Family & Relationships - 15 June 2007

We have been fighting all night becuse she is pissed that it cost too much. It does not affect family finances as I have money. She says she hates motorcycles. I am having fun with the bike. Will she get over it?

2007-06-15 18:15:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

They keep calling me and calling me and calling me to come over which one should I spend the night with?
Girlfriend A http://i116.photobucket.com/albums/o20/glitter_020/l_8a17195f90e40817f976552a91df46a4.jpg or lucky girlfriend B http://i116.photobucket.com/albums/o20/glitter_020/0000.jpg or girlfriend C http://i116.photobucket.com/albums/o20/glitter_020/biaface.jpg you decide who gets to spend time with their daddy

2007-06-15 18:14:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Married for 15 years small town. She leaves me for a coworker total shock and very painful. I divorced her very quickly as she did not want to seek any kind of help and my pleads to give her the world fell on deaf ears. I set up the custody agreement 50/50 everyother week. If a spouse moves out of the school district the spouse who remains becomes primary and the one who leaves gets them everyother weekend.....Its 8 months later shes out of lust and wants to move 300 miles away and take the kids. She signed it 8 months ago and I'm squiky clean no abuse drugs or alcohol. I coach my kids baseball teams and do everything with them. Does she have a chance if she takes me to court to change the custody agreement???

2007-06-15 18:13:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

like, after you broke up? how'd it go?

2007-06-15 18:11:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We will be starting this soon with our preacher. I was just wanting to know what to expect. He wants to do 3 sessions or so.

If it helps any, we are Christian.

2007-06-15 18:07:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

why do men cheat on their girlfriends? i mean why not just break up with the girl if u r going to cheat on her anyway. the past 3 relationship i have been in (2 were over a year long) i found out, after catching feelings for the man, that they had a girlfriend. they all claimed to care about me alot and wanted to continue with the relationship but would not break up with the other girl. i just dont understand it and no man i know wants to explain it to me. thanks!

2007-06-15 18:02:07 · 4 answers · asked by ~*sTaCeY*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

my father died 2 years ago and my mother has a partner today who is a married man. he made my mother believed he loves her so much but he is just leaving with my mom for money reasons.this man broke a lot of families in our place including our family. but my mother don't believed us and she left us, abandoned us, sell our properties and lived with this man. i was really hurt, feel depressed and feel hopeless. 5 years from now she'll turn 53 years old, she has diabetes and i know this man gonna leave her alone soon.if she comes back i dont know if i'm gonna forgive her. please help?

2007-06-15 18:02:04 · 5 answers · asked by oni_roan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got married in West Bengal and moved to Mumbai just after the ceremony. since I am working here from last 2 yrs. I Was not abler to register the marrige there. we are hindus and married as per hindu rituals. Need to know what I need to do to register the marrige here. What are the documents needed or what proofs are needed.

2007-06-15 18:01:28 · 4 answers · asked by sabusomu g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mynatt Murray. Last I knew he was living in St pete/Clearwater Fl. I ran into some of his other HS friends and they said his mom hasn't even heard from him in a really long time time and they are worried. Thanks!!

2007-06-15 17:58:21 · 2 answers · asked by viper pilot 2 in Friends

I have an oppurtunity to work at my dream job for a little money (definitely not enough to live on), or keep my current position working for a company that I hate for more money than I have ever made before in my life. What should I do?

2007-06-15 17:56:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My uncle is in the hospital with heart failure & many other health problems. His chances of survival are not good and he (as well as our family) is aware that his days may be numbered. He's called an attorney into his hospital room to update his will so he is realistic about his odds. He is 9 hours away so I cannot get to see him quickly. However, I want to do something nice for him and his wife. I am already sending him a "thinking of you/praying for you card" but want to do something more. It's just difficult to think of anything. Since he is in a hospital, he's on a strict diet, so I can't send a food basket or any other kind of edible treat. He's a very "man's man" so he would not appreciate flowers or balloons. I'm just stumped as to what I can do to let them know I care without making them feel like I'm trying to say "goodbye. I don't think you're going to make it". Any suggestions would be appreciated.

2007-06-15 17:55:45 · 19 answers · asked by Amy27 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm 17. i've been with my bf for 2 years. they've never approved of me. they're rich and i'm certainly not. but he loves me to death. they think i'm a liar because in the very beginning i would sneak to see him, beings that i was only 15 and i wasn't supposed to have a bf. we are supposed to have a talk, my bf and his parents, some time soon. i need to know how i can make them like me. i know i'm a good person. i know i'm right for their son. but they have been very mean to me through time. they've tried to destroy us, so theres bitter feelings. how can i just make this go smoothly??? i want them to approve of our relationship..

2007-06-15 17:55:25 · 7 answers · asked by Lauran Elizabeth 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married mother of 3 children, the first from a previous relationship and 2 from my now husband. My MIL has never been one to like me although we have tolerated each other. My hubbys brother got married 4 days after we did to a girl with a boy that is the same age as my oldest. They have 3 children too, one from her previous and 2 from my BIL. Now there are 2 step gchildren and 4 bio gchildren. My MIL constantly leaves my oldest child out. Always refering to BIL kids as her grandchildren and our children as a step Grandchild and two grandchildren. The last straw came a couple weekends ago she took my two youngest children and her other 3 grandchildren along with her other DIL and had pictures made of the 5 kids together, she never called and asked for my oldest. She didnt tell us that she done it. Someone just happened to see her there and told me about it. Now she thinks she didnt do anything wrong. How should I handle this? I dont want her around them if there is no fairness

2007-06-15 17:55:20 · 16 answers · asked by nappy_roots_girl 3 in Family

well my dad was on my computer like trying to fix viruses and that and checking files and updating things. and i was just sitting there with him and he went into a file and found all my #### galleries!!!!
and im only 14 and he reacted like shocked saying whats all this??? i had pain in my heart and felt i just want to kill my self!!!
what shud i do???? i dunno plz im relli having a hard time he knows i look at #### and it gunna be in his mind forever!! ahhh plz help!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-06-15 17:53:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi my name is kelsey and i am 14 and ready to have sex me and my boyfriend have been waiting for 5 years and every time we see eachother its on my period. So i want to see if i can do it and will it scure up my body i need help fast....... i need answers fast befor i mess things up i really want to and always wanted to..

I am a scard that he will dump me if we dont because i am still a vergian and say no all the time ..

I want to but i need help befor i do...


Your Friend

Kelsey (A.K.A SCARD)

2007-06-15 17:51:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for nearly ten years and have two children. My husband isn't bad at all. There is no abuse, he is a hard worker, and he is a simple man. However, I do not like his negative traits - things that are so part of who he is, I'm not sure if a lifetime of being his wife is worth it. He has no social graces, he is rude and abrupt, rarely smiles, and he yells at the kids. He is also a recovering alcoholic / pothead, doesn't want to try anything new, and seems like he is nicest to me when he is horny. Otherwise, he is like an orge. He has ballooned up to almost 300 pounds, and simply, I am not attracted to him anymore. Yeah, yeah, people have suggested married counseling, but really guys, "talking" about better communication is not something he has ever been good at. And will practicing "kissing" and talking about sex with him going to turn me on someday? I may stay for the sake of the kids, but for those of you who can relate and have stayed, is it worth it?

2007-06-15 17:49:17 · 12 answers · asked by BarbWireBarbie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wifes son is currently with his grandfather who has legal custody of the boy. Now we have problems with him like he drinks and passes out while he is suppose to to be watching him. Anyways the father is a drug user and currently in prison and has been in and out for some time. My wife says I can not attempt to adopt him cause the father has legal right I say non sense since he is a Drug User and convicted felon I can easily adobt my step son and this Grandfather and Father issues will be solved AM I RIGHT? Or is my Wife right?

2007-06-15 17:48:24 · 4 answers · asked by nilafied 3 in Family

I am getting married soon and I got into the habit of looking through my fiancee's phone. I trust him, I just don't know what's gotten into me? LOL

2007-06-15 17:47:36 · 4 answers · asked by igloo 2 in Singles & Dating

I AM GETTING MARRIED AT A COURTHOUSE AND I WANT TO KNOW IF THEY LET U DECORATE AT ALL??? ITS A WEEKEND WEDDING SO THE COURTROOM WILL NOT BE IN USE.

2007-06-15 17:46:13 · 5 answers · asked by anjel092504 2 in Weddings

any ideas for good fathers day gifts, my dad won't tell me what he wants. help?

2007-06-15 17:45:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok im doing this servey and i need your help. i need to know how you judge women and also i need to know if you would have a prob;lem if they were taller than you. if you do have a problem with taller women plz tell me why.

2007-06-15 17:44:34 · 15 answers · asked by Kellzs 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 6 yrs now and have 2 kids. I am currently 60lbs. over weight. I have gained 30lbs since we've been married. He has gained 50lbs. He asked me today if I was gonna let myself get as big as my ex-sister-in law who is 300lbs. I am nowhere near that. I said no but what if I did? And he said that he would leave me. This hurt so much b/c I feel like if he loved me then it shouldn't matter what I look like. I don't eat alot but I don't excersize either. And he will not get healthy with me. So what do I do now, punch him in the face or try and lose the weight?

2007-06-15 17:43:22 · 43 answers · asked by ~Charity~ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

well i'm getting married and i'm kinda freaking out. the wedding is schedualed for june 30th, and it's in a meadow in santa barbera,california. i have to completely plan the wedding in fifteen days, all i have right now is the location and the colors, black, pink, and cream. there will be 50 guests. i need dresses and flowers and almost everything. does anybody know what i can do in so little time. i have a six thousand dollar budjet to work with.

2007-06-15 17:40:01 · 6 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Weddings

I was in my dads room and he was siting in hs chair working on his lap top and he said jessica go get me some kool aid and i said no i am to tired and he said jessica now so i went in there and was mad so i put extra kool aid mixture in the glass and gave it to him and he siad u didnt stirr it and i said oh what now you want me to stirr it? he said you know what jessica when my dad came in from a hard a$$ day from work i would do anything for him and i said sorry i just was to tired AND GET THIS IT WAS 11:00 PM AT NIGHT and i only had 4 hours of sleep! what should i do? ps i am 12 using sisters account

2007-06-15 17:39:59 · 9 answers · asked by sucideisablast 2 in Family

I break many hearts and attract many women, but just can't find anyone intellectual enough my age that has embraced the new technology of writing great emails and staying up all night on IMs just to talk. Should I be looking for girls in their early 20s that can adore me and keep up with me with this new way to interact?

2007-06-15 17:38:56 · 13 answers · asked by Struct_engir 2 in Singles & Dating

I am American girl Married to a Sikh punjabi Man we live in the US but when it comes to him going home once a year I find my self feeling jealous because I dont want him to go Is it normal to not want to share my husband with his family?

2007-06-15 17:35:55 · 17 answers · asked by kimsierra2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so heres the thing. Whenever Im with my girlfriend we can just lie there and suddle for hours, but once we start getting "intimate" and fooling around I find it insanely hard to stop... normally we continue until she gets worn out, but even when that happens I feel the urge to just kiss her, her neck, shoulder, etc... but usually once she gets tired she just wants to relax and lie cuddle a bit. But I find it soo hard... even when she says stop, it feels like my heads going to explode, of cource I stop after a second or two but it seriously bugs me until like hours later... I really want to have a bit more self control so I can just stop when I shoud, does anyone else have this problem, or mabe some tips on how I can help myself learn to be able to turn off the hornyness once it gets started...?

2007-06-15 17:34:19 · 4 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother is 16 years old, and a sophmore this year. He's an amazing brother to have aroudn, even though he can be a pain.He started to get into the werong crowd..he started to go out and party..and then he found the lovely crack..he's been in rehab 2 times so far//wasnt a long time. He has lung cancer, he ddin't tell he was sick for a while. They say he doesn't have much time but then again he could pull through this. He's my world, I'm a year younger than he is. He should be how to do everything I really wanted to. I would be so lost without him, I'm really close. It tears me apart to see someone so innocent hooked up to something tht isn't helping him. He helped me through those baby steps now it's my turn for him. It's killing em I dont think I can anymore. I can't wait until I can run up and hug him., Tell him I'm sorry for everything, tell him I love him so much but I dont want to be too late, please help!

and if you'd pray for him, thats even betetr his nme is Sterling.

2007-06-15 17:34:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-15 17:32:43 · 2 answers · asked by Cookie Roy 2 in Family

asking, is over 50 SOMETIMES...men or women may marry so that someone will take "care of them"...Let's just say...you have already been married once???? I realize there are "caring homes" if something happens...But??? what is your take on re-marrying????

2007-06-15 17:31:51 · 16 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce