i really like this guy....but hes a grade over me.... i kind of know him but not really know him....but id really like to ....so what should i do ?? im really really shy around guys i dont really know but if its a friend....im like a little sis....always bugging them and talking to them...but otherwise, .... hes friends with a bunch of guy friends of mine....so how do i get to know him a little better ??
2007-06-19 12:35:48 · 9 answers · asked by Counting the Days. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all the best way 2 break the ice.is by asking him if he wants 2 go 2 the movies...it works all the time.....go watch a movie with him....and be slick at times...meaning rest ur head on his shoulders...he will more likely put his arms around u.....get his number...if ur 2 shy 2 call..then just text him....makes it easier 4 u.......after the movies give him a hug and u never know u might get a kiss...its all about the vibe.....MAKE SURE U SMELL SWEET!! so he can compliment u
2007-06-19 12:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by kisssmyg35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your first question just relax breath when you are around him just be yourself don't try to be something you are not okay. And to your second question to get to know him better hang out more with your friends who knows him and go out as a group and get close to him.It will be fun trust me. Just for now love him in secret but just be his friend right now . Approach him slowly. Just BE yourself that's all.
2007-06-19 19:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by Kika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just treat him like he's your friend. I don't even know if my advice will work because, I have the same problem. Just approach him like a friend rather than a crush. Then you'll feel more comfortable around him. Who knows, maybe you'll get to know him better. Well, good luck. Your country salutes you. *salutes*
2007-06-19 19:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by kailyn_is 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just happen to find yourself the same places he is surrounded by the same friends. Get to know him in a group setting and see if he's interested in seeking out your attention. Be yourself though - any guy worth having will notice you for who you are. :)
2007-06-19 19:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by razor_sharp_redhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he does and where he goes. "Accidentally" run into him and stir up conversation, then maybe ask him out to dinner with mutual friends. Eventually, you could ask him for a date once you get to know each other better. Asking too soon will turn him away from a relationship.
2007-06-19 19:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by gc_level_17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang more with your guy friends and he'll be there to..you can then get to know im better*
Doesn't matter if you're one grade below him..that's ok*
Just try to involve yourself more with your guy friends, watch them play ball, or get involved somehow with them, soon HE'll notice you*
Best Wishes
2007-06-19 19:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should make as many chances as possible to spend time with him and try to get to know him and make him notice you, try to talk about guy stuff like cars and basketball or skating, and try to act like you know what he is talking about, dont let him make you beg for attention though, or you seem desperate
2007-06-19 19:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by lil_sweetheart024 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem i just had a swim party and invited him and others guys 2 not make it odvious... then after we went swimming we played spin the bottle and swapped numbers
2007-06-19 19:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by Kacey A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to hang out with people you know well that he like too.
2007-06-19 19:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋