a goofy George Bush supporter who can't get it up? I have a co worker who was telling me that her husband hasn't touched her in over a year and does nothing but listen to Rush Limbaugh and watch Fox news when he gets home from work. He also refuses to give her or al se x becuase "the bible says its bad".
Is she wrong to have found a young man on the side to satify her needs?
2007-06-12 08:02:03 · 21 answers · asked by Steve J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
FYI -She can afford to leave right now and it typical NEOCON fashion, he has threatened to kill her if she does.
I think it is funny that the mail room boy is doing her 4 times a week while he calls into Rush!
2007-06-12 08:09:38 · update #1
Yes. She should be woman enough to leave her husband if he doesn't make her happy and isn't fulfilling his part of the relationship. Just because he's lame doesn't justify cheating. Even though he's a "goofy George Bush supporter" he still deserves better than a cheating ho like her.
2007-06-12 08:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by urstruly8604 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she is wrong. She should have enough respect for herself and her spouse to try to work out this problem at home. If her husband is unwilling to change his ways, then she can decide what she wants to do. Affairs/cheating never help a marriage. If your coworker is that unhappy, she should consider seperation or divorce. The first thing she should do is be honest with her husband about the lack of sex (any kind) is affecting her.
2007-06-12 08:09:08 · answer #2 · answered by k h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the husband mentioned so... i could carry together that HE CHEATS TOO... and consequently am all desirable that i will accomplish that, see you later there have been no strings related. that ought to make me very nerve-racking and that i reckon we ought to handle each and every others sexual desires and needs. No... as quickly as in a marriage i does not cheat. except i ought to interrupt the emotional bondage and wanna out of the marriage... then i could cheat and break up.
2016-10-17 01:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by zaragosa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never right to cheat on your spouse but if he is like that she needs to leave him and you say he will kill her if she leaves him then what do you think he would do if he found out she was cheating on him. She needs to get a divorce and if he trys to hurt her or stop her she needs to contact HRS, or call 911. He can legally make her stay with him.
2007-06-12 08:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong to cheat on a spouse. No matter what the situation. The right thing to do would be to leave the lazy bastard and then get on with her life.
2007-06-12 08:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No it is not ok for her to have an affair. Marriage is for better or worse and she took a vow to stay faithful. If she is not happy, the first think to do is consult someone of authority. Go to a marriage counsellor.
2007-06-12 08:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by SG GAL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My goodness! What a bad situation!
No, cheating is never the answer. If she wants to do the mailroom boy, she needs to get a divorce first.
2007-06-12 08:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by bellesnail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you on the anti-bush sentiment, but you need to find another topic of conversation. Either get off your laurels and do something about (bush and the war) or let it go.
2007-06-12 08:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe in cheating at all, but I do think that she needs to tell him how she feels and go from there. If he does not satisfy her and it sounds like in a lot of ways not just sexually, she may need to think about leaving him.
2007-06-12 08:10:44 · answer #9 · answered by peaches8866 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, the bible dosn't say sex is bad....but premarital sex is very very very bad.....sex before marriage? Terrible.And to cheat on your husband? NO!Not at all.....he's your husband, not some tiny piece of life you can ignore....you married him....and to cheat on him?! Now, the bible DOES say that's bad!
2007-06-12 08:18:23 · answer #10 · answered by flip flop freak :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋