I love this guy with all my heart but he tells me all the time i ***** too much or complain too much but if anyone complains alot its him. He freakin broke up with me earlyer because i got mad bc he has to work 3rd shift which means he's slept all day today and hes gonna sleep all day tomorrow n we get no time together. I was so use to seeing him daily durning school n now i don't see him as much n its killing me. we have almost been dating 2 years. I don't feel that i can let go. i love him all too much. He gets mad bc suppovly everytime he tries to break up with me i cry. I can't help that i cry. its driving me insane n i don't know what to do. all i know is i love him with all my heart. He says he gets tired of strings attached but he does it to me too. Tells me i can't go out with my friends or anything. I wanted to go clubbin my 18th birthday oh hell no that wont happening. just yeah. i dunno what to do.
2007-06-12 18:33:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is time to move on. Your relationship was over a long time ago.
2007-06-12 18:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by tigger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind what you want. Do you love him enough to accept his job and quit b****ing so much? Personally, I would not let a man tell me that I could not go out with my friends for my birthday. He sounds way to controlling for me. Of course, I would not beg a man to stay with me either.
You sound very insecure. It is time to stand up to him. Tell him that you love him, and will accept his 3rd shift job, but that he needs to be more trusting of you too. A little communication can go a long way. Try it. Hopefully you can work out your problems, or at least make a decision. Good Luck.
2007-06-13 01:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋