if you loved someone very much(he broke your heart) but you know that he is in a bad situation & if you had to see him in this bad situation.what can you do?
2007-06-12 22:05:28 · 19 answers · asked by Miss Egypt 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if this bad situation is to be in prison.
2007-06-13 01:25:20 · update #1
How can I help him but help myself & I protect myself too without he khow?
2007-06-14 22:01:42 · update #2
Look at the situation as a lesson in you life and is it one you want to learn or not because if you don't see the lesson it will reoccur over and over again
Let go and move on : )
Love & Blessings
Milly
2007-06-16 14:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever situation that he is in U didn't put him there.U need not fill obligated 2 assist him with anything.He has had problems way before U entered his life and managed 2 get through it. Life is all about situations be it good or bad.That's 4 any1. U need 2 ask yourself do Uwant 2 help him out of good nature, or had he been with U he wouldn't be in that situation right now. If U do it out of good nature don't expect anything in return.If U do it out of selfishness then you'll reap what you sow.Keep it real with yourself. X (not his girlfriend)
2007-06-12 22:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear the question is to ask yourself, have you moved on or are you hoping that by helping him you want him back in your life, and then decide, if you have moved on honestly then i can suggest you can help him through a friend without his knowledge that you are behind his resolution, but if you want him back then perhaps you should review th epros and cons about your break up, if his lied or cheated on you then you need to overlook his problem and concentrate on yours about moving on with your life...unfortunately i believe that you reap what you sow, and nobody deserves to have a broken heart, feeling being hurt by others are the ultimate crime, bruises and cut can heal quickly but the heart take time to heal, so love trust youself and do the right thing...good luck and take care, you are to precious to let anyone hurt you again...you are the best....
2007-06-20 17:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by trial & error 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know he's in bad situation,then show him u r with him in all his gud as well bad times in life.this is the time to show him u care,worry n love him so much.in bad time peoples become aggressive,but isn't mean they not loving u.be in touch with him and talk him softly,try to find out how u help him or how can u make him relaxed when he's with u.listen in bad times he's need someone who understand him and he's feel comfort with u.don't start matters which turns him more upset.hope u try this.best of luck.cheersss
2007-06-12 22:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by oxygen4u4survive 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Help this person however I could.
But protect my heart at the same time.
2007-06-12 22:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing and still going through it. The only thing is that he is my EX and he broke my heart.Know he's in jail . I still have love for him and I still show him love. So if your mate in going through a rough time don't bring the person down more show him that you care and that you will be there for him.
2007-06-20 16:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend! Talk to him, and try to lend your support, but let him know that's as far as it goes. And if you can't do this without getting attached, then walk away!
2007-06-20 21:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer your support ONCE and only once. Any more would border on stalking and put you in a bad light. You don't have reciprocated love, but at least you have your dignity.
2007-06-12 22:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by seawarress 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN'T NEVER HATE SOME ONE YOU LOVE AT ONE TIME OR ANOTHER.
BUT REMEMBER TO LOVE SOMEONE! YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOUR SELF FIRST.
SO IF YOU LOVE YOUR SELF THINK ABOUT YOU FIRST IF YOU THINK YOU BE OK WIT HELPING THEN JUST DO IT.
SOME TIMES YOU CAN JUST SEND THE HELP YOU DON'T REALLY HAVE TO BE THERE. TALK TO SOME ONE SEE IF THEY CAN GO OUT THERE AND HELP.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO TELL HIM THAT IT WAS YOU WHO HELP HIM.
UNLESS YOU WANT CREDIT AND IF YOU DO THAT MEANS YOU ARE NOT OVER HIM.
AND IF YOU ARE NOT, THEN JUST STAY AWAY.
GOOD LUCK
2007-06-20 18:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by paco2164 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u whipped, he left u theres no more to say it may hurt but baby like 2pac says," life goes on "it really does goes on let it go after he goes thru hell if he wants u hell com to u, if he dont he wont .theres a chinese sayin "if u love something let it go if it comes back it was meant to be"
2007-06-20 21:19:41 · answer #10 · answered by pharopr323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋