I split with my man because i thought i was bored & needed some more excitement in my life, i wanted to be single & thought we were too young so i dumped him & borke his heart.
Since we have tried to get back together but he says he cant look at me in the same way & that i was right & he didnt want a relationship, is there anyway to win him back ?
2007-06-19 08:07:26 · 25 answers · asked by theprettypoolplayer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no. you had your chance
2007-06-19 08:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by Max 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him back again? The pas t is past he is obviously not into you besides you broke his heart just because you felt you were "bored" . I can absolutely understand why he wouldn't want to be with you and chances are some time past and he's changed and so have you, you might not even like each other anymore even if you do get together, so just find a new person and move on don't break his heart again.
2007-06-19 15:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as you may want to get back with him. You have to understand that if he loved you, you broke his heart really bad in which that is never fixable. You have to understand that he can never look at you or feel the same about you because he will be to scared to have his heart broken again. If you did feel that way, then there is no reason to get back with him, because who's to say that later down the road you decide you dont want to be with him again, then you will break his heart for a second time, which could be very bad. Plus, he my and do revenge back on you. You never know. I suggest keeping the current engagement of breaking up, and do not hook back up.
2007-06-19 15:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unfortunately you have lost this one. Try being friends only. If that is not possible- you will HAVE to move on. Our minds often trick us into thinking the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. Once you've hopped the fence though- it is nearly impossible to get back. Let it go.
2007-06-19 15:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by southbelldixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Persistence is key in your situation. You have to show him you're different by focusing all of your attention on him. While normally I wouldn't say that's a healthy thing to do, the fact is he needs to see you've changed and that he means the world to you. If you're honestly changing and want him to know that, just stick by him and get to know him better - that way he'll know you're serious. Serious relationships last even through the worst knowledge of the other person. Good luck!
2007-06-19 15:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is no way, now he has the right to find someone who WONT break his heart like you did. tough luck and next time really evaluate your feelings for someone because you dont want to make the same mistakes.
2007-06-19 15:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing u can do is prove to him that u really care about him n show how much u do care....do things with him that u didnt do with him before. figure out ways n things to do to make the relationship work
2007-06-19 15:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by *S!LL!3G00B3R*TTC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it takes time. Get another boyfriend or stay single for a while. While your single/taken stay in touch ith your ex. Remind him of why he used to really like you.
2007-06-19 15:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by Tommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will be honest...if a man say no, is "no"...u allready had what u had...dont try getting him back...is not going to be the same if he told u so....is hard for a man to go back with someone that broke his heart...
move on baby...is hard i know....give a little time ...
2007-06-19 15:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by rokeroker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you already tried Pull Your Ex Back system? Go to this url : http://www.ExRecoveryFormula.com/ . This might definitely help you!
2014-08-18 14:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to take him slowly and make him realise that u have changed and that u want to make this step and that u care for him and u really want to be with him not like last time
2007-06-19 15:14:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋