stressed out!.... only serious answers please?

Question

i dont need you to tell me that im doing things wrong or that im a shity kid i just need some help not sarcasm so if ur gonna be an *** dont bother i dont know what to do..i am trying to move out b/c my family want me out. i have 2 weeks to get my cheerleading squad (which im captain of) of 32 girls ready for competition (we just learned our coriography) I just got an MIPT which i cant pay for because my parents for some reason havent alowed me to get a job till now & i dont wana tell them cause they'll flip ****! i have 8 hours of community service to get done before thursday, but i have practice for 4 hours today n for 6 hours tommorow. My best friend overdosed on cocaine yesterday, & the friend i am currently living with is pregnant, & the boyfriend left so im like the one that goes to the doctor with her n crap. I am way stressed out n have olsers (if thats how its spelt) to the point that im coughing up blood... i want everything to just go away!!!!! what should i do? please help

Answer 1

I am so sorry that this is happening, Brittany. Try to rid yourself of the un-needed stress.
To be quite honest, the best thing to get done now is the community service hours. Get another girl from your team that you can trust to take your spot until Thursday. Go ahead and get that done and over with. That will help get some of this load off your chest. It would be better for you to lose a day or two trying to get things right than to not be going with your team to the competition.
About the MIPT, go to the court date assigned to you to make a payment arrangement. They will allow you to amke payments. This will hopefully give you enough time to work things out. . .
I'm really sorry to hear about your friend. I don't know if you pray. . . I know it sounds all cliche but prayer does work.
About your other friend who is pregnant, the best thing you can do is be as supportive as possible. I remember you live in Texas so- look into filing for Medicaid for your friend. this will take car of doctor's visits, hospital stay, etc. Also, the WIC program will help provide her with the basics she will need like milk, cheese, juice cereal all the way until the child is like 5. Food stamps could also be an option for her.
As for the coughing up blood, are you smoking heavily or anything like that?
You know you can contact me anytime, I am more than willing to do what I can to help you.

Answer 2

Several things: 1. Get some counseling... see the school counselor or a pastor. 2. Understand that all things pass, 3. Make a list and decide what is important and what can be let go and then work on the list (one thing at a time) and don't think about the other things and lastly, count your blessings... honest... your not dying of cancer, life is beautiful, flowers smell nice. It is all a matter of perspective. Been there, done that.

I like to tell myself when stressed: "Life is a b*t*h and then you die" which reminds me that everything above that level is good, even when bad. It is all a matter of perspective. Good luck.

Answer 3

Just take a deep breath. Get your priorities lined up . Community service should be on the top of the list. Finding a job second to pay bills and get you a stable place to live. Third trying to smooth things out with your parent's ,because you need them even though you think your an adult. You definitely need to have that Ulcer problem checked out because that can kill you, but too help with that chew on some tums or Rolaids. You just need to focus your energy on things that are going to better you. Cheer-leading is great , but at this point you need to really take care of your self and your family issues. I know that it will work out for you. You just need to think thing through and make better choice's.

Answer 4

Tell your parents! (they'll usually flip out even more if you dont tell them) they might ground you ....100 years mebe but usually they would know what to do they might help u pay a little of ur MIPT, next ask one of ur most closest and experienced cheerleading friends to start training them (shell be like a Temp-Co-Capt.) Do ur Comm Service first casue there is no way 2 get out of that. ask the boyfriend TO GO WITH HER 2 THE DOCTOR make some deal with him. Anyother things i have missed look for more answers or GET HELP (NUMBER ONE THING TO DO) Talk to your coach about working things out with cheerleading if you have one. READ>>>>ENDING SENTENCE FIND A DOCTOR FIRST BEFROE ANYTHING ABOUT THE BLOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<<<<

Answer 5

talk to your co captian... and ask if she can go over the coriography with your squad while you get your communtiy service done because who know what could happen if you don't get that taken care of. your pregnant friend either needs to tell her parents or you need to tell her that you have things to get done but you'll be there for her as soon as you're done. go to the doctor and let him know what's going on with the coughing up blood situation, he'll probably give you some medicine for that and a low anti-depressant to help you out. good luck!

Answer 6

I know cheer is prob your top priority, but you HAVE to do your community service. You need to drop out of the competition. I don't think they'd let you compete anyway with your ulcer. Tell them you have an ulcer and do your community service! It sucks but you don't want to know what a judge would do to you if you don't get it done.
Cheerleading is short term, your life and your police record is more important. TRUST ME!
Don't worry about your friends. I hope everyone is ok, don't get me wrong, but you need to get your life sorted out before you tackle someone elses.

Answer 7

First of all get rid of the ones that you can get rid of. If you can't just try this, it helps me a lot:
Write down everything that's on your mind, then set priority to each of them and bring out your calender. Write them down in your calender, like Monday 4-6 practice, Wednesday 3-5 Dr. appointment, etc.
This way I always have time for everything and because everything is saved on paper I don't need to think it over and over in my head.

Good luck!

Answer 8

first you need to see a doctor, especially if your coughing up blood.then you need to evaluate your life and see where you can make changes so you won;t be so stressed out. if you have a ulcer, you will have to change things so you stay calm, and dont let people and situations stress you.