Why cant I just stop!?

Question

Ok so heres the thing. Whenever Im with my girlfriend we can just lie there and suddle for hours, but once we start getting "intimate" and fooling around I find it insanely hard to stop... normally we continue until she gets worn out, but even when that happens I feel the urge to just kiss her, her neck, shoulder, etc... but usually once she gets tired she just wants to relax and lie cuddle a bit. But I find it soo hard... even when she says stop, it feels like my heads going to explode, of cource I stop after a second or two but it seriously bugs me until like hours later... I really want to have a bit more self control so I can just stop when I shoud, does anyone else have this problem, or mabe some tips on how I can help myself learn to be able to turn off the hornyness once it gets started...?

Answer 1

my boyfriend is like that!

haha justtell yourself to relax

and if its that big of a deal your gf needs to come to terms with the fact that this is who you are

i love my horny bf haha

Answer 2

You're young so every erection is an emergency right now. You'll learn to settle down somewhat, but there's a part of us that'll always be that way. You can try to expand your sexual horizons though by broadening your concept of sexual expression. (This isn't the proper place for me to describe how that's accomplished other than to suggest learning in depth the art of sensual massage...that's a good place to start). Challenge yourself on certain days to limit your expression to that only, and you'll see yourself growing as a sexual being in dimensions your lady is sure to appreciate. Trust me. And good luck to you.

Answer 3

my X-BOYFRIEND used to be the same way i think he changed though when my mom called us down for supper and he had the biggest ***** lol one experiance like that & ill bet youll stop..but maybe she doesnt want you to..if she leads you on that bad then you deserve something right?

Answer 4

Take a sedative ;)