he says it was a ego boost,i beleave him wen he says nothin happened cos he dont go nowere,but its always at the bac of my mind,i no a lot of u will think its nothin,but it hurt me badly. we hav a 3yr old little boy,i suffered badly from post natal depression which oviously was no fun 4 my husband either, this txin incident gave me a kick up the ***,and now i feel stronger than eva,but i cant help havin these naggin little doughts.this girl no longer works with him,i no ive prob blown it out of proportin but he wud of felt the same if it was the other way round
2007-06-19 01:20:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should be all the ego boost he needs. You need to tell him how it made you feel. Now that y'all are married you and your child need to be his priorties not some skank from work...If he understands then leave it be and tell him never to do it again, if he does your taking everything (his dignity included) Don't let a man walk all over you like that honey. Stand up for yourself!
2007-06-19 01:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are absoloutely certain that nothing happened and it was just flirting--and if it happeend before you were married--let it go.
DOnt go creating drama in the here and now over someting that is a) in the past and b) he hadn;t made the marriage commitment yet.
Although having a 3 year old means you had the baby before marriage......you should be married longer than a year, in my opinion!
2007-06-19 01:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to let it go and move on. When you decided to marry him after knowing what was going on, then you let him know it was okay. It is unfair to keep little things like this hanging in the air. Also spend the energy that you are wasting on this on making yourself a better person.
2007-06-19 02:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yes! I would knock my hubby out if he was texting another female regardless of how innocent it may be. I would take his cell phone and delete her as a contact and hope to God he doesn't have her number memorized. If it keeps happening make him give up the phone..cause he shouldn't need no ego boost when he is with you.
2007-06-19 01:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by Amber S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An ego buster hello wake up fed flags flying here, tell him to stop or else.....
2007-06-19 01:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have the right to have these thooughts but don't let them consume your life. you either love the man or you don't. if you have to think about that for one second then you should not be together.
2007-06-19 01:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by maverick29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in dire need of a spell checker! Your question is illegible.
2007-06-19 01:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to let it go
2007-06-19 01:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..........I guess its innocent.....
2007-06-19 01:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋