A couple of months ago a ''GIRL'' came to my door looking for my man and had said they had been together and i tend to believe her due to i found text messages from her.He said there was nothing going on and to this day he still says she was crazy trying to mess up my head.What do you all think?
2007-06-12 08:21:24 · 28 answers · asked by shwn_hancock 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girls' don't do that randomly, that's a pretty weak lie from him. You already know the truth and it is hard to accept but he is clearly cheating or was cheating. You respect yourself and don't take that from him!
2007-06-12 08:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say that he is cheating or was. A girl would not just come to your door and say that. Then you find text messages from her that puts it all together. He is just trying to cover by telling you that she is crazy, he just wants you to believe him not her. You know the truth, believe it or not you know deep down what is right. Try talking to him, don't go at him all angry just relax and tell him that you can not get past it and if you don't know the truth you can not work on things.
2007-06-12 08:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he was stupid enough to engage in an affair with a broad as dippy and careless than that he should have his head examined.
Yeah..."text messages" but "there was nothing going on. Riiiight. Tell me...will you send me your phone # so I can text you? What? No? You don't give out that information to strangers? Only people you know well?
Hmmm....then what could be your husband's excuse? really...some little chippie just wanders over to your house and says she had a fling with him for laughs? Uh-huh...like Amy Fisher did? Why would she want to mess up your head? Unless she was told "I leave her for you baby" and then of course...he didn't.
You are not out of line in your thoughts. As a matter of fact...probably dead on the money correct.
2007-06-12 08:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After 6 years , I see trouble on the horizon. Your man starts looking at other women no matter how beautiful you are and starts more than likely having a romp in the bedroom. I think this girl is wrong in coming to your door and having the nerve to tell you this face to face. It is more than likely true but I don't think your man wants to lose your for her. But he is looking so you better start watching him because men are like animals, they sniff around find one that is in , and they will hop on for a ride. I don't think your relationship will ever be more than it is right at the present. He is not a married man and he knows it , so if you want to put up with his womanizing, just let well enough alone but if you think you are going to stop him , then you better start looking around. yourself.
2007-06-12 08:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say, but I would believe her... my boyfriends paretns are getting a divorce now, after 32 years and it was because he cheated on her with a younger woman. He said that is did not mean anything, just that he needed to be "stroked and carressed", yet he dineied it all, until she confronted the woman, and then his story changed... What was her reason for telling you? How did he know the girl?? What does your gut instinct tell you??
2007-06-12 08:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by In Love?? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to do is get checked out for STD's and wait for those results.
2nd, sit him down, tell him "I love you honey, but I need to know the truth about this girl." ( You have results to tests in hands, and I pray that you are ok.)
Then listen, watch him and see how he responds, ask questions. But do not let this sit, or it will eat you up inside. Do not yell at him, or scream insanely, wait until you are calm and cool.
But remember to take those tests, so you don't find yourself with something you did not have before.
Good luck and best wishes.
2007-06-12 09:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he probably had a thing with her and broke it off. She probably knew he had a woman at home, so she showed up on the doorstep hoping to cause an argument so he'd have no choice but to come running back to her. He's most likely not seeing her anymore, but I wouldn't put it past him to do it again.
2007-06-12 08:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by daeraelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your instincts. If they're telling you he's been messing around, then he probably has been.
Most sane girls don't just come up to your door and text a guy at random.
Good luck!
2007-06-12 08:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront both of them! If u find out if he is cheating, then lying!! thats a another way to dumb him ,if he is doing this to u, u shoudnt be with him anyway! U can do better!! follow ur heart!!
2007-06-12 08:29:55 · answer #9 · answered by kandykell2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it looks like a duck, sounds like a then your man is a lying dog! Seriously what does your gut tell you? You are usually right.
2007-06-12 08:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by Savi S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋