Family & Relationships - 19 June 2007

The dress needs major alteration - when would you suggest I pay the balance of the dress, they want it immediately?

2007-06-19 23:58:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-19 23:24:08 · 44 answers · asked by norbit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-19 23:21:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They are celebrating 40 years.

Thanks in advance for your advice.

2007-06-19 23:08:41 · 11 answers · asked by lynda8716 1 in Weddings

My sister's getting married this year but first she's having a hen weekend. It's costing approx £150 each for about 12 girls. Some of her friends have said they are already going to hen weekends (some to 2 or 3) and if they go to hers they can't afford their own family holidays. My sister is livid over this...

2007-06-19 23:04:09 · 12 answers · asked by christine s 4 in Friends

My best friend/boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for over 2years now.

I'm 17, he's 18.

Things had been going really well up until a few weeks ago. Now he just drives me completely insane! I can't talk to him anymore.

I am beginning to think I don't love him anymore. Although it should be the opposite because we will be together soon.


Why has our relationship changed and why cant I talk to him or want to love him anymore?

2007-06-19 22:55:43 · 12 answers · asked by ★☆✿❀ 7 in Singles & Dating

i want to tell my boyfriend that i think theres no connection between us anymore and that i think he's losing me because hes not trying

any better spin i can say that?..

2007-06-19 22:44:58 · 21 answers · asked by xoxocean 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been in a relationship for 4 years, moved countries to be with her, dealt with many heartaches, struggled with our characters,shared the most wonderful moments of my life & find her completely an amazing person who I found it very easy to love.deep in this love, I proposed to her 1 year ago. 2 months ago we moved house (a small town to a city, which I'd long awaited) & at the same time as moving she made alot of trouble with me over minor problems.She has always had a problem apologizing & when she decided to blame me for her bad mood, I popped.Years of feeling I was the only one to blame crushed me & for a night I grew hateful.Once calm, she has said she will try to balance our troubles in future.I believe she derserves my forgiveness & believe she is the one for me.But something delicate was broken in this time & I can't find it again.We plan to marry in Aug, but I don't feel the deep love for her I once did.Now it looks like we will cancel the wedding & break-up. What happened?

2007-06-19 22:38:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay. So, my husband was acting funny and kind of sneaking to get on the computer all the time. He would tell me he was going to lay down, and get on the computer, or he'd come straight home from work and go straight to the bedroom and get on the computer without even acknowledging myself or our eight month old son. Well, yesterday was our second anniversary. He came home from work, walked RIGHT PAST us sitting on the couch, and came in here to the computer. He mumbled something to me, but no "Happy Anniversary", no kiss, nothing to our baby.. nothing! I was so mad, so when he got off the computer, I checked his myspace and he was sending messages to his ex's sister. There was nothing incriminating in there, he's not a cheater, trust me. BUT, I don't get why he's all sneaky and sh!t. I confronted him about ignoring us, and always getting online to check to see if she had mssged him back, and he got mad and changed all his passwords. I feel like he doesn't trust me, and I thought that

2007-06-19 22:35:45 · 9 answers · asked by ... 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

putting people on blast (calling them out) when they cross you, cutting people off when you feel that you don't need them anymore

2007-06-19 22:27:44 · 6 answers · asked by shykell718 1 in Singles & Dating

We are about to get married in 2 months. We have a very healthy relationship and we both know that we are right for each other. since the past 3-4 months she has started behaving very strangely, whenever we tallk she ends up getting upset on something which i say and then starts arguing. Then she says that she still feels insecure and i have not been able to understand her yet. she has even started crying after every argument now. I have tried explaining her with love and sometimes even getting a bit strict. when i say you are getting rude she replies that i dont like her anymore and she says that quite often to me and says that I am rude. Stuff like this is concerning me a lot. how should i handle it

2007-06-19 22:26:30 · 8 answers · asked by Just Ordinary. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-19 22:24:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

today an ex girlfriend called my boyfriend saying that she wanted to end their friendship because she did not want us together. i personally don't know her but all i know is that they have been broken up for almost a year & now she just acted that way. My BF & i have been together for 6 months now. And the whole time we thought she was okay with it & was talking to someone else. Turns out she wasnt. Now, my boyfriend feels really bad even though he hasnt done anything &he wants to try to work things out.

Personally, I think it is healthy to have cordial relationships with ex girlfriends. It shows some maturity & kindness to be able to pull it off. But shes acting like an ex-girlfriend who is really taking advantage of the situation and crossing lines. It may be easy to pity her situation, & she may be really unhappy, but I suspect these are her suggesting she might do something drastic (such as ending their friendship) if her needs arent met like emotional blackmail. What do we do?

2007-06-19 22:24:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-19 22:21:04 · 13 answers · asked by S H 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I (both 21) have been together 2 yrs (we broke up for a month 6mnths ago) and don't usually go out together to clubs and stuff that much.... and he likes to tell me the numbers he’s gotten from girls... I wouldn’t care but he keeps them in his phone!!!

Is he just doing it to make me jealous? Or show off to his friends (who are all single) I already said we can try being single for while, (thinking were only young) but he said no... I want to hurt him

2007-06-19 22:19:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am still sharing house with husband - decree nici have be granted. He threatens my life, search my room, read my mail, does not pay any bills including a very large mortgage.
My solicitor says I am to stay but I am afraid he is planning to harm me. My 18 yrs old son is begging me to move out as rightly so, the law is no good when I am damaged.
My husband doesnt care as he feel he is the one loosing out.
This have been an abusive marriage for 18 yrs, and I have always been the main earner.
I cannot afford to pay the mortgage and another rent and if I dont pay the mortgage then my credit is messed up. I need to have to option to buy another place if I have to sell.
I have a court date in August but I dont feel I can stay in that house any longer

2007-06-19 22:16:55 · 14 answers · asked by CAROL D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it has less than 2 months left for my marriage.i am not sure if I am ready for this marriage.I I just started to think about how my life will be with him , his friends, his family ... how my life is going to be ?

2007-06-19 22:16:06 · 18 answers · asked by poor misguided fool 1 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy we have a lot in comman with and he likes me and every thing but he talks like a gurl and hes a bit yunger then me hes 14 will his voice change....it really bothers me... what shouls i do?

2007-06-19 22:11:29 · 5 answers · asked by Alisha 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a public exam in November. I tried studying alot but my marks are still just average. I dont know what else i must do. Pls help

2007-06-19 22:10:53 · 2 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Singles & Dating

We are legally divorced since Nov. 2006 He is taking me back to court. He wants to have the alimony dropped. He hired an attorney. I can't afford one. He is lieing about me to his attorney. Really awful lies that make me look like a crazy, messed-up, crooked person. He has a way with convincing people he speaks the truth. And he has sent letters to the judge with more lies. We have a new judge hearing our case. I spent 20,000.00 on my last attorney, and can't afford another one. He is fighting like hell to drop alimony, which he was ordered to pay me. It has been 8 months, haven't received a check yet from him. He swears he will never pay it. His lies makes him look good, and me awful. Any suggestions? Would I be able to talk with our judge about the case? Since I am representing myself. I have to let him know how much my ex's accusations are not true. If the judge believes him...........I'm going to be homeless. And he (ex) has over 6 digits of income.

2007-06-19 22:08:02 · 4 answers · asked by bliss 1 in Marriage & Divorce

During our 1sr date, he kissed my cheek and even hold my hands.I don’t know what does that mean…I’m not a very social person..maybe it’s to show affection,but maybe it’s more towards lust..he told me yesterday that he wished he could do more than juz a peck on my cheek..hmm..what kind of situation am i in?

2007-06-19 22:05:49 · 9 answers · asked by hopelessqueen 1 in Singles & Dating

can anyone give me ideas on some unique vows we can say other than the usual?

2007-06-19 22:03:38 · 10 answers · asked by salamanda 1 in Weddings

2007-06-19 21:59:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my best-friend is acting really wierd and she's startin' 2 freak me out lol. She says that she's not a blonde but i know that she really is!!!! HELP ME--

2007-06-19 21:52:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The kids are obligation-free until the start of school again this August. I have two 10 y/os, one 8 y/o and a 20 month old. Any ideas for free / cheap / fun things to do to keep the dulldrums away?

2007-06-19 21:50:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If I lodge the case of domestic violence on the basis of mental torture and the slang languages he used towards me and my parents, what will happen to my husband? If I fail to prove all the violence what were done verbally, will he be punished?

2007-06-19 21:48:15 · 3 answers · asked by sanjukta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother Daniel (11) and me Lauren (13) have been fighting a lot latley and So have My mum and my dad they have been married for nearly 14 years now and me and my brother are thinking they might break-up....How can me and my brother stop fighting and how can my mum and dad stop fighting too, Our family was really close and now it seems like we are splitting as time nears. It seems like me and daniel are causing there fighting.CAN ANY ONE HELP US...!!!!!!!

Lauren and Daniel.

2007-06-19 21:16:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going to get right down to it and say, overweight women, 'fat chicks' if you will, have absolutely zero sex appeal. So how do they get by?

Even a pimply-faced 90 pound male nerd can envision one day being rich, succesful, and confident, and thus having scores of desirable women within reach.

Not so with fat chicks. All they can look foreward to is watching endless reruns of friends on their couch while gobbling ice cream, after hours of slaving away working as a librarian or something.

So I guess my question is, how do fat chicks cope with that knowledge? And why don't more do something about it? If I was a fat chick you can be sure as hell I'd be hitting the gym twice daily.

2007-06-19 21:13:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 21:08:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been dating this girl for about a month.She just got out of a very hurtful 2 year relationship.i know she really likes me cause she told me.She has even admitted to her friends that I am a great guy and has never been treated so good.She is just so standoffish sometimes.I mean if she is crazy about me then why not tell me.Would giving her time and a little space be the right thing to do?

2007-06-19 21:07:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships