i'm a gay and i want my partener to be a male instead of female,but i don't know how to convence my parents.

Answer 1

OH.... DEAR
U VIL REALLY FACE PROBLEM IN INDIA N IT VIL START 4M UR VERY OWN MOM DAD
NO ONE VIL ACCEPT IT
WHOLE OF UR LIFE U VIL FACE PAIN
IF U VIL FIND SOME1 LIKE U AS UR PARTNER NO 1 CUD DISCLOSE IT
EVERY 1 VIL MAKE FUN OF U, UR CHARACTER ,UR BODY, UR MENTALITY ....AS WELL AS UR PARTNERS .NT ONLY U UR PARENTS VIL TOO HURT ...........R U AWARE OF IT?
SOCIETY WONT ACCEPT IT ANY DAY HERE.
AT LAST WEN U VIL B OLD U WONT FIND ANY1 BESIDE U TO B WITH U ...


CAN U LIVE ALONE APART 4M THIS SOCIETY?

R U READY TO SACRIFICE U 4 UR ...........?




JUST SIT N THINK OF IT

QUESTION OF UR LIFETIME


ALL THE VERY BEST

Answer 2

You can't convience them to accept the choices you make. If you can't see yourself with a female then you need to live a life of not enganging in that area.

Sometimes in life our crosses are very big and heavy but it is a choice rather you act on something or not and the bible clearly says not to participate in these type of acts. It is a choice just as a nun chooses to become a nun and marry God not man.

Also try so counseling. There have been many studies done and they have found that a very large percentage of men that really with all of their heart and souls believe they are gay and after long term counseling find they weren't it was a result of some type of trauma.

Either way you need to accept your parents values and opinions and not except them to be convienced or too agree upon. They will still love you but they don't have to accept your behavior.

Answer 3

I can't really see what your parents have to do with it. Unless you are a minor and still under their care. Are you saying that you have got a male partner already, or that you would like one. I have come to the opinion that the gay thing is like a normal part of young men's lives, and they often may try it even if they are seeing girls. So make sure you really do want to lead a homosexual life with a man partner before you even think about discussing it with your parents. If they love you, they will understand and sujpport you, even if it is a bit of a shock at first.

Answer 4

Where you need to convince somebody with the help of others clearly speaks that you are on the wrong path. Why should you go against the natural path. These activities mean end of regeneration so against the human life. Try to read Socrates, Aristotle, Neitshe and good other wirters . Perhaps that will bring you on the rail of life.
Anita

Answer 5

see i think in india atleast it is impossible 2 marry with same gender but you can do one thing you can marry any girl you can tell her about your problem before only. u should marry a girl who should be ready 4 it but b careful b4 telling her so that she oesn't leaks it. u can easily find young, beautiful, poor girl who will b ready 4 comprimise u can give your love 2 her aswell as make relations with a guy with who so ever you want to make. this will help u to face the world also. iam sure if you will find a girl ready 4 sacrifice your whole problem will be solved no one will come 2 know u r a gay
best of luck 4 u'r life.

Answer 6

don't Try to convince this because yours parents never convince with you at this issue reason is that your parents are also the part of society and your society doesn't allow this type relation and one more thing if you are in India then your problem is that you can't enjoy your type sex because there are very hard legal punishment, i think seven to eight years imprisonment.
If you feel helpless and find no control on your this type emotion then i think the last alternative for you is that you have to play hide and seek game with your parents ,society and even with police while enjoying you type sexual enjoyment

Answer 7

If your parents truly love you, they will accept you for whosoever you are as long as you are not committing crimes to hurt others. Parents who love their children would make every effort to support their children's happiness, not drive them to depression and stress, only to become victims of pharmaceutical companies. If your parents are abusive to your needs and to your want of support, you may want to seek out help and support from some gay support groups. I understand that they have outreach programs to prevent helpless gay people from suffering in silence.

Answer 8

Its hard when this world is full of stereotypes. Parents think that hust because their child is different, that means he is imperfect. I resent that. But then again parents want whats best for their child. But in your case, you have to be honest. I can just imagine how they will react. But you have to keep a cool head and ride the wave ya know.

Answer 9

Unfortunately gays are not treated with much respect. It is very difficult for some parents to accept that their children are gay. I have never understood this. A parent is supossed to want happiness for their children. I would be disheartened to find out my child was gay, but it wouldn't change who he is. I love him enough to want him to be happy and would welcome any partner into our family. You need to talk to your parents and explain that although you know it hurts them, it is your choice and you want to be happy and ask them if that is not what they want for you. No matter what their feelings are, you have to do what is right for you and what is going to bring you happiness in your life. Good luck.

Answer 10

look i know it must be really scary and hard for you to build up the courage to tell your parents the truth but you have to do it sooner or later..just sit with them and talk to them nicely about it and give them time to accept it and if they cant then dont get pressurised by society and crap like that just do what u want! being gay isnt anything wrong! u didnt choose it,god chose it for you!