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He so mature, emotionally stable, caring, to crown it all, loving and respectful. I so much love him cos of his good character towards me, and I wish he could marry me. But he told me indirectly during our conversation dat he dont have it at the back of his mind to marry now, until he is 29 cos he is only 19 years. Now the problem is am 21years old, am confused, I need help to be able to handle the relationship cos I dont want to loose him.

2007-06-12 10:28:28 · 7 answers · asked by Sammie T 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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it doesnt sound like u r mature enough to marry!
what is the rush?

2007-06-12 10:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by shelokay 4 · 1 1

being two years older than a guy is no big deal. I'm 3 years older than my husband. But we both have old souls.

Him not wanting to get married until 29 is pretty specific! I'm sure he won't always feel that way. Especially if he's in love with you, and you're not willing to wait that long to get married.

So the real question is - do you love him enough to wait a while? (probably years) Or do you feel that you need to get married, and would be willing to pursue other men?

Neither answer is wrong. Both have a risk.

But you are still young. 21 is nowhere near being an old maid. So don't let outside pressures tell you you have to settle down NOW or NEVER. That's something you should decide for yourself.

But I think your BF is wise to wait at least a few years. 19 is awfully young to get married.

2007-06-12 17:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Jeez, whats the big rush to get married?
There's no confusion here, your desperate to have him down the aisle, and he's not ready, simple!
He's 19 years old and still has a lot of living to do, as do you, dont put pressure on the guy if he's not ready to settle down.

2007-06-12 18:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0 0

Age is but a case of mind over matter. If you dont mind, why should it matter? (With exceptions for legal ages). Having said this, you might want o consider someone closer to your own age, maybe a bit older.. even tho as you age the differences matter less and less

2007-06-12 17:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by Dat MrE Guy 2 · 0 0

Am in love with a guy who am older than with 2years?

Learn english then get married you lazy sod!

2007-06-12 17:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Take it easy. Don't rush or panic. My mother was older than my father all his life.

Work on being friends first. Let him work out that he can't live without you. and that he is wasting his time being single.

2007-06-12 17:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by d00ney 5 · 0 0

Whats the rush hun, he's with you now and that's all that matters right? You are only young! have fun.

2007-06-12 17:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by Daydreamer 2 · 0 0

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