2007-06-12 22:10:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
more often than not. the basic foundation of a family is the husband and wife. a husband would always bear in mind that children are products of that union and in a way is the extension of the woman he loves most.
aberrations and dysfunctions do happen but this are exceptions more than the rule.
2007-06-13 12:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ω allan y 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually, if a man is TRULY a good husband, they should end up a pretty decent father as well.
Why? Because if a man is a good husband, it means he is sensitive to his wife's needs, he's caring, responsible, smart, funny, protective, honest, etc.
Most of the time, those traits carry right over into fatherhood.
Not always of course. There are some pretty selfish people out there, but most of time, if a he's a good man, he'll be a good father.
2007-06-13 05:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by Calliope 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not always. Being a father is a learning curve. With encouragement and a lot of time spent together with his children he can be a great dad. Its not a given that all men that meet your needs can meet a child's. he may find child raising a terrifying event, but again, give him time and understanding. A good dad takes time to grow; just as the child grows you have to grow the child out of a man!
2007-06-13 05:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by grounded 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good lovers dont necessarily love kids - so it's a no.
Some good husbands may change once they have kids; and some terrible husbands only care for their kids.
2007-06-13 05:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a good man is what is important....a man who has kindness, compassion, understanding and sympathy. Good husbands can be good fathers and sometimes are better at the fatherhood thing than being a husband! But lousy husbands = lousy fathers!
2007-06-13 05:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are good husband that do become good father, but there are good husband that is not, and there are a good father that is not good husband. It all depend on their values..
2007-06-13 07:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily
2007-06-13 05:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by Eagle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessary.
my dad wasn't a good husband to my mum but he was a great father to me.
2007-06-13 20:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mint_Always 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily.he maybe a good lover but he may not know how to handle a child or maybe he doesn't like children.it depends on the guy.
2007-06-13 05:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by i^am^me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. However, before we got married, I made sure he was the right one to be both -- and I was right.
2007-06-13 08:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋