My boyfriend and I are great together we laugh we cy we love each other soooo dear and even if someone says we aren't perfect and make fun of us we ignore them and continue our love. but...... I have a lil problem with the phone I never talk so much when on the phone just when Its in person... so everytime we are on the phone he always ask "are u du,ping me?? cuz ur not talking" I'm not braking up with him I just don't know what to say to him I'm shy and like to talk to in person but he hangs out at a skate park I'm not allowed to go to... does anyone have advice for me to talk to him better on the phone pr do I just continue what I am doing and don't talk on the phone??????????
2007-06-19 12:40:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of people don't enjoy talking on the phone. You guys need to compromise on this issue. Like more face time for you, and you try to talk some more on the phone.
2007-06-19 12:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For you to be having a relationship problem over not being able to talk on the phone and you aren't allowed to go a skate park, I am guessing you are pretty young, haha. The guy you like doesn't sound too smart considering he thinks that you not talking on the phone that much correlates to you breaking up with him... Just ask him flat out how he could think that you not talking on the phone means you are breaking up with him. That should embarass him and he will stop saying that.
2007-06-19 12:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by LNLT2130 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel - I absolotely LOATHE talking on the phone. I'd rather have my teet pulled out with a rusty pair of pliers than pick up the phone "just to talk".
The easiest way to avoid it is to keep your conversations short, and just spend more time with your b/f - and do all the talking then. I'm sure he wouldn't mind spending that extra hour or so with you intstead of staring at the TV while on the phone :):)
2007-06-19 12:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to him that you love him but you are not very good at talking on the phone n you are the same with everyone when you talk on the phone. My boyfriend dunt like talking much on it either x
2007-06-19 12:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I thought I was the only person who absolutely hates thinking up small talk for the telephone! Just explain it to him as best you can and he'll eventually accept that as part of your normal makeup. (He's probably going to think it's BS at first but over time he'll see that it's a valid part of you). You'll be just fine.
2007-06-19 12:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him about stuff you would normally talk about in person. Or if you come to a blank ask him stuff like what he's doing and tell him about your day. Or tell him something you heard that you thought was interesting and ask him general questions. Something you guys talk about is bound to make conversation.
2007-06-19 12:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by for_keeps8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep th phone talk simpile. Talk about school sports or lame teachers. Youre boyfriend feels neglected because youre not having " phone sex " with him. We guys feel this way because we need reasurrance from our girlfriends that we are loved 24/7!
2007-06-19 12:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by birdhoucerider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i know what you are going through because i had the same problem, just talk about what you like and how your day went or just make up reasons why you love him so much and inform him and ask him why he loves you, it works when you are bored or have nothing to talk about, try it!
2007-06-19 12:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by lil_sweetheart024 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love him then sneak to the skate park and see him! and talk to him on the phone!
2007-06-19 12:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Roxy ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth. there are lots of people who don't like to talk too much on the phone.
2007-06-19 12:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋