2007-06-12 09:18:51 · 14 answers · asked by baumbaum23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long distance relationship is never easy, but there are ways to make it work. You can try to visit him, and talk to him at least once a day. If you don't have time, you can ask him to come visit you every 2 months or so. You have to find new topics that interest you both. Relationship is based usually on sharing experience and interests together. When you have similar interest, you will like to do the same things together. But since you two are so far apart, you will have to keep the relationship fresh and keep building more memories and experience.
But, if he is losing feelings for you because there is not much similar interests, or there is a third person,then you may want to reconsider and reevaulate if this is worth it for you to save.
good luck!
2007-06-12 09:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by madaline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would also look forward to an aswer to this question, because i am actually unsure if my boyfren and i of 1 yr and 4 months is gonna become a long distance relationship. i am sure ur bf kept tellin u b4 he would never lose feelings for u an all kinds of things like that... mine says the same thing. but m girlll... da ways i see it... if he is losing feelings for u just because yall are far away... den i dont think he loved u in the first place. thats how see it :S
2007-06-12 09:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Godess♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't know why he is losing feelings for you I can't help. Maybe the long distance isn't working for him which is pretty common. Find a local guy and move on.
2007-06-12 09:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by David B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, it's a long distance relationship...there isn't much of anything you can do. Just let him know that your feelings still haven't changed. Maybe remind him of past experiences the both of you shared that would make him remember why he is in the long distance relationship?
2007-06-12 09:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by Drew 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen, with an ear toward really hearing, cause this would be the natural progression, and women can hold out longer in a fantasy romance than a guy could. they tend to be more share we say tactile. Let him go. At least at some other time, it could be right. I'm sure this is where he wants to go here, so I wouldn't go all drama on him. He may like to keep intouch if you don't go google on him.
2007-06-12 09:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move - live near him if you want to keep the relationship going. When there is distance between two people -- it's more than likely the relationship will fade away.
2007-06-12 09:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by DEBBIE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if you can go visit him. Or, talk about a more permanent solution with him, such as moving closer or something. If you two are really meant to be, then it will work out somehow. If not, then you will find somebody better. You gotta do what you gotta do.
2007-06-12 09:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by corrola_1995 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him, next time he calls, and asks how have you been doing, tell him fine and rush his A** off the phone, and don't call him. He'll be sorry he pushed you away. Tell him you are giving him his space and trying to move on, he'll lose his mind.
2007-06-12 09:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by Janice Dickinsons' Shrink 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats sad, but you cant really do anything. I say you just go along with what he says and watch him call you in a few days crying for you back. They want what they cant have. So be what he cant have.
2007-06-12 09:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jukebox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. long distance does not work. i dont care how hard you try, it will not work. I guarantee it. if he can tell you hes loosing feelings, whats next? he'll dump you first. beat him to the punch.
2007-06-12 09:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋