my father died 2 years ago and my mother has a partner today who is a married man. he made my mother believed he loves her so much but he is just leaving with my mom for money reasons.this man broke a lot of families in our place including our family. but my mother don't believed us and she left us, abandoned us, sell our properties and lived with this man. i was really hurt, feel depressed and feel hopeless. 5 years from now she'll turn 53 years old, she has diabetes and i know this man gonna leave her alone soon.if she comes back i dont know if i'm gonna forgive her. please help?
2007-06-15 18:02:04 · 5 answers · asked by oni_roan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey, i can understand u....but u should not forget ur responsibilities.........May be she has abanded u but she is ur mother.........when children make mistakes parents forgive them so do it viceversa. i am sure ur mom will understand her mistakes in future life.Regarding the man with whom she is living...why dont u file a case in the police station.........That may surely help
2007-06-15 18:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by niska r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of missing info. If you deceased father had a will and it indicated how he wanted his assets divided, then you could sue your mother. As it stands, she inherited everything. If you were to sue her, it had to be on grounds of mental incompetence. If there is a lot of money, it is worth it. Otherwise, nothing you can do.
Stupid people do stupid things. Stupid women do stupid things for emotional emptiness. You decide if you really want to forgive her, for wasting what your father had worked for thereby taking away from her children or making stupid choices due to her emotional stupidity.
2007-06-16 01:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what your question is because your English is so broken, however, your mother is old enough to do whatever she wants. If she wants to grow old alone and broke, you have to let her.
Whatever properties she sold were never yours. You cannot receive your "inheritance" early. Neither should you count on ANY income you didn't earn yourself. She's free to sell and spend as she wishes.
2007-06-16 01:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by ann81969 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your Mother is just living her life the best way she can..
You don't know if you can forgive her????She has done nothing to you..It's her life..Not yours.
If she's that old then you too must be old enough to worry about your own life and troubles
2007-06-16 01:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by southernpal4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
[SIR_RICHARD. ] i agree with his answer on this as well to in my oipion?
2007-06-16 02:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋