me and my hubby to be have decided that next year we will go on holiday to Vegas. Not bad eh. but now his mates have decided to come, i dont mind the guys and i dont mind if my hubby to be wants to spend time with them i have no problem with that. the problem is the mates wifes. i just dont get on with them we have nuthing in common, every time they arrange a gals night out recently i feel so uncomfortable with them they are a bit stuck up and so ive decided i rather not go, in fact i dont think they like me as they dont invite me no more they only did as im the mates wife. but this holiday how can i get out of it, its already provisionaly booked i cant stand to with them for a second just to think 1week i would kill them. BTW the are older than me by a few years im 25. i have no common ground with them. They guys are cool. what do i do. and it doesnt matter how much alcohol i have it wont help!!!!!
2007-06-12 10:14:22 · 10 answers · asked by aarti 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should be telling this to your husband.
He should care enough to make sure you are comfortable seeing as this began as a holiday for you 2 before the mates got added into the plan.
Best of luck, have lots of tequila & if the women are rude to you don't be afraid to step on a few toes =)
2007-06-12 10:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by D W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest you should go anyway. Your husband will have a better time with you there and will be an odd duck if you are not. Do it for him, after all that is a small price to pay for someone you love. The two of you will still have plenty of alone time together. Just when you get back, tell him the truth (not before), and that next year it will be a trip for just the two of you and it's not open for debate.
2007-06-12 10:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your hubby to be how you feel. Between the two of you surely you can come up with a compromise. How did it get to be a vacation for just the two of you to a vacation with the mates/wives? Maybe you and hubby can get some time alone for just the two of you?
2007-06-12 10:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by GPHS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you tell your husband this??? Do not go if you are not going to have a good time. Instead, while this bunch is doing the Vegas thing, do your own thing somewhere else if hubby insists on going. And wish him as much fun as you will have. Good luck
2007-06-12 10:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it were me I would tell my husband. Am sure he wouldnt want you to go on such a exciting holiday only for you to be miserable. Ask him if he can arrange another holiday with his mates. If he still insist they go and their wives then just arrange stuff with your hubby and then find some other activities that you can do on your own when your huby meeting up with his mates.
Good Luck
2007-06-12 10:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by angelrose0105 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately no good solution. My personal opinion is to suck it up and deal with it, and make an agreement that next year you travel with YOUR friends, and not his. See how that swings haha. Good luck, try to make the best of it!
2007-06-12 10:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lorax099 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the guys and leave the women to it! That's what I'd do!
2007-06-12 10:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hate heir on men, thats hott. And many athletic men shave their arms and legs. Just go with the flow, act confident, and i bet no one will ever even notice..
2016-05-18 03:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you might want to hang with the guys if the gals are so boring.
2007-06-12 10:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by abstract_alao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your husband im sure if he loves you he will sort it out you can always go else where
2007-06-13 03:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋