Ok, so I've been going out with my girlfriend for just over 2 months now. We'd known each other a bit longer than this but it was only a couple of months ago that we first made the committment and became exclusive. Anyway, before she came along I had pretty been been fairly cynical about the whole love and emotion thing. I was in a previous relationship for about 3 years and ended up feeling very trapped by it all.
I know its very cliche, but since being with my new girlfriend I couldn't be happier. Without even trying she has made me feel complete and I find myself lost without her around. All those old statements about true love that I used to ridicule now make so much sense to me... I've never felt a connection like this before and things just keep getting better and better. Although I know what I feel, I don't always manage to say it...without it coming out in a complete jumbled mess! Although I believe she feels the same spark that I do, I don't want it to seem like I'm...
2007-06-12 00:06:33 · 6 answers · asked by Crisimn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...rushing into things. Do you think that there is a time frame when it comes to falling in love with someone? I hear the whole I love you thing thrown about a lot these days and it just seems that when its overused it loses meaning. I don't want it to come across in a really corny way and I would hate for her to think I didn't really mean it. Should I hold back or just go with what feels right? Anybody have similar feelings?
2007-06-12 00:09:55 · update #1
well just relax and let it flow, love can be very complicated and so its better to just let her just build her love slowly rather than you just rushing in and saying loads of things because you could scare her. just keep it cool and see how it goes, i have been in the same situation with my girlfriend and im still with her, after nearly 11 months, at first i fell for her and nearly scared her off but i seeked advice and just kept it cool and now i can say what i want at any time because she feels the same way.
2007-06-12 00:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by jack 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fate and destiny i believe in . Accept what youve been given.
You are obviously compatable and have connected with each other.
Dont spoil the moment by questioning things.Live with wot you have been given and enjoy for it may only last a short while or on the other hand it could be eternity.
Who knows with destiny.
2007-06-12 07:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by clutterbuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww this is very sweet..*sniff*.. :-)
If your last relationship was'nt all that good,and you were trapped,then getting into a much happier one is going to make you get that 'spark' quite quickly..
Remember,some people believe in love at first sight,so 2 months is'nt atall too soon..
Best of luck :-)
2007-06-12 07:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by baby_lou_smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no time limit on love...and there is no love without risk!
One thing I have learned though is that love will express itself easily enough when the time is right. It is your actions that demonstrate it. I do tell my girlfriend that I love her, but I show it in lots of other ways too. Words will never be enough...so don't rely on them too much!
2007-06-12 07:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her howmuch you care about her for now. Wait until you are sure that she feels the same way about you. A few more months should do.
2007-06-12 07:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't put a time frame on love.....it just happens. Be glad that it happened to you and enjoy it!! I wish you both well............
2007-06-12 07:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by RetroChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋