Family & Relationships - 19 June 2007

I saw like 5 min of big love and i had tons of questions. stupid things like "if trifectas are ok" to more logical/pertinent questions like " what is the core belief? what are the religious connections? are half brothers considered half or just brothers? is there a "main wife"

2007-06-19 12:56:46 · 7 answers · asked by mr_ruphis 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife was taking a walk while pregnant with our twins and was hit by a car. We lost the twins and she was injured pretty bad. I actually have two questions. The first is what can I do to reasure her that the death of the twins is not her fault. She continues to blame herself for the accident, what can I do to make sure she doesn't fall into a depression?
My second question is, she's been in the hospital for a week now and she hasn't seen our other two kids(2 and 3 months) since the accident and it is hell for her to be away from them. She's been begging me to let her come home and as much as I want to, I don't know if I should. We can afford to have a nurse and whatever we need for her to be at home and monitored. So, should I let her come home?

Only serious answers please!

2007-06-19 12:50:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am all ears..

2007-06-19 12:49:37 · 12 answers · asked by Page 4 in Singles & Dating

Please only people who are serious. I feel as though I have no one to talk to, and I can't afford counseling..

2007-06-19 12:49:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well he's okay with the just crushing part. the problem is that his brother talks to me complaing about his wife not performing her " married duty" and i guess my b/f told him about some of the sexual stuff we do ( i guess brothers talk like that ) and now the brother makes comments and acts really interested in me and its making it hard to have just a crush on him because me and my man are in a bit of a funk ourselves...what should i do???????
me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and it's just recently that we started hanging around more with his brother.

2007-06-19 12:48:55 · 20 answers · asked by sweetcalif24 2 in Singles & Dating

One of my guy friends that I like A LOT has just got a myspace and I'm afraid that he's going to see another girl that he thinks is attractive and go with her and start talking to her... He's one of those guys that I wouldn't want to lose as a possibility of a relationship... What do you think I should do? I don't want to get hurt.. :(

And yes he's interested in me

2007-06-19 12:47:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 12:46:09 · 24 answers · asked by soccer grl 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm making this assumption based on the last question I asked about dumping your partner after they gained 50 lbs.

2007-06-19 12:44:16 · 10 answers · asked by savagegrace 4 in Singles & Dating

Question about meeting in the judges chambers?
When my EX beat me up in another state( years ago), and I took him to court, I was given a court appointed attorney. I am now living in FL, he's from another state, and they said I have to have my own attorney. He has one that showed up for the 1st court date stating his client knew nothing of the proceedings. I showed the judge copy of receipt for the supeona. It was then rescheduled for tomorrow morning in her chambers.

2007-06-19 12:42:58 · 2 answers · asked by lady 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-19 12:41:55 · 51 answers · asked by toietmoi 6 in Singles & Dating

if he is a gentlemen not a rocker.

2007-06-19 12:40:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are great together we laugh we cy we love each other soooo dear and even if someone says we aren't perfect and make fun of us we ignore them and continue our love. but...... I have a lil problem with the phone I never talk so much when on the phone just when Its in person... so everytime we are on the phone he always ask "are u du,ping me?? cuz ur not talking" I'm not braking up with him I just don't know what to say to him I'm shy and like to talk to in person but he hangs out at a skate park I'm not allowed to go to... does anyone have advice for me to talk to him better on the phone pr do I just continue what I am doing and don't talk on the phone??????????

2007-06-19 12:40:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Question about meeting in the judges chambers?
When my EX beat me up in another state( years ago), and I took him to court, I was given a court appointed attorney. I am now living in FL, he's from another state, and they said I have to have my own attorney. He has one that showed up for the 1st court date stating his client knew nothing of the proceedings. I showed the judge copy of receipt for the supeona. It was then rescheduled for tomorrow morning in her chambers.

What do I need to know or expect? Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated.

The charge is harrassment / stalking.

Thanks for your time in answering this question.

2007-06-19 12:38:49 · 3 answers · asked by lady 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My in-laws are too much into religion and worship. All they watch on TV is sanskar channel. I think this is a big reason that they are completely disconnected with our generation. When my father-in-law visits us I find it very awkward watching any light entertainment stuff in front of him.The result is I get terribly bored in his company. They never watch any new movies or anything entertaining on TV. They still talk about stuff like girls are meant to be given to another family and their previous family does not have those rights on them any longer after marriage! God! Being a well educated and independent woman it's so frustrating to hear all this. They are nice but extreemly overbearing. They want complete right over me and find it difficult to accept my family in my life.I have started confronting these views but still have a long way to go. Any suggestions?

2007-06-19 12:38:43 · 14 answers · asked by Deeps 1 in Family

2007-06-19 12:38:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently moved to a different state away from my bf of only 4 months. He wants to contine the relationship but so far he hasn't done much to keep us together. He barely calls me or texts me. I am usually the one who does it. He was going to fly down and visit me in July and meet me in SD in August, but now he has canceled for August. I'm assuming he isn't coming in July either now. Does anyone have any advice for me or comments?

2007-06-19 12:38:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'd like to get married on the beach with a few family members and close friends present, and then have a reception possibly at a restaurant on the beach or sound. I don't want to spend more than $1000 though! Is this feasible? Does anyone know of any locations in NC? Any ideas and suggestions would be greatly appreciated ~ Thanks!

2007-06-19 12:37:50 · 4 answers · asked by Penelope 3 in Weddings

i was just reading a report about the jamie bulger case. iwas young when it happened, but now i ahve a two year old son and i cant contemplate how anyone can do that!?

why has the world gone so screwed up? i cant get my head around it. i know everyone asks why...but they do it half-heartedly. i honestly want to know why people want to bring children up in a world were things like this happen.

im terrified to let my son out by himself. i know that at some point it has to happen, and that terrifies me.

am i the only person who thinks like this. and if not, if theres lots of us, then why isnt more happening? why are we just brushed under the carpet.

living scares me. it shouldnt be like that, i dont what to constanly be asking why.

2007-06-19 12:37:24 · 22 answers · asked by littleladyclaire 2 in Family

He's my baby daddy and i love him to death and i really need him because we have a 5 month old daughter together. we have been through thick and thin together. so help me please.

2007-06-19 12:37:18 · 6 answers · asked by ~ mizz mitchell~ 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy....but hes a grade over me.... i kind of know him but not really know him....but id really like to ....so what should i do ?? im really really shy around guys i dont really know but if its a friend....im like a little sis....always bugging them and talking to them...but otherwise, .... hes friends with a bunch of guy friends of mine....so how do i get to know him a little better ??

2007-06-19 12:35:48 · 9 answers · asked by Counting the Days. 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend she is getting divorce she move out from the apartment and left the kids with the father now she wants the kids back, but he said no he's going to keep the kids
she needs to know what can she do about it

2007-06-19 12:34:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi my name is Alexis and my friend Ashlen has a cousin named Kyle and when someone ticks him off he gose wild can you tell me whyP.S he is my cousin too.

2007-06-19 12:31:42 · 2 answers · asked by TEXIE 1 in Friends

maybe it's when you ask yourself if it's over? maybe it's when they tell you it's over. maybe I still love him too much to leave. I'm not sure if he still wants to work things out, but I do love him even if his idea of love is different from mine. How do you KNOW that its over?

2007-06-19 12:31:37 · 6 answers · asked by The thinker 4 in Singles & Dating

Just recently, my best friend Dennis. began to date sombody I thought of as a great friend. Now that him and the girl (Maria) are dating, I feel more strongly for Maria. I didn't want to hurt either of them, so I tried to feel happy for them, and get over her, but I can't stop thinking about her, I can't forget her. She's still my friend, but I wanted more. What do I do?

2007-06-19 12:30:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

could it wanting to feel young and care free again?

2007-06-19 12:27:19 · 9 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just what exactly does this mean to have closure?

Does this mean they wan't to get the last word on something and want a man to keep his mouth shut?

2007-06-19 12:24:27 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

3 months ago my ex broke up with me, we were together for almost a year, i love him so much i still do love him! Going through a break up is hard, and he started talking to this 20 year old girl who lives in canberra, he is also 20 and i am 16 although i am fairly mature for my age. He is head over heals for this new girl, he says he loves her with all his heart and thier love is true and she feels the same about him. Its killing me so much, one week he loved me the next he loves her, and there is not one thing i can do about it! He says he is madly in love with her personality and alot more. She is even moving up here in QLD to be with him :'( do you honestly think this relationship could work out, he did move on very quickly?? Can you find your true love at the age of 20?? Its just killing me because i love him soo much and i told him i would probly be the only girl who ever truely loved him for him he said it isn't true because his new girlfriend does.. Will they last? It hurts :'(

2007-06-19 12:23:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And would you tell them that was the reason? (as if they didn't know)

2007-06-19 12:19:08 · 38 answers · asked by savagegrace 4 in Singles & Dating

A: thick
B: athletic
C: average
D: perfect, size zero
E: healthy

I posted this question earlier that had images, but the PC police decided to report it.. Anyway, just curious.

2007-06-19 12:18:27 · 15 answers · asked by ☆Bombastic☆ 5 in Singles & Dating

So she could have sex with other dudes?

2007-06-19 12:16:38 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce