Family & Relationships - 19 June 2007

I would like to say thank you to all the people who replied my question, thank you for telling me that I should have put my nilly willy in my pants, thank you for telling me that I should have used a condom, thank you for stating the obvious, Thanks alot!!! Really it helped! NOT!!!!

P.S. I dont work for the military force, I fly for the British Airways!!!

2007-06-19 01:52:39 · 8 answers · asked by Scoan 1 in Singles & Dating

can you explain what an or**sm feels like. or is it just something that you cant explain.

2007-06-19 01:52:19 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Swimming,walking,dancing,singing...

2007-06-19 01:51:27 · 10 answers · asked by Me 2 in Friends

hi im in a realtinship wit my man we have been ogether for 1 month i don't trust him already his frineds are tellin me his doin things behind me so who do i belive him or his friends its hard for me to trust anyone because i been hurt all my life . wat do i do i also want to know i argue wit him constanly y becasue i love him im fightin fo love im fightin to be in love . wat should i do

2007-06-19 01:50:23 · 3 answers · asked by hatiansexygal 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been out on a few dates with this girl I met. im almost certain that she likes me because on the way she acts. I havent tried kissing her yet due to the fact that I am pretty nervous and shy. I just dont want something to happen like all the signs she gave me were incorrect and that she only wants to be my friend. So how do I kiss her after a night out without being rejected or pushed away?

2007-06-19 01:46:56 · 11 answers · asked by Enrodude 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 01:46:46 · 12 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7 in Family

2007-06-19 01:45:36 · 16 answers · asked by WILLIAM M 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 01:41:50 · 23 answers · asked by matpooley 1 in Weddings

my wife has a ton of friends on my space and to my knowledge its just a hook up tool any ideas on how to disable the computer..i mean fry the ****** without her suspecting i did it? im sick of the secrets and the private life she has she doesnt even allow me to have her passwords. 99% of our fights revolve around this friggin thing. and i feel completely ignored sometimes i work alot and i think she neglects our 2 year old also i want this damn thing gone for good unrepairable. any suggestions has to look like an accident

2007-06-19 01:37:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anarchy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if u read both parts you'll probably understand more
my new step brother annoys me
he is 6 and he always wants to play my dad and his girlfriend understand it and told him that when i babysit him i play with him but when i'm done babysitting i get my time (which didnt work) he cried about it and said it's not fair! About a week ago i went with my dad to the movies cuz we never spend time together and the kid was so jealous he started crying that he doesn't have any toys or anyone to play with or special things, he is so spoiled and gets everything he wants, but he doesnt have one thing yet, a room he's sleeping on my parents couch right now so i can't be too mean my older brother is moving out soon and i get his room and the kid gets mine. i have 3 older brothers and we are all used to being alone i always was alone and i like it that way, i have a younger brother that i never get to see and when i hang with him the kid gets jealous but he doesn't understand how much i miss my lil bro

2007-06-19 01:34:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my b/f just proposed 2 me the other day and i said yes but only bcoz he was on top of me at the time and not in a sexy way and i was rely scared!!! he even got me a ring but it DOESNT FIT!!!!!!!! i have 2 wear it on the wrong finger and it sux... wat shud i do?????

2007-06-19 01:34:03 · 19 answers · asked by Richard S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We finished 10 years ago, but did meet a month or two ago. Last nights dream he said he missed me and we kissed passionately. He is married, i have just finnished with a guy too (well in the middle of). I told him i missed him too. What does this dream mean. It felt so real and so right?

2007-06-19 01:33:24 · 9 answers · asked by JENNIFER C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-19 01:33:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-19 01:32:19 · 30 answers · asked by HD Rider 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I was diagnosed with ADD about three years ago and started to take adderall for it without letting my husband know. I didn't tell him because I know him well enough to know he'd have huge issues with it. He thinks doctors pass out meds like candy. But my diagnosis was a very thorough 3 hr. test. I took it on/off for three years. (off for 2 pregnancies in between) Nothing changed about my personality, character, etc. I was the same person, only able to focus on my responsibilities more easliy and the medicine gives me energy where under normal circumstances I would be drained.. We have an 8,4,2,and 1 yr. old and need to be on top of things to give proper care. Often, babies waking up in the night give me sleepless nights and drain me, but the med helps. Also, it curbs appitite and keeps me trim..which, naturally, I like. My husband has major objection with this and I regret even telling him. We haven't stopped fighting about it since I told him a year ago. He wants me to stop, I don't.

2007-06-19 01:31:34 · 18 answers · asked by rememberyoursmile 1 in Marriage & Divorce

not legally seperated right now.if get legal seperation will answer be different?i live in south carolina.

2007-06-19 01:30:53 · 15 answers · asked by Laura B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How many men out there care what kind of ring they get? I talked to a man that worked at a jewelry store and he said he picked out his own. Do men do this normally? Or do they prefer their women to do it? I've also heard that to balance out the cost of the womans ring vs. the mans that many women give their man a nice watch too (this is something I'm going to do) .. anyone else do that as well? or other gifts?

Just to ward off some of you meanies out there, it isn't about the money. I would like to give him something as nice as (I know) he's getting me.

2007-06-19 01:27:05 · 9 answers · asked by Spooks 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfiriend wants to go to the strip club, we have been together for 4 years and he has only been 3 times. But it bothers me becasue why is he going? Why does he need to go?

Need a guys point of view: Why do you go if you are in a relationship?

2007-06-19 01:21:27 · 20 answers · asked by Beach Bum 1 in Singles & Dating

he says it was a ego boost,i beleave him wen he says nothin happened cos he dont go nowere,but its always at the bac of my mind,i no a lot of u will think its nothin,but it hurt me badly. we hav a 3yr old little boy,i suffered badly from post natal depression which oviously was no fun 4 my husband either, this txin incident gave me a kick up the ***,and now i feel stronger than eva,but i cant help havin these naggin little doughts.this girl no longer works with him,i no ive prob blown it out of proportin but he wud of felt the same if it was the other way round

2007-06-19 01:20:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-19 01:16:23 · 16 answers · asked by baby_chiz 1 in Weddings

Well it's just a question..Im into a 4 year relationship now and still getting stronger,..We're miles away but im the one in-charge of his family..Although we're like married couples, im still afraid that he might find someone better than me,. Would you think, he can do that to me?

2007-06-19 01:09:56 · 10 answers · asked by baby_chiz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A girl at work had a surprise bridal shower for me and I'm very grateful. I hadn't planned on adding 30 people to the wedding invite list though. It's a supportive work place but I am not close with many of them. Do I change my contracts and plans to allow for more people and start mailing more invitations?

2007-06-19 01:09:27 · 13 answers · asked by Eva 1 in Weddings

my wife thinks that we should have some private things to ourselves. she has recently made a lot of friends on my space she claims it to be perfectly innocent and i believe her but some of the chain letters and the flirting that goes on with some of her guy friends makes me a little jealous. i asked her to keep it clean and she does most guys that flirt with her get an earfull...shes quite the firecracker. but it still makes me jealous that other men talk to her in this way. i dont want to be a controlling asshole but at the same time i dont want to be made a chump. so she thought it a good idea to not allow me to have the passwords to her my space account and has taken my access to her e mail too. i love my wife and i meant my vows when we got married. but it really disheartens me that she feels we cant share everything. she is a very stubborn woman and will not change her mind. i just am beginning to wonder if i should just get rid of the computer altogether.

2007-06-19 01:08:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anarchy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-19 01:06:46 · 10 answers · asked by C B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad is remarried to another woman but still wants my mom and my mom 90% wants him back too. My dad is the kind of caring person so he knows that if he says he wants a divorce he will ruin my stepmoms life. (she has been married 3 times)
Now I have 2 new stepsisters but my dad is miserable. He said he would do anything to go back to the way things were and that this marriage was just a rebound relationship. He regrets it happening. I want my mom and dad back together but I don't want anyone to get hurt. What should he (and I) do???

2007-06-19 01:04:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She put a retraning order on him by manipulating everone into thinking he raped her but the truth of the matter is that it just didn't happen. He is trying to work with her for the kids sake but she is suceeding in getting the kids to belive that he is a horrible person, and won't agree to anything, but in the meantime she is now dating this other guy who is 24 years older than her and basically living with him and the kids are there for everything, the father only gets to see the kids every other weekend which is not good because the kids give him problems because of her. he feels that the kids are in a volitale situation at her BF house and wants to get them out of there, does he have any rights to that? The order for protection is just between him and her but she pushes that its for the kids when he doesn't have them, which is false. And now that I have realized what she is like she has turned the kids against me too. Anybody have any suggestions?

2007-06-19 01:00:13 · 6 answers · asked by Jason M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My and my ex split after a very difficult, abusive, and emotional relationship. He was my first love, at first everything was perfect and id never been as happy as i was. Then at the 9th month its turned into constant arguments, by the 11th month he never wanted to see me and would never see me, he would always push me away and arguments turned physical. I still love him so much, and found a message which he left me last years 3 months into the relationship saying how he loved me and we have years together still. Im so heartbroken and feel like i could be sick. He is moved on, he doesnt love me anymore and doesnt want to speak to him, i feel like its all my fault, im bored and lonely, i just feel so depressed, its making me want to throw up, i was so so so happy last year, and look at me now, living each day alone in my room, whilst hes happy probaply meeting new people. Please help me.

2007-06-19 00:54:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 10months (living together for 2 months).He proposed new year. All is great apart from one problem.He is still married.He says he is in the process of getting divorced,but nothing seems to be happening.His ex insisted she file for divorce,but she hasn't given any info to him,and 11 weeks on nothing.I feel he is fobbing me off.He won't understand that I am upset and frustrated at the situation and thinks I have nothing to complain about and that it has nothing really to do with me.He says if I don't stop asking about his divorce,he will leave me.I don't want to break up, but I want him to respect my feelings and accept that I am finding it hard that he is married.I have tried talking to him,but he thinks I am in the wrong and that he can't/won't do anything to anything about it.I am at my wits end, and don't know what to do. Any suggestions?I don't want to leave him,but is that the only option?All ideas gratefully received,I am desperate to sort this out

2007-06-19 00:54:11 · 8 answers · asked by confused1981 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-19 00:45:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is she not eligible to share all with her husband even in happiness and in sadness why do some men behave that wife is meant to kitchen and bed

please answer om tat sat

2007-06-19 00:41:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce