male point of view needed?

Question

There is a guy that I have known for about 6 months. I see him most weekends because we both have friends within the same circle.

When I see him I never get a chance to be with him alone because of our friends but I need to know the signs of how he would flirt.
He's quite shy with girls.

He always talks to me,or stands near me but doesn't really say much, jsut little things not a proper conversation.

When I was at a pub talking to a guy he asked my friend if I fancied that guy, she said 'no i don't think so' because she knows who I do fancy. He said 'Wel you can't blame him for talking to her.'

He doesn't really flirt with anyone, but one night he was quite drunk and he kept looking round in his chair and staring at me, not very subtly, he was really drunk though.

On msn he's much more confident, and says hi everyday, sending me songs I might like and pictures of him at a friends house, he even sent me his coursework once lol.

And once when we were in a group of friends in a park, he started saying a ryhme with my name in it? whats that about

He doesn't really aske me questions though, even though he starts the conversation I feel like i'm keeping it going.

I don't know if I sould let him know how I feel. Sorry for the essay! but it's driving me mad

Answer 1

Talk about keeping a short story long...... what was the question again? lol

And you asked this yesterday!!!!!! Do you think if you asked it everyday for a week you might have a clue what to do? Just tell him.... its not rocket science and at least you will know and not come on here asking the same thing everyday.

Answer 2

Looks to me like he is interested in you but just too shy to make a move. Most guys tend to become more careful, concious and cautious with themselves with girls that they have a liking for. I am quite an extrovert among my friends but I found myself getting tongue-tied and extremely quiet when in a group where there is a girl that I like. I guess it is because of a fear of doing or saying something wrong that will spoil any hope of getting the relationship going.

Maybe, you should take a first step by asking him out for a lunch date (It is ok for a girl to make a move!) and if he really like you, I am sure his response would be positive.

Good luck!

Answer 3

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Answer 4

It's a good one. :o). (the essay lol). It's obvious he has feelings for you but as far as his shyness is concerned he won't make the first step forward. If you are into him, make the fist step to crerate a proper conversation...just conversation for now to realize what he really wants. He might be happy of it but then it's his turn to take the next step. If he recognizes what's going on he'll keep up with you. Don't play games on him and give him time. Otherwise, if he is tooo reluctant go and talk to him straight what's your point. Let's see his response.

Answer 5

Let him know you're interested! Even if he doesn't reciprocate the feeling you'll still make his day. He might be thinking the same thing and if both of you say nothing it's not going to happen! Whats the worst that can happen? A little bit of pride lost? Us men ain't as brave and macho as we like to think we are :)

Answer 6

Maybe he needs a kick in the head to boost his confidence. Tell him how you feel but try not to be over aggressive because it may scare him off (he sounds a little fragile).

Answer 7

It's up to you. If you want him, tell him. I am 63 and regret being shy with girls. But I always seem to be tongue tied because I can't think of anything to say that I think will be of interest.

Answer 8

Sounds like he is definitely interested in you. Maybe try talking or saying something to him and see if that will break the ice. He will come out of it, trust me

Answer 9

i am sure...'HE LIKE YOU'
if i not interested in a girl.. i wouldn't bother to do so much for her... i rather spent more time kicking foot ball with my friend..or have beer at a pub with my buddies making joke about girls..

He is just too shy.. and too scared that's all.. possible first timers... never express to girl before..

HELP HIM....GIVE HIM THE POWER OF LOVE....(A BIG KISS ON HIS CHEEK WILL DO THE TRICK) HAA...HAA..

Answer 10

Yep, let him know.
He can't get any more subtle than he's already been at dropping little hints.