Either you want someone or you dont. So y play with their head or their emotions I mean really. This guy I'm seeing is always playing these little mind games and saying that he's going to leave when he never really does. My friends say he's just trying to conform me to be the way he wants me to be to have mind control over me and it's frustrating me because I'm not going for it. Why do guys do this...why toy with peoples emotions. Either you want someone or you don't so why the games.
2007-06-12 09:50:25 · 19 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You must be playing along for him to continue on.
2007-06-12 09:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jukebox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to make an observation, then voice an opinion.
Observation: Look at what you just wrote. You are working yourself up into a frenzy. You are obsessing, just a little.
Opinion: You are playing mind games with yourself by taking something he says and turning into a mind control issue. Guys aren't very complicated. Girls are complicated and we hate the answer that is staring us in the face. Guys either tell the truth or they tell us what they think we want to hear so we don't go psycho on them.
Advice: Chill. Give your poor brain a rest. You will drive yourself crazy. You are correct. You either want someone or you don't. Take your own advice and ditch Mr. Game-Player, if that's what you think he's doing.
2007-06-12 09:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by Yup Yup Yuppers 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both sexes play mind games. Men don't sit around thinking: "What can I do to drive this girl crazy?" Most of the time we are just inconsiderate. Personally there are times when days go by and I don't call a lady-friend. I've been accused of 'playing the game,' but the real reason is that it just doesn't cross my mind to call them. I have nothing to say, my day was standard and boring, nothing new to report since the last time we talked. Some guys play mind games. Most of us are too dumb.
2016-05-18 03:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by josefa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men play mind games but for the ones who do I think that it is just a power thing that they get off on.
They like to know that they can play with you and have you wrapped around their finger.
dont fall for one of these... I've been there and done that... and it hurts like hell.
2007-06-12 09:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by Toria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm so hes telling you that if you dont do something he wants he will leave
thats abusive, you should get out of the realtionship
not all guy are like this, actaully most arent, were not that smart ot play minf games, we wear our emotions on our sleeves, except maybe hurt, besides that no games
2007-06-12 09:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by willycj5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time he says that he is fixing to go tell him "bye". He got issues. Make it seem like you are not worried about him and I promise you that he will stop playing these games.
2007-06-12 09:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by MrsCAPTAIN !!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF we women knew why men played mind games wouldnt we all be happy?
2007-06-12 09:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by Evil Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men play mind games because women let them.
You are going for it sweety or you wouldn't be cofused and asking questions.
Woman up and put your foot down. Or just let him go.
2007-06-12 09:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by Still*Perfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
game-players suck, and are everywhere... he is keeping you on a leash while he looks for someone he can control even more...
why dont YOU break up w/ him if it is so bad?
....we have all been there at some point... dont loose heart, there is a good one out there somewhere...
2007-06-12 09:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by michael 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys use mind games to make themselves feel superior over women. a lot of boys feel like they're being treated like crap so they use mind games to frustrate other people (making them feel happy).
2007-06-12 09:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by Braydon D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋