Family & Relationships - 12 June 2007

Okay, I don't like my job. I really don't like it. I hate it, actually. I want to quit and take a job making $5 less per hour until I can find a job I like. I am married. My husband and I are agressively paying off our house. If I take the less paying job-remember, this is only until I find something else or my business takes off-we can still pay all of our bills, but we will have to stop agressively paying off our house. The job I am at currently is stressing me out a lot and I really don't like it at all. I have been there 3 years. Am I selfish to quit?

2007-06-12 17:00:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-12 16:57:06 · 17 answers · asked by bashbrother2006 2 in Singles & Dating

What would you do?

2007-06-12 16:56:28 · 9 answers · asked by IloveYou a 1 in Singles & Dating

We do not get along well, and haven't for years. We rarely see each other. He has pretty much everything he could want or need. I don't know him that well any more.

But I want to improve my relationship with him, and I still love him and miss him, because he is my dad. And he has given me so much over the years that I want to give him something nice this year... especially since this is the last year I will be home on father's day for quite some time.

So, what should I get him for father's day?

2007-06-12 16:53:32 · 11 answers · asked by Rat 7 in Family

If you could choose between either
A. an average love life but to be fabulously wealthy or
B. To be madly in life love but of average means

What do you pick and why?

2007-06-12 16:46:40 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've seen the HBO series, "Big Love", Mormons have been doing this since the 1800's, and some middle eastern cultures have been practicing polygamy since the beginning of time? Gay marriage has been coming up as a question lately. I think that a man will be able to legally and openly live with three wives real soon.

All we need to do is teach the ignorant! :) Peace my brothers :)

2007-06-12 16:46:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

That happened to me and today I am a woman who feels very sad to see all this man who get girls pregnant and then walk away from their responsibility.These man has no idea how much they hurt their child who had to grow up without a father...it will stay with me forever and I will never forget how much pain my father caused me to feel all trough this years,I never had him there for me and I never had the chance to call him father.It still hurts me until today.

My father don't mean **** to me and never will.I have his phone number but I never called because he just don't deserve to hear my voice,and if I called I would call him a ******* *** *****

If you have been trough this post your comments here please.

Thank you .

2007-06-12 16:42:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

whom do u think is stronger batman or wonder woman ,do u think wonder woman could lift or pick batman in her arm

2007-06-12 16:38:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

like what do you actually do and what the difference of someone being grinded???is it the same thing?

2007-06-12 16:37:17 · 7 answers · asked by chunkylover 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 18 years old and my girlfriend lives with her dad and she has been over to my house past her curfue a couple of times. and one or 2 times she has lied to her parents about were she is and i have also lied to them and have gotton cought...but this was only once....so to recap ive lied once, and kept her out past her 11:30 bullshit curfue about 5-6 times? then she gets introuble and ofcourse i am the one to blame? is it to late for me to turn my act around?

2007-06-12 16:35:51 · 4 answers · asked by AJ S 1 in Family

I really don't care that he's in there masturbating, except he makes really loud groaning noises that keep me up/wake me up at night. You can also hear his hand whacking against the shower door as he beats it off. I was wondering if I should approach him, or just wait for it to phase out?

2007-06-12 16:34:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If a girl i have only known for a week, comes by to see me three times in the following two weeks is this a sign of some sort. She told me she was going to come visit everytime and its a little out of her way. She seems to always be smiling when i see her of she smiles as soon as we make eye contact. When she is with me we flirt some but we also talk about serious things that are happening in our lives.

2007-06-12 16:34:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is your experience?

2007-06-12 16:34:31 · 17 answers · asked by Sepiatone01 3 in Singles & Dating

my 18 year old daughter is graduating college and wants to go to college. NO ONE IN HER FAMILY went to college i want to keep that trandian alivie what should i do so she doesnt go to college. she will go to a commity college. Nova i think. the reason she wants to is cause she wants to live a good live i live a good live i get free fried chicken everyday and i dont even work. does evryone else thinks she crazy.

2007-06-12 16:32:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This is for all outcomes. Recently, my wife has wondered why we never had sex for 8 months. I tell her that love isn't always about sex. But at night she takes a muscle relaxants,sleeping pills, and birth control pills. I can't help it, I just do it and she doesn't know. I don't feel guilty because I enjoy it but if she's suspicious, just can't face the truth. This is no fetish. I think all love should be done when one is sleep. Please answer

2007-06-12 16:28:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't feel any need to destroy baptismal records but what is angering me more and more is saying prayers and not being answered. My wife divorced me and I feel Christianity is a fat waste because it has no teeth when it comes to reconciling a couple in disagreement. I looked at the Muslims and I think the Christians need to model after them: I do not feel any judge or magistrate should have the right to break what was sanctified. I feel that the only way a wife can get a divorce is by permission of her husband. Otherwise if the two of them have a disagreement it is OK to be separated until they can come together again in peace. But divorce should be completely removed from the power of any government entity. No you can't force anyone to love you but no one forced them to take those vows. So those vows need to be just as binding as the military inductance ceremony.

2007-06-12 16:28:43 · 12 answers · asked by sharonmm2007 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-12 16:27:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a girl
The 1st time my teacher payed attention to me, she pulled her hair back and gave me a smile, and checked me out. Since then, she always stares at me and checks me out as I walk by. I've done things that p*ssed her off and she never confronted me about it. She also seems a little nosy of what I'm doing. What's up w/ that? I'M NOT MAKING ANY OF THAT UP. She's happily married to her husband. Is she just being nice?

2007-06-12 16:25:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My future mother-in-law wants to invite a bunch of her friends, whom I do not know, to my fiance and I's wedding. Should I pay for the invitations? She wants to invite about fifty or sixty people, whom are just her friends. My fiance and I don't have alot of money. So should I pay for those fifty or sixty invitations she wants?

2007-06-12 16:24:40 · 14 answers · asked by sweet_16_45356 1 in Weddings

my friend is curently in love with her boyfriend, but she pretty knows that this man cant marry her bcoz of their culture differences, if he marries her, his brothers and family will suffer since inter racial marriage is not yet open to them, marrying her would lead to repudiation of marriage proposal to his brothers and down to his generations,but the guy loves her so much, however this girl's ex bf is still contacting her and sending sms, her ex is a very close friend of her. Now the guy is telling her that he still loves her so much and that he is willing to marry her.
I know that this guy truly loves her. I asks her who she really loves, and she answered that she loves her bf.
If you were in her case, who would you choose? Would she wait until her current bf can stand for her or would she choose her ex who is ready to marry her and willing to move heaven and earth for her.

2007-06-12 16:23:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 26 now i have a job i earn 14k a month should i live independent?

2007-06-12 16:22:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years. When will he propose? We've been through many ups and downs, but we've managed to stay together this long. We are both starting our professional careers. We have no kids. We talk about getting married soon. But why doesn't he propose???? I know he can afford a ring. Is he waiting for me to do it or what??? I'm beginning to lose patience. I don't want to give him an ultimatum. What should I do. He knows I'm waiting...

2007-06-12 16:21:51 · 10 answers · asked by ealvarez1920 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend and I are supposed to go to Japan together to study at a university. The problem is I sent for my passport to get renewed over 6 months ago + I still haven't gotten it back + I need to get my visa (need a passport) + the trip is in a week. Ugh! I called much earlier, paid extra, and it was promised that it would be sent last week! So I called my friend and left a calm message saying that I MIGHT not be able to go because of said problem. She told me a few weeks earlier that she was going to her college freshman orientation this week and I forgot, having had other personal, important issues.
She called me screaming at me about: why was I stressing her so much at her orientation when she didn't get 10 hrs of sleep yesterday (I'm not psychic), she was going to explode in anger at me, she is ready (she went last yr so her pass. is fine) so why wasn't I responsible enough to be ready also. She also called me a few nasty things.
What did I do so wrong?

2007-06-12 16:20:41 · 22 answers · asked by thefacade 2 in Friends

there is a man that comes to my house everyday asking for a little food. I hate that he comes here but i feel so bad for him so i give him food when he comes. Now it seems that he is always hangnin around the area. how do i get rid of him and i dont want to get him in trouble he is just lookin for food. I feel so bad for him but its getting very annoying because i have to do extra groceries for him now. I cant afford to do it anymore

2007-06-12 16:19:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He says he dont mind doing them at all yet only does them once a month or when I am very sick.
I tell him I dont like to cook all day eat and the have to do the dishes too.Yet he still dont do them.My friend gave me a brand new dishwasher He threw a fit (cause I am the dish washer)So I had to tell her to give it to someone else ):
His beloved mom that he wants me to be like even has a dish washer,

If to him doing the dishes is so fun why wont he ever do them?

2007-06-12 16:18:23 · 10 answers · asked by Lilly K 4 in Marriage & Divorce

to not make me move in with her....i live with my grandparents and i'm 13 years old and my mom lives kinda far away from me...i'm supposed to high school were i currently live but she want me to move...all my friends don't want me to go and nether my grandparents.....i need help

2007-06-12 16:17:42 · 5 answers · asked by tooba ash 3 in Family

2007-06-12 16:17:35 · 21 answers · asked by Sammy 3 in Friends

we had been 2 gether almost 2 years and it kills him to let go

2007-06-12 16:15:52 · 11 answers · asked by Kendra 2 in Singles & Dating

and we were informed she is screwing around with a co-worker. Her father and I feel that we need to confront her in front of the other guy, to find out if it is a rumor or the actual truth. If it is, we feel she is not ready for marriage and it would be pointless to continue with the ceremony. We have invested a lot of money with this. So, because I value a lot of opinons from some of you. What would you do. Finacially back out. Or because most of it is paid let her marry inspite of our feelings of disgust. We love her intended like a son. And feel he should be clued in tomarrow. And the wedding called off. So, let's hear it. What do you recommend?

2007-06-12 16:15:40 · 12 answers · asked by treasuredwife69 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Despite his complete disregard for my daughter's future, he does seem to be genuinely interested in his 1month old baby girl. I am finding it hard to remain cordial with him when he comes over to my house( my daughter and her baby have moved in with my wife and I for now) to visit his daughter. He has offered to "give" my daughter $XX.XX a month for child support. My wife and I feel this amount is woefully unrealistic. For the sake of our grand-daughter's future well being we have decided to hire legal council. We feel that by putting the custody, paternity and child-support in legal order now, all 3 of them(my daughter, my grand daughter and the father) will be better served in the long run. I doubt that he will look at it that way however. I fear that as soon as he gets served with our lawyers demands, him and his parents will counter our demands with ridiculous demands of their own for the purpose of hoping that we exhaust our funds. Being in the military he gets free legal support

2007-06-12 16:14:05 · 14 answers · asked by gotmini02 1 in Marriage & Divorce