We have been married for 20 yrs, with 3 kids. And never feel one day my wife betrayed me and we make love daily like crazy!! Lately the Landlord use to come home when I’m away to help my wife shovel the snow. He set at home and she offer him food, my neighbor told me he always come when you gone.
I asked my wife why this man you letting him in? She said he is just a good friend and no intimate sex relation. Then I saw an exchange e-mail from both of them, she’s telling him “Miss you Karl” “Do you miss me??
I asked her what is this? She told me it’s nothing I joke all the time with him, but no sex at all. Shall I believe her???
2007-06-12 19:01:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you didn't suspect it you wouldn't have asked this.. If you feel in your gut something isn't right... ITS NOT... She's probably cheating,.,,If you are doin it daily she;s probably a sex fiend.. Open your eyes He's diddling your old lady....
2007-06-15 13:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Abel H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe this story.
1) Why is this in the "Singles & Dating" section rather than the Marriage and Divorce section?
2) You "feel" your wife has never betrayed you. Yet, after 20 years of that feeling, suddenly you don't trust her.
3) Since when does it snow in the summer?
4) You can afford to offer your landlord food, but you actually have a landlord after 20 years of marriage. What'd you do? Throw the money out the window instead of buying your own home!
5) You don't write like an adult.
Therefore, I don't believe your story.
2007-06-13 02:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by Zeltar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that what she is doing is disrespectful to you. Ask her how she would feel if you did that to her. Help her with the snow yourself, and start doing some special things for her such as flowers or cards. This guy is probably telling her how wonderful and beautiful she is to try to get into her pants. She is eating it up because the romance (not sex, I said ROMANCE) may be missing since you have been married for so long.
2007-06-13 02:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That scares me so much. I would go crazy and put cameras around my house and the second he touches her saw off his hand and feed it to him. then bury him alive.
BE PATIENT!?!?! SCREW THAT!!! You can't wait for it to happen! What if it already happens... WAIT.... ask your oldest child whats goin on. even if theyre 7. ask simple questions. How long they're alone, if he touches mom. Gets close. simple things. if you have a teen they can do some spying. Im sure they would be just as concerned.
2007-06-13 02:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ugly Duckling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if she is feeling romantic feeling towards him, and thinking about anything physical, but hasn't been physical, that is emmotional cheating. because she is not staying true to you in her heart, and eventually it will become physical if it hasn't already, because the temptation is always there. And she shouldn't lead him on in anyway, even if she has no intentions either. She shouldn't even be joking in that way, because obviously she is thinking about something between them that is not right. ANd the bible says if you lust in your heart, then it is adultery.
2007-06-13 02:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a guy, you know that maybe what? 3% of guys who are friends with woman truly have plantonic intentions with them. the other % would sleep with their female friend if given the chance. i would be incredibly suspicious of this whole thing, especially considering the email(s). and even if everything your wife says is true, maybe i'm just old fashion but her actions are very inappropriate. my 2 cents
2007-06-13 02:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The neighbor telling you that he always come to your home when you are gone is verry suspcious and so is that email most of all.
but i have to agree with the above response of just wait and see...
2007-06-13 02:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by L.S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Even flirting is really bad news. She is doing things behind your back. Set up a hidden camera and catch her.
2007-06-13 02:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by moose on the loose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private investigator next time you leave to watch what she does, there you will find your answer!!
Or if your kids are there ask them whats going on!
2007-06-13 02:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by Boondocksaint 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
er.. ok this is sensitive issue. see how it goes ok.. n well if u reallieee dunno wad to do.. set up sum kind of camera at home? tt she cant seE? the mini cams that u can put anywhere ..not so visible. if ur busted, just tell her tt u didnt like what u saw.. the miss u.. miss u stuffs. tts why u had to do it.
if not.. if u dun wana do this, talk to her. tell her tt u dun like him to come to the hse n stuffs when ur not ard. if she loves u, she'll pay respect to ur wishes. say tt its ok when he comes when ur ard.. rite?
2007-06-13 02:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋