Family & Relationships - 19 June 2007

I have been seeing this girl for a short period of time. She has lived with a guy for about 7 years that she supports financially and he treats her horribly. She has talked about leaving, and I believe that she truly wants to but I am afraid it will take her quite a while to build up the courage. I have purchased a 5 day vacation in Antigua for the two of us. I plan on asking her to go and letting her know that if she isn't ready it won't hurt my feelings, but that I care about her enough to want to do this. What would your reaction be? Would you be swayed to leave him or would it have no impact? Also, any advice you can give me on how to approach it would be appreciated. Thanks, I need the advice.

2007-06-19 08:37:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend will be all over me a few days and then the next couple of days afterwords he won't even really call me or anything. I called him to talk to him about how his weekend/father's day was and within about 3 min. he ended the phone call saying he wanted to watch a movie. I felt kinda bad because I hadn't talked to him for awhile and I thought he would of wanted to talk too.

I deleted my myspace months ago (due to all the stupidity) and my boyfriend said he was going to too. Well he didn't and he has pictures of him with girls from different schools and comments from them all on his page. It bothers me. Then for his status it says SINGLE. I know myspace isn't everything but maybe he's tricking the other girls from the other school into thinking he is single. He wants to have both me and those girls.

We have had trust issues in the past. Whenever I bring up other girls he feels he has to get very defensive. Should I send him a text saying "Hey I like your myspace"? or what

2007-06-19 08:33:38 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 08:32:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've known each other/had a crush..since elem schl. We both got out of serious relationships earlier this year, we seem to go out every weekend, clubs, diner, movies, bars. We're intimate every weekend, we don't use birth control, but he ALWAYS pulls out. At first it was a FWB relationship for both of us, but now I am falling so much in love with him, once while in the middle of sex, he said he loved me (3times) but I never responded, because he was drunk. Weeks later I told him how I felt, he said that he is not ready for a relationship yet, so soon after his breakup. I was married but now seperated, he mentioned to my cousin that he wasn't ready to commit cause I am not divorced yet. Recently during sex, he for some reason, came in me, then just laid there for like 20 mins! My friends say he did that on purpose to get me prego, now I am, he says that hes not ready to be a dad! whats his deal? Im keeping the baby, but do u think we have a chance here?

2007-06-19 08:31:08 · 28 answers · asked by sammy 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend who is A LOT older and when I say A LOT I mean like he could be my dad,or brother(actually he's my brother's age hehe)
He was married before and has 3 boys,I was married for 14 months and had a twins with my first husband.

Do you think age matters?

=)Thank you.

2007-06-19 08:30:25 · 33 answers · asked by Melinda=] 1 in Singles & Dating

When i look into your eyes: so intense: so rare
i see a love that will always be there
a hand that has never felt so divine
when it is locked with mine
holding you sparks great intention
anxiety happiness, feelings hard to mention
the whispher of i love you to my ear
i know my future with you, nothing to fear

you are my princess my crowned royalty
if my love were your crown, i would rest upon your head forever

if my love were a red rose, i would bloom forever. forever with you
if my love were a blanket i would be wwrapped around you forever
if my love were a fire, it will burn day and night become stronger as each day passes, it would burn endlessly
if my love were a mountain i would forever stay strong
if my love were words i would write you every song
if my love were a hug, ill hold you forever
if my love were a star, it would shine bright, but not as bright as your smile
my love for you is forever, you have all of me, my heart my soul, its yours for eternity

2007-06-19 08:30:16 · 17 answers · asked by robert m 1 in Singles & Dating

a friend of mine is going out with this guy, she's 22, she's old enough to make her own choices, and do what she wants, her and her new boyfriend seem great together, they have everything i wish i had with the guys i go out with, it's like they're meant to be, but the only problem is they're 28 yrs. apart! he doesn't look his age, he looks more in his late 30s, and he's a really great, nice guy....so is it really wrong, i mean ppl now days are dating other ppl way older or way younger, like demi n ashton, donald trump, and lots of others. so is it really wrong? should i be worried about her? what would you do?

2007-06-19 08:27:35 · 10 answers · asked by Unknown 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 08:26:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in the section single and dating, all the people who ask bout situations and if "the person likes them" maybe the other person they are talking bout asked the exact same question bout them , talkin bout each other...

and u can only find out cuz of the situation... lol this is wierd but i was just wonderin if it has happened to u?

2007-06-19 08:23:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to have a big family when i grow up. My mom came from a big family, and my dads was normal sized. I love the idea of having lots of kids around. But how many is to many kids? Years ago it was easier to raise a bunch of kids since things were cheeper and most people did have big families. I was thinking at least 4 kids. What's your opionions on raising large families now a days? How many is too many kids? will it be fiancially possible to raise 4 or more kids? will it be too hard on the kids to be so many? how many kids do you think is a good number to have and why?
Thanks in advance! Please try to answer!

2007-06-19 08:20:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Last night my boyfriend and I agreed to go his Papa's house for an hour cuz I was sick but I really wanted to come. Well we ended up staying outside for 3 hours while he talked to his friend who he talks to on a daily basis. He happens to work right next to his grandfathers house. Well it got really cold cuz it was getting late. After standing in the cold for 2 hours, his friend left for a second he said we'll go in a minute cuz i was getting cold, not feeling good, and really tired from being sick. so i waited another hour with him so I ended up going inside the house and talked with his Papa. But deep down I was really mad because we agreed to an hour and and he stayed till 10:30pm knowing i was sick and i have to get up early for work the next day. It somewhat felt like he didn't care. I didnt say anything cuz I hate arguing and sounding like a b*tch. Was i wrong for being upset? should I of said something? What would you of done in that situation?

2007-06-19 08:20:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this girl on saturday night at a party, and we talked for an hour straight. I got her number and I text her today, but her reply was cold (meaning she gave me a bitchy response). What did i do wrong? did i wait too long?

2007-06-19 08:17:29 · 57 answers · asked by Mykal S 2 in Singles & Dating

I've liked her for ages but nothing came of it so I guess me and her are just friends. So anyway, I asked this other girl out. On the day of the 'date' something compelled me to call up my friend and talk to her. I was feeling insecure and my friend said 'i'm sure she likes you, you're a good guy'. Then that same evening she called me up asking how the night went and she said 'i'm always here for you'. A few days later she called me up again to ask whether I liked this new girl. Could she finally have feelings for me or is she just being a good friend? Am I reading too much into this?

2007-06-19 08:13:53 · 13 answers · asked by Adam Antium 4 in Singles & Dating

I am planning a wedding. I'd like to go with the colors lime green and hot pink.....
What months would these color goes best with?

2007-06-19 08:12:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

tony has 2 children(5+7 yrs)with his exwife who he has joint custody with and is a totally devoted dad.His children are his exwifes "life" and she is very possessive of them regarding me.Plus the fact she was not all that happy about our marrige(she allways thought he would come back to her).Since tony is such a good dad he never misses any school/sport activites the boys have so i have to deal with her on almost a daily bases.Yes i could stay home but i like to go too and see the boys and spend time with my husband.She makes it obvious she does not like me and i will never be "family" to the boys.I have asked tony to talk to her but he does not want to get involved and make waves(taking the high road for his sons)Please "exwifes" don't attack me i'm asking for your help.

2007-06-19 08:11:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when I carry large sums of cash in a paper bag in my pants. Does she only love me for my money?

2007-06-19 08:08:51 · 11 answers · asked by alfred pimples 1 in Marriage & Divorce

That your already at the right age but still can help your mom with her finances or ur bro with his studies. That if only you have the resources that you would help them but right now you just cant? Its hard to feel this way. Like a hero with no powers.

2007-06-19 08:08:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What do i do when i never knew my mother or father for 10 years an then all a sudden they come into my life an think htey can rule over me. I kno im young but just to think of them coming into my life tellin me whats wrong an right just dont seem to BE right. After when i was little my dad left when i was 4months an my mom left when i wasnt even 2years old. Tryin 2 say they love me...if u loved me y did u leave?

2007-06-19 08:07:43 · 9 answers · asked by Kimberly O 1 in Family

I split with my man because i thought i was bored & needed some more excitement in my life, i wanted to be single & thought we were too young so i dumped him & borke his heart.
Since we have tried to get back together but he says he cant look at me in the same way & that i was right & he didnt want a relationship, is there anyway to win him back ?

2007-06-19 08:07:26 · 25 answers · asked by theprettypoolplayer 2 in Singles & Dating

Here's the situation...
I'm in love with my cheating ex-boyfriend.
My best friend is in love with me
My ex only loves me as a friend but his last words to me before he officially dumped me were "There will always be...something..."
I want to get back together with my ex....
And my best friend who's madly in love with me has asked me out.

So....should I go out with him? Please answer by saying "Yes" or "No", but please feel free to elaborate a little :)

2007-06-19 08:06:49 · 15 answers · asked by Gee=) 2 in Singles & Dating

this is a desire of the soul. can anyone help?
i am ready to leave the child with the first wife even and leave the world for ever not to appear again.

2007-06-19 08:05:44 · 55 answers · asked by venitha d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys always stare at me but never say anything. I don't think I am an unfriendly person. I just can be a little on the shy side when I don't really know someone. I can be smiling and laughing out with friends and still nothing.

2007-06-19 08:05:17 · 9 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 08:03:19 · 16 answers · asked by Casey 3 in Weddings

What is the best internet dating site out there? Match? I have actually heard a bunch of complaints about eHarmony, which I thought was supposed to be good.

2007-06-19 08:02:59 · 14 answers · asked by Farotech.com 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 08:02:57 · 31 answers · asked by iloveyoonsim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Not gigantically tall of course....imagine you meet someone blonde, funny, out-going and genrally happy would you be put off if she was about 4 inch's taller than you?

Do guys really think girls who are taller than them are sick?

2007-06-19 08:02:46 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in west Phoenix and need someone trustworthy and reasonable. I need the bodice taken in and the front hemmed.

2007-06-19 07:59:57 · 4 answers · asked by teachingmomff 1 in Weddings

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2007-06-19 07:59:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The sex in my marriage is not alot, I'm not much of a physical person (I have a form of Autstim/heart failure). My husband SAYS its not a big deal. We only make love 2-3 times a mo. But last night he was going off on me on how he does not beleive I'm attracted to him because i am not physical and he was venting alot about the subject!!. My husband use to be roantic and have music playing and light candles but he said its pointless to do that because he knows me and it does not mean it will lead to making love, so he just stopped being romantic all together. I asked my husband if he would still marry me if we met and the sex was as it is now, and he said soley based on the sex alone he does not know if he would ask me to marry him. This breaks my heart so much. And now by his reply I feel he was never IN LOVE with me to begin with. I'm unsure now if he loves me at all. When he said he does not know soley based on the sex if he would marry me again does this mean he does not love me?

2007-06-19 07:59:00 · 30 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If I chose to use lilac, champagne and sage-how would I incorporate them into everything? Or would that just be too much?

2007-06-19 07:56:22 · 24 answers · asked by VDJ44 3 in Weddings