if u read both parts you'll probably understand more
my new step brother annoys me
he is 6 and he always wants to play my dad and his girlfriend understand it and told him that when i babysit him i play with him but when i'm done babysitting i get my time (which didnt work) he cried about it and said it's not fair! About a week ago i went with my dad to the movies cuz we never spend time together and the kid was so jealous he started crying that he doesn't have any toys or anyone to play with or special things, he is so spoiled and gets everything he wants, but he doesnt have one thing yet, a room he's sleeping on my parents couch right now so i can't be too mean my older brother is moving out soon and i get his room and the kid gets mine. i have 3 older brothers and we are all used to being alone i always was alone and i like it that way, i have a younger brother that i never get to see and when i hang with him the kid gets jealous but he doesn't understand how much i miss my lil bro
2007-06-19 01:34:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The underlining problem to all this is that your father is letting a lady step into the family because of two very selfish reasons. One he loves her,(I know hows that suppose to be selfless, but doesn't he love you guys to?), and two because she has sex with him. Its not fair and its not right, but its the society we live in. So in other words, this is going to suck, sorry, no if, ands, or buts about it, this isn't the way life should be done. Ether way unless you all can have a nice sit-down about this little kiddo and start treating him like a part of the family, as oppose, to her son, this isn't going to work well. Besides that without an outside purpose (like religion, but doesn't include it, you can make a religion out of your own belifes, ideals, and intentions, and it would still be a religion) your going to run into problem, after problem. The major thing to keep an eye on is the underlining purpose of your family dynamices. Is it about getting you kiddos out of the house so your parents can live there own life? Is it about the fact that family is the most important thing in the world and theres no leaving that behind, so you need to form a family bond that sole purpose is the allow for the deepest love possibly within that dynamics? Or in other worlds are you all a bunch of selfish people trying to get yours out of this world, or are you a bunch of selfless people giving everything you can for the love of that family? Its coming out in your writing that maybe dad likes the former, more then the later..... sorry but its going to just come down to surviving this, tell you can get out of there.... or your going to have to fight for some true purpose for that family. So are you a soldier, or are you a pacifist? Fight or flight.......
2007-06-19 05:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋