and just go for it. youve already shared a kiss, so dont be afraid to kiss her more often. let it be consensual, compassionate, if shes your gf, you cant be shy when it comes to this stuff. shes already your girlfriend, so theres no worries! hold her close when you hug her, with every part of your body against hers. hope it works out, good luck
2007-06-12 10:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Kurei 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woooooooooooooooooooooooah!
Two weeks is a little soon for sex (99% sure that's what your talking about). Especcially when all you've done is kiss her. Respect HER boundries, when the time is right, you will both know what to do. As far as if you do anything. Not in public - That I beg.
2007-06-12 10:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by Ethernaut 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your question is not very clear. It all depends on the relationship and maturity of both of you. Taking a relationship is really seriously, going the next step is really something you need to make sure and your partner are ready for. Also both need to be prepared physically and mentally AND both need to agreed on that decision. One more thing....don't rush things, they will happen at the right time.
2007-06-12 10:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get intimate when you marry her. Fornication is wrong so be thankful for the kisses at this point ~ all else comes after the wedding.
2007-06-12 10:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got away with making out with my g/f RIGHT after the last period. We would have already gone to our lockers so we almost run to the bottom of the stairs. No one ever saw us. But, she was in my last period. My advice is to find a less "populated" or "traveled" area. Or stay after school. The school is practically empty then.
2007-06-12 10:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and ask her if she is ready to take the relationship to the next level. Please don't pressure her about anything. Just tell her how you feel. Maybe you should try to spend more time with her so that you both can get to know each other better. Then see what happens.
2007-06-12 10:19:33 · answer #11 · answered by voiceofanangell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋