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ok, I am here to get a question answered, not to get told not to do anything bacause its wrong. I already know that.

Anyways, I have a supervisor (out of like 8) and I think he has a crush on me. He likes to tease me in a friendly and sometimes flirtatious manner, and and I do the same. He once gave me a magazine to read while I was working(which is prohibited) and after I said jokingly "guys just cant say no to me" and he said 'keep dreaming' and walked away. I dont know why. And then I had 2 male co-workers come up to me and said that he liked me, and then another supervisor told me that too. and the other day, he was hinting at me that he had a secret, and I asked him to tell me and he said no, becuase he wasnt allowed to tell, per the manager. And I asked him again and he said mabey, and to talk to him after work. So I talked to him and he said that he was transferring soon to another town and I asked when Id see him again and he said at the Xmas party?? So whats up with him??

2007-06-12 18:49:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

5 answers

does he flirt with others?
maybe he's telling you he's going to another town so you'll beg him to stay.
Maybe he just wants the attention you give him because he can make you think he likes you.

My brother used to do that to girls; flirt with them at parties until they asked to go somewhere else with him. Then he'd tell them he had gone there with his wife and introduce the wife.

He just wanted the ego/control trip of being told he was wanted and of letting the girl know that he wasn't going to go for her.

2007-06-12 18:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by center of the universe 4 · 0 0

Sounds to me like he was being flirtatious and probably does like you but had no intention of carrying any further than flirting. He probably has a girlfriend somewhere and moving to another town will all but end his flirtation with you other than at Christmas parties. It doesn't sound to me that he ever actually made a move on you, just teased and flirted. Methinks perhaps, you have a crush on him.

2007-06-12 19:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by Robert P 5 · 0 0

Sounds like you just got lucky! Interoffice relationships do not work because once the relationship is over, it causes friction in the workplace. Also, if you date a supervisor, coworkers tend to think that you are getting special treatment and get jealous. This causes a poor atmosphere in the workplace.

2007-06-12 18:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0 0

Yes he has a thing for you, it sounds pretty obvious to me, people have told you he likes you, and he definitely is flirting with you.

2007-06-12 18:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by Stars 2 · 0 0

Who cares. Did you take English in school?

2007-06-12 18:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by jp8 3 · 1 0

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