My BF goes to clubs but when i wanted to go with my girlfriends he said if u wanna go i wont talk to u ever ,,,
My BF has girlfriends but he made it clear that he is not okay with me having guy friends
my BF acts like he is open minded ( weed addict) but when i though of joining a mixed gym he freaked out
my BF drinks occasionly but he dont want me to hang out with my friends when they drink
and it wasnt that simple he put me throught realllly hard times every time i want to do somthing thats he's not okay with it
so i tols him the ideal solution is that we both change our life style (after i changed mine by circumestances force ) so suddenly he said noo u know what fine do whatever u want and ill do whatever i want
and from that day i dont see him like a man enough for me ...bieng gay is more manly that doing this and try to act like a man ,he doesnt even turn me on now but the problem is other than this he is soo perfect lover and friend but i guess he wants me all for him
2007-06-12 23:56:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore the 5%
2007-06-13 00:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lmao first of all are you a man or a woman? second whats the the highest level of education did you complete? Because your spelling and your story makes the no sense. Like the whole ending of your story is confusing but it seems like you already answered your question so why ask for advice? Some one needs to delete this topic lol makes no sense
Next......
2007-06-13 00:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by MzHoTtIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he might be conflicted emotionaly without really realizing it, as you give plenty of examples in the context of your question regarding your boyfriend. I strongly urge you to show him this question, and my answer. Then sit him down and talk with him about how you feel about all this. If he isn't willing to shape up, then I think it would be time for you to ship out. I hope my answer helps you. Good Luck.
2007-06-13 00:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight; you hated it when your bf was very overbearing, and over possessive, but now that he is fine with whatever you do, you don't consider him a man????
Typical girl head game bullsh*t
2007-06-13 00:04:12 · answer #4 · answered by Dr.Cool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. it'll do you a great favor hun. find some other guy who will treat you fairly and kindly and for goodness sakes' let you have fun with your friends.
2007-06-13 00:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by tropicalia_la 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is possasive, time toleave, an walk your life path alone for a bit
2007-06-13 00:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by close_my_eyes2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve guy friends......he has no right to control who your friends are...
Alchohol and drug abuse is not on.....
You need someone who has:
honesty
loyalty
goals
respect
maturity
2007-06-13 00:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋