Have you ever cheated on your spouse? If so how did you feel about it after?
2007-06-12 08:20:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes.
I felt so bad I left him. He did not deserve to be with a cheating wife.
He never found out, but the affair is my biggest regret in life.
2007-06-12 08:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I felt great about it.
Now I know you will think what sort of heartless SOB would feel great about cheating on their spouse, but let me give you a little back ground info.
My wife and I where married 7 years and she started up an affair with a man she worked with. I kicked her out of the house and maintained custody of our children. I know I just said she had an affair which did suck, and lower my self esteem. I proceed to start dating while my wife and I were seperated and came to know these two lovely women. I started to go out more and have lots and lots of sex. It was something like 3 to 4 times a day. Needless to say my self esteem improved greatly. However, my wife started to realize that after several months that the man she had the affair with was not going to leave his wife. I was having a great time being very opne about it with my wife about where I was going and what I was doing. Well, time passed and my youngest had some medical problems which forced my wife and I together, but I was a much stronger person this time and she fell in love with me again. I'm not in love with her, but I do value her as the mother of my children. So my affairs I think made me a better stronger person. I know now that I can not only live without my wife, but thrive and my life is as good as I want it to be. You may ask why I'm staying with my wife after her affair, but in truth I'm too happy doing what I want to let her bother me. I drive her totally nuts and I enjoy every minute of it.
2007-06-12 09:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and I know that I should feel bad, but truth is I don't. I put up with his cheating for years, even to the point where he demanded an open relationship - which he got - so I can't really consider it cheating - he had said that our relationship was open so he could have his fun so I figured what was good for the goose was good for the gander, so to speak. Funny part was when he found out, he went nuts - I guess that the open relationship was only allowed for him. And that is why I have never let it bother me, I figure he got what he deserved, now an open relationship is the last thing he wants!!!
2007-06-12 08:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I've been cheated on too many times to ever put someone through that. I love him, and would never do that to someone I loved. How could you?
2007-06-12 08:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by juggalizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hid it because I didn't want my boys to think it was okay
Then THEY found out and I had to leave so that they didn't think it was okay.............my husband took all of our money out of the bank, hid it, took MY car that was in both our names sold it and got one in his name only, got me fired (don't ask) got custody of our boys 'cause I had nothing, no job, no car, no place to live, so I started a nervous breakdown that lasted 2 years he married the other women........who was also married with children and my kids now think I am a bum.
2007-06-12 08:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by Dino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have, and I made myself think it was justified. I know there is no such thing but I was so unhappy that I didnt feel guilty at all. He never found out.
2007-06-12 09:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by Orleanslady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i currently am! I am a mother and wife.i love my child very much! I want my child to have a family environment! Yet,on the other hand my husband is crazy! I have tried and tried on several occasions to work it out,counseling,church everything!Not saying by any means I am right! but it does make his bullshit easier to deal with knowing i have a date on Saturday with someone who appreciates me,makes me feel special,and who is great in bed!!! i think my sleep is sweeter than it ever has been!!!
2007-06-12 08:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by erica k 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No I havent and never will. Cheating is not good.
2007-06-12 08:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Never.
2007-06-12 08:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by Love_my_Cornish_Knight❤️ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I never did. Now I wish I had, lol, because he turned out to be a real jerk.
2007-06-12 08:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by Trisha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋