we're not divorcing right now, but just separating, and i plan on filing a few months after i move over. i'm just wondering if this choice can come back on me.
2007-06-19 10:17:15 · 11 answers · asked by elfkin, attention whore 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wish I would have moved a long time ago. If you go now when you have no legal obligation to stay...you can start to build a life there and it should be easier for you later. If he said you can go, just go. As long as you have not filed custody papers or anything like that...you should be okay. Ugh, I wish I knew this a year ago!
2007-06-19 10:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by Hot_Momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! It will bite in the ***! Wait until you file for the divorce, get his permission in writing, and make sure it's notarized! Then you will be covered as long as the court allows you to move the children out of state. But my question to you is why do you want to separate your children from their father? Those children need both of you!!
2007-06-19 10:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by hunting4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would, or not, is it a messy separation or very mutual ? Is he already jumping in the sack with someone and is she good for him. Regret is what can come back to bite you. Or the feeling of If I can't have this I'm not giving her that. I usually recommend watching all your Ps and Qs until papers are final. What happens in the next 6 to 24 months can greatly affect your entire life.
2007-06-19 10:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by Ray2play 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get it in writing and notorize it! To be completely sure, you should contact a lawyer. There seems to be a "loophole" for everything! What kind of Dad would allow that anyway? If you get his permission in writing (and notorized), it may not bide so well for him in court if it comes down to any type of custody battle. Sorry to hear about the separation. (I think)
2007-06-19 10:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by lulu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he can turn it against you. You might have to move back to the state where he is living in. Get a lawyer and have it in writing.
2007-06-19 10:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you have written notorized permission from him or the courts, then no. Without it you could have federal spousal kidnapping charges filed against you
2007-06-19 10:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do it the correct legal way, in writing, lawyer etc. Otherwise it will come back to haunt you.
Remember, that your kids deserve both parents in their lives no matter how you feel about your soon to be ex.
2007-06-19 10:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get it in writing. Get it at least notorized. Check with an attorney, it possibly can come back at you. Good luck
2007-06-19 10:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by J M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get his permission IN WRITING. If you do, he can't come back on you for it.
2007-06-19 10:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by Leah 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get it in writing, check with a lawyer before you do anything
2007-06-19 10:22:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋