Im 18 years old and my girlfriend lives with her dad and she has been over to my house past her curfue a couple of times. and one or 2 times she has lied to her parents about were she is and i have also lied to them and have gotton cought...but this was only once....so to recap ive lied once, and kept her out past her 11:30 bullshit curfue about 5-6 times? then she gets introuble and ofcourse i am the one to blame? is it to late for me to turn my act around?
2007-06-12 16:35:51 · 4 answers · asked by AJ S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If they have a curfew, follow it don't break the rules, if you lied and got caught you broke there trust. So now earn it back.
2007-06-12 16:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never really too late, but you have lost some of the parent's trust now. Tell them that you wish to appologize for making mistakes in the past. Mention that you realize how important she is to them and she has become that important to you, too. Make them understand that you regret keeping her out so late...and lying about it. If you take a more adult, serious approach as to how you talk with them about your relationship with their daughter, they will listen to you. Just don't try keeping things from them. Believe it or not, they will know if and when you are lying. Lying is never good because you will always be found out! Good luck to your and your girlfriend.
2007-06-12 16:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by BLM 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could apologize for being so disrespectful of her rules, both to her and to her father. While you may feel they are bs, they are his rules for his daughter. When you have your own daughter, you can let her stay out all night with some punk, if you want.
Your only chance with this girl is to try to earn her fathers trust by not compromising his daughter. You should be happy that your g/f's family care enough about her to protect her. Why aren't you?
2007-06-12 16:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apologize, respect her parents curfew, or she may show up with her clothes, crying, no where to go. Would that make you happy ?
Lie a few times and get caught, and people then wonder if anything you say is true. I'm sure they will suggest to her that if you lie to them, you also lie to her, and can not be trusted. How will you get out of that one ?
2007-06-12 16:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by Laurence W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋