Family & Relationships - 19 June 2007

Someone that knows both me and my ex-mother-in-law says that she was telling her that everything bad that has happened in the family is my fault.

She says that I have ruined her son, her granddaughter and my own life.

I left my ex-husband because he was abusive and controlling. Yet, she still blames me for all of the problems.

I know that I have not been strong and have promised them many times that I would come back and then did not follow through.

She also said that my brother does not want to talk to me and everyone is tired of me. My own parents have been the cause of all of the problems.

I don't think that she is right. I wonder if I was different (stronger and more assertive), I could have made our family life better.

I do worry about my daughter a lot though.

I am upset about my brother making comments about me to my ex-husband. I can't trust my own family also.

2007-06-19 10:46:21 · 12 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

just had a masive argument with the so called wife , we have split up but still living together, i refuse to sleep on the sofa she has bought the cover down and a pillow saying you are not sleeping in my bed, i can see this getting really messy when i go up to bed , our bed , ps no matter what i am not sleeping on the sofa , were do i stand?

2007-06-19 10:45:56 · 14 answers · asked by doggy dog 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Particularly if you have children. He does have a right to know anyone who is going to be around the children,I suppose. But couldn't it cause a flare-up of jealousy? I haven't introduced them - although I think they would be civil - because I think it could bring complications in the long run. Maybe - plus,isn't it inevitable? My ex comes for the kids every other day; he's bound to meet my boyfriend eventually anyway. So,should I plan an appropriate situation? Or let things take their course? Opinions?

2007-06-19 10:42:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like to spoil my man.. in the bedroom.. kitchen..( meaing food) in all areas.. am i being a door mat..is your gf like that.. if not what you would think or due if she was

2007-06-19 10:41:51 · 13 answers · asked by vis 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-19 10:40:11 · 9 answers · asked by <.:X:.[-Fierce|\/|Deity.: 2 in Singles & Dating

Ill call him Adrian. Well when he got back around town. He happened to be at my cousins house, she called me to come over there, she didn't say anything about him being there, it was really surprising. So I walked thru the door greeted everyone. His back happened to be towards the door when I walked thru, So I said whose this little gangster sittin here? He turned around and it was him, My mouth jus dropped and I screamed "Adrian!" he got up and hugged me and he said come here. He made me follow him into the bathroom just so we can talk privately. But we couldn't cause part of the party budged in and messed that private talk up. They all walked thru n snapped a crazy pic of us. He knows how I feel for him. So just cause he pulled me off to a private chat. Does he like me?

2007-06-19 10:35:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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am i the only one whose ever felt this way?
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anyone else feel this way?=D

2007-06-19 10:25:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Boyfriend asked me the other day what i was talking to another boy about and i said all i said was hey because i hadn't seen him in al ong time because school got out and i said what r u talkin about and he said nevermind. What does that mean?

2007-06-19 10:25:02 · 14 answers · asked by ♥~Dee*Dee~♥ 2 in Friends

argh!

2007-06-19 10:24:04 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i want some hints on how i can make my wedding superb it should be of some good standard but not expensive.Iam planning to get married this coming October,looking forward for ur fruitful response.

2007-06-19 10:21:38 · 8 answers · asked by B K 1 in Weddings

My husband's friend has been after me for 6 months now..I have said No over and over..he keeps sending me flowers when they husband is at work(of course i throw them away)..My husband and I are newly weds(married for 1 year)..He (my husband friend) attended the same college with my husband and they play golf and hung out together a lot.

He has even sent me a diamond bracelet that i returned to him...Last night at a business function..while my husband was chatting with other people..His friend came behind and pressed against me so hard I could feel his pensis..I walked away..

Later he asked my husband and then me if he could dance with me..I said No but my husband insisted I dance with him..so i did..He was talking dirty and pressing against my breasts, he then squeezed my butt..I'm sick of this..

Should i tell my husband? and if so how do i approach my husband without making him feel like i'm trying to break their friendship..I know his friend will deny it?

2007-06-19 10:20:53 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am specifically interested in bank and phone records.

2007-06-19 10:19:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we're not divorcing right now, but just separating, and i plan on filing a few months after i move over. i'm just wondering if this choice can come back on me.

2007-06-19 10:17:15 · 11 answers · asked by elfkin, attention whore 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am helping out my friend..please give me some ideas to give to your bridesmaides. One idea is to give them each a box with jewlrey, like a neckalace, earrings and a bracelette. What are some other ideas? Thank you in advance for all of you who answers!

2007-06-19 10:08:48 · 23 answers · asked by sweet_truth 4 in Weddings

2007-06-19 10:08:36 · 39 answers · asked by hillman_avenger2006 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i posted another one like this and i guess cute is a better word. so guys what do u think?

2007-06-19 10:06:50 · 17 answers · asked by Me+You......Im back!â?¥ 1 in Singles & Dating

It's for a paper I'm working on for school. Thanks for your help.

2007-06-19 10:06:25 · 6 answers · asked by cdrfishi 1 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering how screwed I am in dating and finding someone decent and worth dating.

I found out a couple of years ago and my spine isn't straight anymore. It's not bad belive me it's not and you can hardly tell unless I wear a swimsuit. Can't even tell from the front.

Anyhow how screwed am I in dating? I mean I'm not ugly or anything and never had a hard time dating someone. But what I'm scared of is scarying them off.

So what I want to find out is if it's just a waste of time looking if it's a huge isssue.

Please be honest with me.

Thanks.

2007-06-19 10:01:39 · 17 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Singles & Dating

ex wife must be thinking.. in general, how do they ex-wives feel about their ex-man dating a younger and pretty female???

2007-06-19 10:00:48 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We just got married almost a year ago. He works alot and gets tired which I can understand. Is it too much to ask to have sex with the person i love more than 1-2 a month? He doesn't want to go to the doctor or get counseling again. What else do I need to do? I want to have a family with him.

2007-06-19 10:00:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have this guy friend who I started crushing on about a month before him and his girlfriend got together...

His girlfriend, who is kind of popular and really doesnt like me because of this e-mail that I send him about a month before they were dating. I told him I couldnt wait to hang out with him.

So now that they are a couple she wont let him speak to me if shes around. And the only time he will speak to me now is online! Is he worth all of this trouble? what should I do?

2007-06-19 10:00:30 · 10 answers · asked by ilmebbff 1 in Singles & Dating

so that our un-born child now will have her hyphenated name and not mine

2007-06-19 09:58:24 · 22 answers · asked by trademotion 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I do not like the idea of porn and I will not watch it. My bf does not watch porn neither( only in his past once in awhile when he was single) we are deep in or faith and this is another factor to why he does not want anything to do with porn. We are honest with eachother and open and tell eachother things all thetime. Recently, I was on his computer and checked his history.. it showed porn links about 5. I have checked his history plenty of times and never found anything. We have sex alot but it has slowed down because we r busy..we have been together for 2yrs. and we are healhty. This hurt me because I felt as though I am not good enough. He was really hurt that I found it, and said he wanted to tell me that he looked at it but closed it right away because he felt ashamed. I feel betrayed and I feel as though I cannot trust him. He said this was his first time since we were together..and he only looked cause he had an urge to. i dont believe him and I am still suffering.

2007-06-19 09:58:07 · 16 answers · asked by caysay d 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 09:57:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

don't treat me like a kid because i'm not. there is this guy, our dads have been friends forever and we have been for 16 years. we used to be together alot when we were younger but we started going different ways since he lived in another county. we started to grow apart. now, since we are getting to where we can do things on our on we're starting to hang out more and talk some. we still aren't as close as we were when we were smaller, though. i really like him and wouldn't mind a relationship. how do i arrange it and try to make this work??? what can i do? how do i do it? i really want this!

2007-06-19 09:56:42 · 2 answers · asked by Tucker<3 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy were completely in love for about a year, we had known eachother for 4 years before that and liked eachother the whole time but we never dated.. everything started gettin complicated, and we started having a lot of minor arguments... then he had an accident with his head, and started getting more and more stressed out about things. He finally told me he couldnt handle the stress anymore, so we ended us. He was somewhat friends with his bestfriends cousin, but they just talked on the computer, I had talked to her a few times too along with him. After me and him ended us, he said he liked her, and they started dating. Shes 15, he's 19 turning 20.. and im 17. Now Im really starting to miss him and I want him back in my life. He even got a tatty that involved me.. on his arm. I was the first girl he ever said "I love you" too. I still love him more than ever. His bestfriend... also my friend.. said hes only dating her to make me jelous, and that he still loves meandmiss'sme

2007-06-19 09:53:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You and your spouse are fighting...you both decide to go out.... You meet someone at a club, and they suggest going to a Hotel...You agree...("IT" happens)... When walking to your car from the hotel room with your new friend, you see your b/f or g/f walking out of a hotel room-with their new friend...and it is obvious they just got finished doing the nasty also..
Do you....
1. Get mad and start a fight even though you both did the same thing?
2. Go home with your b/f -g/f and call it even?
3. other..

Explain your answer


DONT BOTHER ANSWERING IF YOUR ANSWER IS SARCASTIC..AND DONT ANSWER IF YOU SAY "I'd Never do that!"

2007-06-19 09:52:36 · 7 answers · asked by Enchanted One 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 09:51:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know it's long but its a good one, PLEASE READ:

Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 yrs. We now live together, we are basically married, just not legally, that kind of a relationship...
For some reason, he had no trust towards me, he accusses me of cheating with EVERYONE, males, females and vegatables!! seriously!
He tells me that he WANTS to trust me but he has a "stong gut feeling" that tells him that I am being unfaithful or hiding something.
We have great communication so we always talk it out but he always ends up accussing me of cheating.
I would like to know if anyone has experienced this, male or female. Any advice????????

2007-06-19 09:51:02 · 12 answers · asked by Crzy Virgo 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys, do u mind if a girl is a little bit chubby? My boyfriend says he likes it, and I'm sure he loves me, but I don't know if he is just saying that he likes a little fat to make me feel better. I don't find myself unattractive and have many other qualities (this is for the sake of the question, not to sound full of myself). The weight is 145... what do u think?

2007-06-19 09:50:37 · 3 answers · asked by Maria M 1 in Singles & Dating