Family & Relationships - 19 June 2007

2007-06-19 05:33:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband is driving me absolutely insane, one day he loves and trusts me the next he does not, everyday is a different situation I'm getting tired and so are the kids.........He is so angry all the time, all he ever thinks about his taking revenge on people that have supposedly hurt him, I have suggested counselling and he refuses.......says he is not crazy...........
This has been going on for months...........I'm beginning to hate him for what he is doing to this family...........he insults me one minute and then expects me to have sex with him, and if I refuse then it's because I must be getting it elsewhere........
Any suggestions on convicing him to go for counselling.

2007-06-19 05:30:40 · 14 answers · asked by Niki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-19 05:28:18 · 11 answers · asked by valair 1 in Weddings

2007-06-19 05:25:22 · 6 answers · asked by nodumgys 7 in Singles & Dating

It was very much awkward and we both were a bit confused. And it seemed as though he was checking me out. He’s relatively young, and he was accompanied by a friend who started flirting with me until he introduced me as one of his students. It wasn’t a nudist beach, but a touristy one where a lot of women go topless. We have a fairly warm relationship; we had a few personal conversations about our life and love life, and I’m almost convinced that I’m one of his favorite students. It seems to make it more embarrassing and awkward, than if I weren’t close to him at all.
I now feel discomfited and self-conscious, how could I possibly handle our future meetings? What should I say? Should I mention or ignore it?

2007-06-19 05:24:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, I'm a 16 year old guy right now, but I want to join the marines after graduating from college. I come from a family of Indian decent (indian as in from india not natives) and my mom and my stepdad both want me to become a doctor or an engineer. Yeah yeah let the stereotypes roll in.....haha
But anyway, My mom NEVER encouraged me with anything that I ever wanted to do throughout my life. She just wants me to be something that she wants as if I were just an extension of her. Honestly, she doesn't even know what the marine corps does. She thinks that the navy, coast guard, army, marines, and air force are all on huge force who get guns and shoot at terrorists.
She is so scared of me getting drafted that she even wants me to move to Canada to dodge the drafts. I wanna join the marines really really badly, but if my mom never encouraged me with even the smallest things, how the hell do I tell her I'm joining the marines when I grow up?

2007-06-19 05:24:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-19 05:19:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a problem at work with a black guy who after several weeks of casual conversation he asked me for my phone number. I was discussing it with a friend when a fellow co-worker heard me, and later confronted the guy. He told him I was a good girl--a virgin and he should not be trying to screw me. I was upset he had no right to do this. In addition, the guy resigned, he said that a friend, who is a long-term employee, told him he should b/c he would eventually be fired, since previously things haven't work out well for those black men at the job who "mess with their women." This really pissed me off, I don't feel like I am anyones PROPERTY! Especially not all the loser white guys at my job. Who are they to confront my friend and harass him, or make comments to him about my sexuality.

2007-06-19 05:16:43 · 22 answers · asked by d8em 2 in Friends

So I ran into one of my old classmates from college at the dog park. We were talking and laughing and everything was good.

After about ten minutes, I told him I'd better grab my dog and get ready to go home. When he realized that my dog was "Roni" my daughters' prissy little Shih Tzu, he burst out laughing.

"I didn't know you swing that way man. You're the last person I thought would join the rainbow squad" he said. Then he was like, "Good thing you're already married because ladies assume only one type of guy walks a dog like that."

Is that true?

2007-06-19 05:13:49 · 6 answers · asked by Ras C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-19 05:13:01 · 26 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

If a shy girl likes you, and she knows or at least is fairly sure that you like her, how will she act and/or respond to your signals that a guy sends? I like this girl, but she seems really shy, and is sending some signals, but i'm just not sure. Also, will she act any different to you than she does the rest of the people?

2007-06-19 05:10:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After 2 years, my boyfriend & I decided to move in together. Then one morning, he burst into tears & said he couldn't live with me & our relationship was over. He said he loved me & this is the best relationship he's had, but it "didn't feel right." He said he kept waiting for some sign that I was the person he was supposed to marry. I'm not ready for marriage either, I think we need to live together 1st to get that kind of bond. He puts a lot of pressure on himself to make the "right" decision so it takes him a long time to commit to anything. He's also struggled with depression since his father passed away a year & a half ago. His mother is having an even harder time, & he's emotionally drained by taking care of her. Sometimes he gets overwhelmed by it & freaks out like this. But usually, we don't fight, we spend time together & have a great sex life. Is he putting too much pressure on himself to make the right decision or is he trying to tell me he's not "in love" with me anymore?

2007-06-19 05:09:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend cheated on me and use to go out every night with differents girls when we were younger now we are married and have an amazing daghter but i still can't forget and every thing reminds me of one of his "girls". the situation is getting critical cuz i'm all the time pissed and agressive. i wish i wasn't but even if he spends all the time qith me i can't trust him. can anybody give me some help please????? thanks

2007-06-19 05:06:45 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but on the other end ...if I meet a very very head strong women, they don't like to have much fun. The women with the most problems seem to be more fun to be around and the sex is always better.......HELP!

2007-06-19 05:02:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a choice of 2 girls but cant (and i wouldnt) go with both as they best mates and tell each other everything
girl A i really like her she is chubby but looks really great to me
girl B hardly no her but if i got to no her more i could poss like her she is really good looking i no 1 people will think but just want to make sure i dont chose wrong one
thanks

2007-06-19 05:00:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do, my friend wants me to get "special" black shoes for her wedding and I think it's such a waste of money and time.
Like anyone is going to notice that are freaken BLACK shoes match... give me a break!

2007-06-19 04:56:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What do you think about kids today? Do you think that they are unruly? Why? Why not?

2007-06-19 04:54:39 · 4 answers · asked by johnniesgrl_34 2 in Family

I've been married two years. in that two years i can probably count on one hand how many times we have had sex. He is into Fetishes, and i'm not overly comfortable with that. I don't like the idea of hurting him or "pretend" hurting even for pleasure. I love my husband so much but i am so frustrated and upset. He Masterbates to fetish videos and i dunno what to do. Leaving him is not an option, and Talking to him hasn't worked.. we talk about it alot. what should i do?

2007-06-19 04:53:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Sell the house, because he can't afford to Buy you out??(because he has a high debt that he owes). What happens when one wants to sell and the other doesn't, but yet you want a Divorce??

2007-06-19 04:53:39 · 14 answers · asked by 24Special 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-19 04:53:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband doesn't acknowledge Mother's Day. Every year he says "you're not my mother." On Father's Day, I try to buy him a little something just to acknowledge him as the Father of my children. He is hard to buy for because he is very picky and he has everything. He won't even open what I buy for him..... don't ask me why. How can I respond to him without being a B - - - -? All I would like to hear is "Happy Mother's Day." Am I being over sensitive?

2007-06-19 04:52:36 · 30 answers · asked by Kamy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-19 04:50:45 · 14 answers · asked by Falco 1 in Singles & Dating

I know what to do and my man never complains, infact it is the opposite. Just wondered if i should do something a bit different and what i should do?? Open to all options thanks!! x

2007-06-19 04:48:49 · 21 answers · asked by Very Sexy Vixen 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

A message from his female colleague from work with Kisses at the end of it. The message just said thanks XX. She's never text him before to my knowledge, Am I wrong to be slightly concerned. Oh he thinks I'm away mad.

2007-06-19 04:48:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my husand and I have been married for 7 years and at first sex was great. Now after career and kids, the romance and emotional connection is not there. He said a 3 some would bring it back for him. But he is not satisfying me at all sexually (never have and orgasm). I feel like I am with a high school kid that's all intercourse, no foreplay, never role played (he said that was stupid), just same ole routine sex....BORING! How can I tell him what I need to pleasure me. I was readin up on tantric sex and that sound interesting. I feel like, correct me if I am wrong, I am on a more mental and spiritual/emotional level of sexual pleasure and he is still on new women, or variety, the physical level (childish). What should I do. At times I do think of wanting to be with another man. I even thought of allowing him to have his 3 some (with 2 other women) in return have sex with another man & have him to watch & learn LOL....I don't know, please help.

2007-06-19 04:45:08 · 29 answers · asked by sassy lady 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Or even if she just meets a guy in a club and goes home with him that night?

2007-06-19 04:43:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wedding is coming up in October and I went to this company. They seemed nice. Not a lot of selection, but the suit looked ok. Anyone ever have any experience using this company?

2007-06-19 04:42:33 · 8 answers · asked by Snuggles123 4 in Weddings

How much time can a married man go without having sex with his wife ????????

2007-06-19 04:41:51 · 10 answers · asked by lupit@ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you guys prefer a girl who's tan over one who's more fair skinned? I know its just a personal preferance but I was just wondering which everyone would choose?
Also height and hair color? does it matter and which do you prefer?

2007-06-19 04:40:34 · 9 answers · asked by starryeyed 5 in Singles & Dating

they r still friends
they talk sometimes
they hang around wit eachother sometimes

2007-06-19 04:40:21 · 2 answers · asked by vanity_bluegirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships