I was just wondering.... I have a friend who was my former teacher and ever since the semester ended, we have talked through email all the time. We have also gone to lunch a couple of times since then. She is pregnant and married. She told me to call her by her first name by implying she wants to be friends and she actually got me and my b/f started on a hobby that her and her husband do. Well anyway.. I think she she is a really good person and I would really like our friendshipto progress into where we become better friends as in that I mean talking on the phone and visiting each other at our houses and stuff like that. Well I am unsure if she wants to be friends like I do and I kind of wanted to ask her where she "stood". I dont know how to ask her though w/out seeming rude or ruining anything to where she got mad and never spoke to me again. Does it seem like if i kept on.. we might become good friends??What do you think?
2007-06-12 18:26:54 · 6 answers · asked by greenturtle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like you are friends. Lunches and emails. Shared interests. Invite her over for a coffee. Invite her whole family over for lunch. You will know where you stand by her response. Although keep in mind that she may genuinely be busy or away or marking so be respectful and not pushy.
2007-06-12 18:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by smile_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she already considers you a friend. You are already sharing hobbies. Ask her and her husband out to dinner with you and your boyfriend. That way you can share each others company. Offer to babysit for her child so that she and her husband can have some alone time after the baby is born and a bit older.
2007-06-13 01:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the important thing: "Do you like her?" If you do, you allow a friendship to develop. But there's uncertainty that comes through between your written lines. I'll tell you what I think you're not saying . . . . you think there's some sexual connotation that could be 'wife swapping' or an involvement in a bizarre group who do key swapping or something similar.
Here's my tip, if that is your underlying instinct, walk away from it. Your instincts will never let you down.
If I've got it wrong, I apologise.
2007-06-13 01:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by greatbrickhill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea of course
judging by ur other information
though this person is married and pregnant
she seems to be a very cool person if she's gonna talk smoothly with her former student
so yes..
i say go ahead
ask her
wats to lose
i meen
u said former teacher
she's not a teacher still is she?
cuz if she is
uh....i dont even think u should be involved with her the way you are now
2007-06-13 01:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by Tyson c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you already are friends
2007-06-13 01:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by ConciergeBoss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound to be gay.
2007-06-13 01:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by firewall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋