Family & Relationships - 19 June 2007

It seems that it is becoming more popular to be more fake about emotions involving attraction, love and romance. What is with this recent trend of being witty over being romantic. The term "casanova" seems to be prevalent in todays society. This is a time where if you were to recite Neruda or Lorca in your twenties your supposedly just trying to be a casanova and get laid, yet there are a lot of people who actually believe in poetry and romance , why is it that a moronic rapper talking about "my baby or my bu" is considered romantic when it has no poetic value, yet for some reason in society being able to talk in a slang vernacular and act like a "player" is cool, and then woman say they don't like players , yet romantics and players are two very different types, what is funny is that woman are not avoiding players they are accidently avoiding the true romantics they seek and they find a player again because this society of full of cynical realist who can't believe in romance

2007-06-19 09:12:20 · 2 answers · asked by destinazione20 1 in Singles & Dating

Please provide your answer and reasoning why...

thanks for your input!

2007-06-19 09:10:45 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 09:09:33 · 10 answers · asked by flubersnign 2 in Singles & Dating

Why?

2007-06-19 09:09:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have sent my so called Bf who have been avoiding me for th past couple of weeks an sms saying that ( I WANNA TALK TO HIM SERIOUSLY) with capitals and he didn't answer back so half an hour later i sent him an sms saying that am fed up with the way he treats me and that i deserve better than that and although i was going through a rough time lately and busy with my exams i was still thinking of him and worried about him and was calling him and sms him but he never answered back !!STILL he didn't even support me or cared for me!!! was i harsh? if he did answer back what shall i do?? if he didn't answer shall i just move on with my life!! and forget about a 4 year relationship !!!

2007-06-19 09:08:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im about to be 16 and i just dumped my ex partner, because he was just to old for me , he is 20 let alone he was boring as hell, so did i do the right thing??

2007-06-19 09:08:17 · 13 answers · asked by that girl 2 in Singles & Dating

well i was doing a praformance and u no when u do belly dances u were a short top right so yea i wore that and pants and so i did my dance that he calls me over to him and says when those clothes get small or you why dont u give it to me and me and u can play with it togethher
i told my parents bout this and i still cant get over it he was drunk that night and later he goes up to my mom and says give me ur daughters number and so my mom slaped him and yea and i see him every tuesday like today i will see him at the temple and he tries to talk to me but i dont wanna face him i'm to scared...my mom said to stay away from him i do but im scared i cant get the words out of my mind when i see him is there a way i can stop thinking about this and i dont wanna talk to him about this so plzz tell me a way that i could get over it! plzzz im scared of talking to my dad sometimes

2007-06-19 09:05:33 · 21 answers · asked by Zahera♥ 4 in Family

i like melina and she bangs my bro but imet her 2 days ago and she started hangin out wit me alone like my bro waz talkin to a bunch of guys and she goes marcus come here lets go to my house and she did that like 5 times

2007-06-19 09:04:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this boy please tell me if he likes me.He likes to trouble me,play with me,hit me and run,stare at me and some times smile at me and when I look at him he stop looking at me and laugh,call me chicken,But we never use to talk not like in the girls way and he is now maybe my friend I don't know.Tell me please does he.

2007-06-19 09:04:07 · 3 answers · asked by Abigail W 2 in Singles & Dating

My husaband and I have been married only a year and have gone through drug, alchohol and now porn addiction. he has been getting on the computer and looking up porn. i told him right from the beginning how bad it makes feel and he promised he wouldnt do it anymore but of course did. then i put a lock on the computer and that didnt work either because he still looked at it somehow. im all out of ideas and am fed up with getting my heart broken with every addiction especially since he dosnt even beleive he has a problem. yesterday i packed his stuff and simply said it was over and of course he begged his way back into my life and i let him, only if he looked up how to fix his problem with me on the internet. i left room for one minute to go pick up our crying baby and he somehow managed to look up two porn sites in that time. now guys say its not a problem but when it becomes a need rather than a desire, well i think there is something wrong with that.

2007-06-19 09:03:53 · 30 answers · asked by nikkip559 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think about this?

This American woman isn't conventionally pretty but is wealthy. Man doesn't have a job (in school studying business) and is not a US citizen. She has 2 middle-school-aged kids. They've known each for less than a year. He's moving in in July and they're getting married in December.

What's your impression?

2007-06-19 09:01:07 · 36 answers · asked by Claire 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was recently proposed to and I only have...about 7-8 months to plan a wedding. I know it usually takes a while so I want to start doing the little things I can do now or at least start on. Is there a website that has a list of things u have to do/should do before a wedding????

2007-06-19 08:58:48 · 9 answers · asked by Alicia F 1 in Weddings

I scheduled our wedding rehearsal for 4:30 with the dinner catered at the same location at 6:00pm. At that point out of town guests and family will join the wedding party for dinner. Is an hour and a half long enough for the actual rehearsal portion? We have a wedding party of 16 and our soloist, organist and pastor will be there as well to walk through.

2007-06-19 08:58:42 · 12 answers · asked by ladymai21 2 in Weddings

I've been with this man for 7yrs and we have two children together but we break up for about 4 months and while we we're break up he got another girl pregnant and now the baby will be 2 years old in Sept. but since then we've done really good and we just got a new home together but today he had his son's mother come by while I was at work to get diapers for the baby....it made me mad b/c I wasn't there Should I have got mad?

2007-06-19 08:58:27 · 40 answers · asked by ~LoveSpell~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-19 08:57:38 · 21 answers · asked by x_x_sweetlove_x_x 1 in Singles & Dating

I was at a fair and saw a booth and wondered whether anyone would buy them.

2007-06-19 08:56:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would it bother you or be a problem if your girl proposed to you? Keep in mind you guys are talking about getting married in about 3 years. So does it matter if she proposed first?

2007-06-19 08:54:44 · 6 answers · asked by h0n3y_l1ps_27 5 in Singles & Dating

My sister has told me that she does not plan to have me as her matron of honor because I live too far away. I understand that she has a right to choose whomever she pleases. She's picking a friend who she has known for two years, and excluding me entirely -- as she claims that I can't be a bridesmaid because I am married (???). She is selecting her attendants as if it were a job interview, based on their ability to perform certain tasks, not on how close she is with them, or how appropriate their inclusion would be. I'm competent to perform these duties -- in fact, I used to work as an event planner. I feel that even though I live miles away, I can do 90% of the work, and everything on the day itself, and I hate to admit it, but I am seriously offended. We have always been pretty close, so that doesn't seem to be the issue. She served as my maid of honor while living far away -- I simply divided those duties among others who were closer, and let her have the appropriate "honor". So...?

2007-06-19 08:54:35 · 21 answers · asked by Ali Cat 3 in Weddings

He called frm India.. I am in Singapore. Looks gud n all.. He spoke for 40mins on da phn!!.. He sounds serious... bt im ashamed i ws juz kiddin wen i chattd..

2007-06-19 08:54:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

because I dripped the motor oil on her new rug as I was cleaning the engine rod. She told me to never do this in house. Now she says she is very sad. Should I buy her new apron to make her satisfy.

2007-06-19 08:53:40 · 17 answers · asked by alfred pimples 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I always told myself I would be cool if my best friend got a girlfriend, but I think its becoming a wedge between us.....we still hang out a lot, but she comes everywhere, and its weird because I was good friends with her before, but now their together and when we hang out its really weird for me because they are always together....it just feels like they don't care about me, i'm not trying to be selfish or anything but I can never hang alone time with him, I'm not used to sharing him....I talked to my pastor and he said to just pray and forgive my friend, but I really wanna call my friend out on it, what should I do?

2007-06-19 08:52:12 · 17 answers · asked by Randolph 3 in Singles & Dating

iam a married man , the above is my story.

2007-06-19 08:51:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean how do they find out without asking the question directly?

2007-06-19 08:48:23 · 21 answers · asked by all4love87 1 in Singles & Dating

Would he drive you insane?
Could you make it through being there with him, alone?
With only him to talk to?
Only him to share everything with?
Or would you be the one to drive him insane?
What do you think would happen?

2007-06-19 08:47:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine has a severe case of bad breath. Should I tell them about it? And how?

2007-06-19 08:47:40 · 11 answers · asked by ♫Problem Child♫ 7 in Friends

My son is turning 18 soon and has recently begun dating. However his first girlfriend has very small breasts, probably an A-cup. Now god bless his heart, he loves her ever so much, but I'd like to set a firm precedent to avoid future heartbreak.

I wouldn't want him to be ridiculed by his friends and classmates for 'going out with a flatty' as I would have been back in my younger years. Unendowed females are also generally emotionally unstable due to low self-esteem (I don't want a teenage drama queen on my son's hands!)

My biggest worry is that many years down the line, their female children would be 'flat chicks' as well. I'd like my son to be a spittin' image of his old man, and to help him avoid some obvious mistakes.

Should I forbid him from dating her or let him figure it out for himself over time?

2007-06-19 08:46:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The peace order was for you to leave her alone after you wouldnt stop calling or coming to her house.

2007-06-19 08:42:18 · 16 answers · asked by missalisa05 1 in Singles & Dating

omg my bf told me somthing that he got a girl prgeant but she misscaried what should i do i dont wanna have kids right now

2007-06-19 08:38:46 · 21 answers · asked by Daniellover 1 in Singles & Dating

guys, l am meeting up w/ an old (male) friend, in a few weeks for the first time in about 6 months. he used to like me, and l wanna look good. not s*****, but good.
what should l wear? any ideas?

you can email me too w/ ur ideas.

also, if you can think of anything fun we could do that would be kool too.
thanx!

2007-06-19 08:38:25 · 14 answers · asked by sweet tart 1 in Singles & Dating

I told this man I would go on a date with him when he came in to my state. its been a couple of months and and hes still so thrilled at the idea of going on a date. mind you i never met him and dont know much abt him. anyways so recently i found out that he wont be the guy for me but how am i suppose to tell him. hes still soooooooooo excited. I dont know how to tell it wont work. his family told him a long time ago to let it go and find a diff girl but for some reason he got excited and stayed attached to me. but i just realized it wont work when he said certain things. how do i tell him without hurting him and having his family laugh at him?

2007-06-19 08:38:17 · 6 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Singles & Dating