ok cheating is wrong ya da ya da but its came down 2 that i have 2 unless u can give me some better reason because i love them both
2007-06-12 09:15:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, u can think about how you would feel if one of the 2 guys dates another girl, and see if you'd be OK with it.
2007-06-12 09:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ღαsнℓэч vαиэssαღ♥™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean actually going on dates with two different people, then I would say go for it. There's nothing wrong with getting to know different people, just as long as both of the people know that your just looking for now. If your talking about cheating, then for shame! Cheating is never, ever right. It's always a very selfish act. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
2007-06-12 16:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by Drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well something's going to happen and when they find out about one another then your toast and you'll have zero. Make up your mind and quick. Try getting a piece of paper and writing down the pros/cons of both males then pass a final judgement and stick with it. I used to have a girlfriend like you and no she's all alone and noone wants to be around her because she's so indecisive. Bottom line, don't string these poor fellows along.
2007-06-12 16:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by Just keep breathin' 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it isn't cheating if they each know about the other, and you haven't made any promises to either one of them. There's nothing wrong with dating more than one person. The problem comes when you make a commitment to one person, and then date other people. So figure out what it is you're doing, and be perfectly honest with everyone involved.
2007-06-12 16:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you try to date both of them you are asking for trouble and both will probably eventually drop you. If you tell both of them that you are dating someone else and they think it is OK then go for it. I'm not sure how you have time to date two guys at once anyway.
2007-06-12 16:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by nitesong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't committed to anyone, then you can date as many guys as you like...just be honest about it.
Nothing wrong with it at all, unless you've told them they are the only one you are dating, or you are involved with someone exclusively and decide to date behind their back.
I really doubt you love either one of them at this point, if you've never dated them. The whole point of dating is to get to know someone and see if feelings develop...we don't typically wait to fall in love and then start dating...
2007-06-12 16:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a date with each one of them. Which ever on that you can't have a civilized conversation with then he is not the one. The one that you should choose is the one that you can have an awesome convo with and that likes the same things you do. Make sure he is not some stuck up jerk. Make sure that he is honest and trustworthy!
2007-06-12 16:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just choose one. Because like you said cheating is wrong and if you really loved them both then you wouldn't want to risk hurting one of them.
2007-06-12 16:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dated a lot of girls that do this. They tell both guys that they are just friends, and they kind of date them, until they decide which one they like best. Then they take it to the more physical level with that guy.
2007-06-12 16:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if they love you as much as you love them them they will respect your decision to have them share you. If either of them can't cope with that then which ever one can then he obviously loves you more than the other guy and respects your feelings. After all your feelings count in a relationship as much as theirs, if the feelings aren't mutual, what relationship is there?
2007-06-12 16:19:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋