2007-06-12 09:59:30 · 8 answers · asked by monica D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you feel that your ever gonna stop fighting then no dont cancel but if it feels more like you two never agree on anything then the best thing to do is cancel.
2007-06-12 10:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by H0T_SAUZE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question makes no sense to me here you are got engaged but you say you fight all the time. Why would you get enaged or even still be with someone that you fight with all the time. It is a no brainer to cancel everything if this is the way you feel. You should not have said yes in the first place. Now you didn't mention if you guys had fights before the engagement maybe your mate is unsure of commitment to you and is getting cold feet or wishes he could take back the proposal?.
If these fights are just a bunch of crap ask why your mate wants to argue all the time. It is normal to have disagreements in any relationship but it should not be a continual problem and should not be ripping the relationship apart.
Just a thought would you consider yourself a bridezilla?.
If you answered yes then maybe you must consider that your mood swings are driving him nuts, and maybe he feels your spreading your finances a little thin with a big wedding.
Yes of course it is suppose to be the biggest day of your life but it should not put you in debt for thirty years either!.
It appears to me that finances are what you argue about most often if I'm wrong sorry but that is usually the case. You must start making some compromises because when you marry that is what married life is all about.
I hope this helps and just stop nagging him and bugging him about the wedding stuff some guys just show up when there wives do all the planning he sounds like one of those guys.
God Bless and if you are unsure then cancel until you feel more secure in your decision. Best Wishes.
2007-06-12 17:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a sec...he asked you and you said yes, hence the engagement and yet you fight all the time and you're unsure? Why did you say yes in the first place?
Now ask yourself this: How often in a week do you fight? How many of these fights could be avoided if both of you would just grow up and stop arguing so much? How long do your fights last? How often do you apologize as opposed to him?
After answering all these questions, you'll know if you should really be engaged.
2007-06-12 17:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
According to Homer Simpson just two simple words "I'm Gay".
Well, you hurried up too much. But don't try to cancel everything because you're upset right now. You need to talk, just give a little time and try to delay the wedding. Talk to your mate and see if you can stay for a couple of days whitout fighting. If works, let's give a couple of weeks, then try for a month.
But if you continue to fight just tell him/her that the wedding is big risky under this circunstances.
2007-06-12 17:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by Horacio G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you too are fighting all the time and just got engaged then you really have no business getting married. If you are in love with each other you need to get counciling first to work out your issues...then if you still feel the same afterwards, think about marriage.
2007-06-12 17:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by mamapoulette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, cancel everything. People who fight a lot have no business planning a marriage.
2007-06-12 17:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! It's much easier & cheaper than a divorce. Especially if there are 1 or more children involved.
2007-06-12 17:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by JERSEY BOY ♠♥♦♣ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-06-12 17:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋