Family & Relationships - 12 June 2007

2007-06-12 19:25:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-12 19:21:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 23, my bf he swears he loves me but really he treats me more like a friend, i have spoken to him about this and he admits that lately we have been drifting appart, he says he doesnt want to break up with me, neither do i. But i dont really know how to make things better between us. My friends say that he actually doesnt love me, that he is just sweet talking me because he doesnt want to hurt my feelings. I have asked him to be honest and tell me if he loves me, and he says he feels that i dont trust him when he says he does, he said "if i had a slight doubt about us i would have broken up already, but i do want to work on this, is just at the moment i have to sort out my own issues so i might not seem like i am there for you like before but i am", then he said, "i will say this but i dont want you to take it the wrong way, i will be there for you always, even if in the future we are not lovers anymore i will still b there", but i love you and will do my best for us to work.

2007-06-12 19:07:39 · 8 answers · asked by saminita 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-12 19:04:01 · 6 answers · asked by blondboarder18 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 20 yrs, with 3 kids. And never feel one day my wife betrayed me and we make love daily like crazy!! Lately the Landlord use to come home when I’m away to help my wife shovel the snow. He set at home and she offer him food, my neighbor told me he always come when you gone.
I asked my wife why this man you letting him in? She said he is just a good friend and no intimate sex relation. Then I saw an exchange e-mail from both of them, she’s telling him “Miss you Karl” “Do you miss me??
I asked her what is this? She told me it’s nothing I joke all the time with him, but no sex at all. Shall I believe her???

2007-06-12 19:01:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are the easy and safe ways to know about it when you are not sure of it but you really need to know for some personal reasons? :-(
Except for asking her and getting laid with her?

2007-06-12 19:00:05 · 17 answers · asked by Cold Fire 1 in Singles & Dating

It's long distance, and recently he's had no patience in talking. He says I should "Grow the f*ck up" every time I want to talk to him about realistic things. He's 25 and he still lives at home with his parents because he can't afford living on his own. He recently quit his job.

The thing is a part of me loves him, but a part of me wants to kick him in the nuts. I hate how he has no patience to talk about realistic issues.

What do you think?

2007-06-12 18:57:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im going to get married in a year or two. offlate i started to worry a lot abt getting married thinking do i need to be open with my wife telling her everything abt my past relationships and bed affairs? will my relationship b strong if i tell her everything? gimme ur advice abt tis

2007-06-12 18:54:07 · 22 answers · asked by rtgfbdfgsergser 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, I am here to get a question answered, not to get told not to do anything bacause its wrong. I already know that.

Anyways, I have a supervisor (out of like 8) and I think he has a crush on me. He likes to tease me in a friendly and sometimes flirtatious manner, and and I do the same. He once gave me a magazine to read while I was working(which is prohibited) and after I said jokingly "guys just cant say no to me" and he said 'keep dreaming' and walked away. I dont know why. And then I had 2 male co-workers come up to me and said that he liked me, and then another supervisor told me that too. and the other day, he was hinting at me that he had a secret, and I asked him to tell me and he said no, becuase he wasnt allowed to tell, per the manager. And I asked him again and he said mabey, and to talk to him after work. So I talked to him and he said that he was transferring soon to another town and I asked when Id see him again and he said at the Xmas party?? So whats up with him??

2007-06-12 18:49:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm Black and I really like this White Mormon girl. I think that she likes me and I might like to bring her into the family. Will her parents have trouble with me because of my color?

2007-06-12 18:45:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am the twin sister which has a twin brother. We have been close despite many things have happened in our lives that did distant us for awhile. He and I both married in same year, but his marriage failed. Horrible marriage...he found out the kids he was raising was not his. Anyways, I found a great girl for him thru a mutual friend. They engaged 1 1/2 ys later. This is her 1st marriage. I did not stand up in his 1st wedding due to I disliked his future wife(she forged my name on various checks, she stole things when my parents died..bad lady) well now my twin is getting married to new girl....and she has not asked me to be in wedding. He asked me when we went out to eat and she kicked him under table..she does not know I seen this! So, I could tell (obvious) she was not intending on asking. I am hurt since we USED to be close until she started controlling him. She has to be everywhere with him..he can never come to my house without her...etc...but a sister is a sister..we are twins!

2007-06-12 18:43:32 · 14 answers · asked by Twin~29 1 in Weddings

I know, it's the oldest story in the book. Girl likes guy...guy likes different girl....now girl is heartbroken completely. So, what's the best way to get over this unrequited love? I've tried to tell myself that he's not worth it and try to think about all his faults, but it's simply not working. Anything else to do? (btw, I've never told him that I like him but we have flirted with each other in the past)

2007-06-12 18:43:00 · 6 answers · asked by ~gAsTaTeSwEeTiE~ 2 in Singles & Dating

So this past weekend by gf got drunk, and had sex with some guy at a party. We have been dating for 10 months. She says she blacked out and can't remember anything, but thinks that she was taken advantage of by the guy. She has always gone to parties and gotten drunk, but this is the first time she has cheated on me. After she told me, she promised me she would quit drinking to prevent to possibility of this happening again. What should I do? Do i stay with her or break up with her?

2007-06-12 18:37:06 · 45 answers · asked by bosox722 2 in Singles & Dating

My name's Evangeline, and I'm 25 years old. I'm using my best friend Adrianna's yahoo because I don't have a computer or tv at home. So I thought I'd take this opportunity to see how many others are content with their lives.

I have two sons Jack is 3 and Shawn is 2. I live in a 3 bedroom house in a suburban neighborhood in Los Angeles. My husband and I have been married for 7 years. I drive a typical used car, and I clip coupons for my once a month grocery shopping at Wal-Mart. That's where I get all of my clothes, Wal-Mart. And my sons and my husbands too.

We take a family vacation once a year. My husband Hayden works a typical 9-5 office job, and makes a typical pay.

We live an average American life.

And I love it.

I couldn't be more happy. Having my sons, my husband, and so many good friends...I couldn't be more blessed.

Well, ok I could be.

And I am going to be. This August I'm having a baby girl. Hayley.

Is anyone as happy as me? *perfectly*

2007-06-12 18:36:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I love this guy with all my heart but he tells me all the time i ***** too much or complain too much but if anyone complains alot its him. He freakin broke up with me earlyer because i got mad bc he has to work 3rd shift which means he's slept all day today and hes gonna sleep all day tomorrow n we get no time together. I was so use to seeing him daily durning school n now i don't see him as much n its killing me. we have almost been dating 2 years. I don't feel that i can let go. i love him all too much. He gets mad bc suppovly everytime he tries to break up with me i cry. I can't help that i cry. its driving me insane n i don't know what to do. all i know is i love him with all my heart. He says he gets tired of strings attached but he does it to me too. Tells me i can't go out with my friends or anything. I wanted to go clubbin my 18th birthday oh hell no that wont happening. just yeah. i dunno what to do.

2007-06-12 18:33:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-12 18:30:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok,well I was wonderering if I sound pretty 2 u?

-I have hazel bluish green eyes
-I am kinda heavy built
-a great smile
-brown with blonde highlighted layered hair


Does that sound pretty at all to ya?

2007-06-12 18:28:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months and he's going back to Russia and I'm not sure when or even if he's going to come back. I'm very willing to stay with him and make things work but I'm not sure if he's willing to do the same for me. I would appreciate any advice from anyone who has been in the same position as me (especially someone from Russia or the Ukraine) or has experienced a very long distance relationship. Thanks :)

2007-06-12 18:28:49 · 13 answers · asked by exto88xo 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a married man I am also married. I have known him a long time and we are best friends he is much older than me, I am 32 and he is 60. We have had this relationship for 13 years he has been married for 30 plus years and I for 14. What do I do????

2007-06-12 18:28:20 · 16 answers · asked by sxy+brains 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering.... I have a friend who was my former teacher and ever since the semester ended, we have talked through email all the time. We have also gone to lunch a couple of times since then. She is pregnant and married. She told me to call her by her first name by implying she wants to be friends and she actually got me and my b/f started on a hobby that her and her husband do. Well anyway.. I think she she is a really good person and I would really like our friendshipto progress into where we become better friends as in that I mean talking on the phone and visiting each other at our houses and stuff like that. Well I am unsure if she wants to be friends like I do and I kind of wanted to ask her where she "stood". I dont know how to ask her though w/out seeming rude or ruining anything to where she got mad and never spoke to me again. Does it seem like if i kept on.. we might become good friends??What do you think?

2007-06-12 18:26:54 · 6 answers · asked by greenturtle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-12 18:26:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today I turned 18 (which means no limit on when I have to be home as far as drivers license goes) and my friends invited me to go over and play poker. My mom said I should be home at 1 since my license only allows me to be out as late as 1, but once you turn 18 in my home state, there are no more limitations but when I informed her of this she said still be home at 1. I got home at 1:15, and I hit lots of red lights even though there is NO traffic on the road (and she doesnt believe me about this). I have a VERY good track record with times and this is a first that I'm late, but its 15 minutes not an hour or two. When I got in at 1:15, my brother and mom met me at the door and my mom said she's going to have a talk with me tomorrow. My parents are fairly harsh and will probably disallow me from going out with friends for the month and probably the rest of the summer. Mind you, I'm an honors student going to college on scholarship full scholarship. I am not a low-life. Is this unfair?

2007-06-12 18:26:15 · 11 answers · asked by ILuvTaraReid 2 in Family

I am having a difficult time coping with all of this my mother has been sick with various problems with a initial onset of dementia and multiple obstructions and surguries in her life she went to the hospital after a terrible stay at the nursing home where they were not maintaining her properly thus she was in kidney failure I made them call the hospital they came and the ER doc made a mistake when he tried to get a central line long story short she coded on the table and they brought her back and she suffered a great deal now unable to walk and confied to a wheelchair with inoperable cancer. She got terribly worse over sev eral long months and now she is dying I took care of both her and my grandmother who just passed four months shy of her 100 b-day I am extremely close to both and I am the strongest of the family and no one else seems to come or care. How can I get through this??? To make things worse I am disabled.

2007-06-12 18:25:27 · 22 answers · asked by sxy+brains 1 in Family

2007-06-12 18:23:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she's a irresponsible person

2007-06-12 18:22:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-12 18:21:18 · 23 answers · asked by luvmepinkbabe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She is a really fine woman but she is conceit and her arrogance is a turn off. she is really sexy. she thinks i want her and to a certain degree i do.

(my friend has this problem and i posted it because i don't know what to tell him. i think thats the question he asked me.)

2007-06-12 18:19:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a dream that me and this guy were going out and we kissed too........... in real life i like him and he might like me i am not sure........i am 14 ..... do you think my dream means anything?

2007-06-12 18:19:02 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

me &my girl friend both love each other but my &her family members have amended our relationship in broth &sis .what sould we do?

2007-06-12 18:18:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you like a girl but then discover some of her flaws, which flaws would send you running? What kinds of things can you absolutely not tolerate? Keep in mind that no one is perfect and love is all about learning to love someone's flaws...just which ones are unlovable to you?


Note: I'm asking because someone in particular couldn't handle stubbornness, I'm curious to see how common it is for that to be untolerable.

2007-06-12 18:18:21 · 11 answers · asked by tonzalove23 1 in Singles & Dating