she's a irresponsible person
2007-06-12 18:22:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No you should put your self in her shoes,, she was probably trying to do the right thing..
2007-06-12 18:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by dolphinchic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No because if your true parent wanted you you would not be with your adoptive parent. She took you into her home clothe, fed and put a roof over your head and your mad. You say that she is irresponsible, but what about the parent that gave you up. They did not want you and she did. If you found your true parents and you wanted to them and they did not want to see you or tell you that they don't want ot have anything to do with you what would you say about them? Your mother may be irresponsible now,but she wasn't irresponsible when she first saw you and adopted you she loves you and now you have to show her you love her. Help her she needs you something may be going on that she needs you to talk to her, make her be the mom she once was. Tell her you need her not as her friend, but as her mom.
2007-06-13 01:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most parents that give away their child, do it because they feel that they can not be good parents to the child, or can not afford to take care of the child. You mother was probably one of many young mothers that got pregnant unexpectedly. Try to understand what a hard decision it was for her to choose a better life for you than she could give you.
2007-06-13 01:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you know the reason for adoption you shouldn't judge your birth mother's reason for giving you up for adoption.
It's natural you feeling hurt but your adoptive mother took you on as her child so don't forget her whilst you search out for your birth mother.
2007-06-13 08:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by i love my garden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really u can if u want but she wants u to have a better life then the life u had a nd she loves u very much just sit and think it out the people your with cant be bad ull et ust to it just forgive forget and move on
2007-06-13 01:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by sugar&spiceprincess101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may feel that she abandoned you but have you stopped to think or ask why she gave u up to begin with? Maybe she has a good explaining to why. if she cant give u a good of answer than the ball is in your court. what does your heart say?
2007-06-13 01:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by elmo198221us 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends - if ur talking ur natural mother then no because she probably did wat she thought was in ur best interest
if ur talking ur adoptive mother then the answer is a big fat no because she took u in and created the person that u are today.
without either of these women u wouldnt exist as u are now.
2007-06-13 01:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do a certain degree maybe. But then again u probably got a good life outta it. She did it for ur own good.So u should probably cut her some slack.
2007-06-13 01:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by tboy149 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not neccisarily, sometimes its responsible for the mother to do that because she knows she cant look after her baby and give it the life it deserves!
2007-06-13 01:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋